benefits r u continuing to see her because u like what she has to offer or because it's sex with no strings attached? My gf & I r having a debate & I have been seeing this guy 4 about 4 months with no strings attached & I want to keep it that way, but the last time we hung out there was something different. He was able to provide me with the best sex I have ever had. My gf said it was because he missed it & time. It had been a two months since I had been with him. I know I am not the only person he is sleeping with & that does not bother me. I just want to know am I right by saying he just comes back because it's just sex & there is no way a man who is your friends with benefits can miss your Va-Jay-Jay if your not his only one or is she right when she say just because there are no strings attached does not mean he can't miss it. She said a man once told her even though women think that a Va-Jay-Jay is just a Va-Jay-Jay to a man there is a difference & and only the man can feel that.
2007-03-14 09:50:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don’t want a commitment with this young man. I don’t even want a relationship with this young man so that’s not why I am asking this question. I am asking just because I want to know.
2007-03-14 10:01:42 · update #1
YES I AM BEING PROTECTED. IF I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP YOU GOTTA KNOW I DON'T WANT A DISEASE.
2007-03-14 10:10:19 · update #2
This may have started as no strings attached, but I think he's getting attached.
You know he has other gf's and you don't mind- do you have other bf's? And does HE mind?
If he's interested, but not quite ready to become exclusive, then at least reduce the number of partners you each have.
2007-03-14 10:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes what you have to offer and he's getting what he wants no strings attached. It's that simple, really. Don't get hurt by reading more into it than there is.
2007-03-14 16:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋