ok so theres this guy that i really like and i want to lose my virgintiy to him but, i dont know weather he likes me hes quite flirty but i dont know weather thats just his personality or that he likes me, what do i do? x
2007-03-14 09:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by xXxJane & CescaxXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is about 15 or old yes all my friends that are in high school(i am in middle school my mom is a teacher so i get to meet high schools) want to do that ,but i say what until you get marrgied!
2007-03-14 09:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow - losing your virginity is a HUGE deal. this guy is flirty -- so that means you're not dating him? you need to rethink why you want to have sex. Is it because you have friends that are doing it, or is it because you love this person.
Sex shouldn't be something that is so easy to give away - trust me, I've been there. Why don't you get to know this guy and date him before you decide you want to lose your virginity to him.
-- For the record, I'm 21 and wish every day that I still had my virginity. Think about how you'll feel about it later down the road
2007-03-14 16:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone Honeychild... Your virginity is not a pawn in a chess game. By your own admission... you don't even know if he cares for you or not. A word to the wise sista... wait. There is plenty if time for sex in another place and time. With sex comes responsibility.You have to worry about protection.. STD's.. pregnancy.. emotional issues and being responsible to not only yourself but the other person. Yes... you will be emotionally involved once you make that decision. I suggest talking to your parents about birth control and or parenthood. Be open and honest. Parents are not the ogres we believe them to be. These decisions need to be made carefully Honeychild... Talk about your feelings to someone. Think before you let it go...
2007-03-14 16:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by fatbabyceesay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you better get a life. you are talking about a situation that could make a mom before your ready. just wanting to lose your virginity is a pretty stupid idea.
2007-03-14 16:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say you need to get to now him find out if he likes you then date him for a while before you even think of losing your virginity to he. you don't now if he likes you your not going out how can you want to lose your virginity to a guy you don't now
2007-03-14 16:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your virginity until you know what to do, to me it sounds like you are far too young to lose your virginity, stay a virgin until you are married, trust me, you will make your husband that much happier and he will love you that much more, forever too.
2007-03-14 16:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to lose your virginity is a serious question,for me,i don't know is it for you,if you really like him and he really likes you,and you have a fully trust in him,maybe,but on the face of your story,it looks like you don't even know him well......how old are u?
2007-03-14 16:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Isidora 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont lose your virginity because you have a crush on someone that would be a terrible mistake and you would be very disappointed afterwards.Do it with someone you love and loves you back.
2007-03-14 16:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please think about what you do. This guy probably doesn't care about you, this guys most likely wants you for one thing only and that is to satisfy himself.
2007-03-14 16:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him on a date first!
2007-03-14 16:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by JEN P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋