Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

we are college students, and i am attracted to him, so i dont know if im just making this up in my imagination that he likes me too by opening up to me and telling me that sometimes he feels that he is a "god, a dog, the wind or sometimes just nothing" he was my classmate before and we did talk and he told me he stopped one year and just imprisoned himself in his room, because he cant meet his parents expectation, im too shy to really talk to him, but he smiles a lot when he sees me, and he stops talking to his friends when i pass by.
we have weird conversations, and i dont know he does not seem to forget every word that ive said before,
what could he be feeling

2007-03-14 17:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

do u rlly ask a girl to be ur girlfriend or are you guys automatically in a relationship when you spend a lot of time wid her..

if u do ask..den what do u say??

NO 'just ask' ANSWERS

2007-03-14 17:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend and I are in the middle of thinking if we should stay together...it is not offical on our break up. i found out he was lieing to me and i have been noting but honest to him. my question is...why do guys go out during this time of us being a part from each other...this is the time when we are supposed to be thinking about what we want to do...i just found out that now he is going to get a tat and he is always out now....why!?!!? what should i do?

2007-03-14 17:23:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i just got a girlfriend online (i know know bad for my first gf) but i got her online and we made plans for me to live with her when i graduate i feel uncomfortable ttelling my parents and my friends that im in love with a girl online and that i already made plans to live with her

2007-03-14 17:23:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, well there's the situation. My mother's side of the family has never seemed to like me. When we were younger they would always take my cousin's side in any argument, and they would insult me all the time. For example once my cousin had been making fun of me (I was 6 at the time, she was 8) eventually I started to cry. Then one of our aunts came over and she just started yelling at me for crying she started talling me that I was useless and that I couldn't do anything but cry. it's 10 years later and they've done the same thing over and over. My mother tells me that they don't hate me, but they would call me useless whenever she wasn't around, and they would pretty much always ignore me because I was shy when I was younger. The other thing is I'm the first person who isn't completely asian in my family, my father was caucasian and my mother was asian.
Is this normal or considered 'right'? Or did I break some sort of unwritten rule by being born and being a shy and quiet person?

2007-03-14 17:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 17:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by Razzyboo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a freak. I just have a very high sex drive and would like to live life a little. All I get here though are bitter answers from bitter women. I know there has got to be more women out there like me that thinkg about realising the fantasy of sex with their husband and another woman.

2007-03-14 17:20:45 · 22 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im about 5'6", 125 lbs, i write poetry & prose fiction. im funny & friendly. ive got a 4.0 & luv horseback riding on the beach. i like cuddling up & watching movies. my hair is blondish brown and dark grayish blue eyes.

2007-03-14 17:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am pretty lonely, i have been pretty much my whole life. people dont seem to like me very much =/ even people i have never met before. i try to be outgoing but nobody seems to want to do anything other than say "hi, how ya doin?". my whole life has been this way and lately its really been getting to me. i see other people with lots of friends, and i think to myself " what do they have that i dont?". since i have been this way for so long i have developed a sort-of self loath. i cant stand being me. i often wonder if theres something wrong with me..... i try and try and try to figure out why people dont like me. but i cant figure it out =[ ive asked people to hang out but they say "yea, we can hang out" but they just blow me off after that. i dont know what to do anymore. ive become very depressed because of this. and i even cry sometimes. and i pray that god will change things for me =/ but so far....nothing.

2007-03-14 17:20:26 · 11 answers · asked by ehrich69 1 in Friends

I'm separated. I have realized I'm codependant. I have no self respect anymore. I love my wife so much but I have lost my self identity. I used to love to watch sports (don't do it b/c she didn't like it and wanted my attention). I use to enjoy reading the newspaper (she wanted attention). I use to enjoy doing work projects around the house (she didn't think I did a good job and wanted it hired out). I enjoyed going camping w/ my son (but I feel guilty that I'm leaving her home; stopped doing that). I use to enjoy bike riding (feel guilty about leaving the fam on the weekend). Basically, I feel guilty about doing things by myself w/o the fam and have forgot everything that use to make me happy b/f we met and married. Now that were separated, I feel a complete void. Only have one friend that I can go to. All the rest are couple's friends that only talk to her. I'm reading 12 step prayer books to help me out. What else can I do?

2007-03-14 17:19:53 · 8 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i found out today that my sis's head was itchy and she automatically thought she had lice. my boyfriend was supposed to stay over for the weekend and wen i told him about my sis, he sed "what?!?! there's no way in hell im coming over this weekend". i havent seen him for 2 weeks now and now he doesnt beleive me that its not lice (its just dandruff and shes never around us!). how on earth am i supposed ot get him to come now?!? (and no, he wont beleive that i was joking)

2007-03-14 17:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 3 in Singles & Dating

why or why not

2007-03-14 17:19:09 · 10 answers · asked by cherrimimi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 17:17:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 17:17:01 · 2 answers · asked by Jellybean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom doesn't support my life. She make me feel really bad about myself and undermines me as a person and parent. It doesn't always appear this way on the surface, but her negative opinions of me and how I raise my kids run very deep, even though she don't always show it, and her views rub off on my kids. I used to try to communicate and work it out with her, but have given up as she believes that she is right and I am wrong (in life and parenting). Their is no room for us both to be right and my kids pick up on her views. (My kids are a baby and 7)

Am I wrong for keeping their relationship distant?

2007-03-14 17:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have two friends who were best friedns a pair of months ago, before my friend Jorge told his best friend ana laura that he had a crush on her.. how can I make'em talk to each other again?

2007-03-14 17:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so i will call them brian and andrew....i have known andrew going on 9 yrs...i love him with everything i have but were two different people...our lives collide with eachother..we have had our ups and downs as any couple but we always seem to find our way back to eachother..the only thing we really have in common is our love for eachother.....so can love conqueor all or is it only half the battle............and then there is brian....i have know him going on 3 yrs....he makes me laugh like no one has before and we are like two peas in a pod....we do everything together and he understands me to the fullest...he is everything any girl could ever want...but then there is something that wont let me give uip on andrew because i never want to wonder "what if"....what if i would have stayed with him...with brian i know what is ahead for me....with andrew im not sure but what i do know is that i love him..so do i follow my heart and go with andrew or do i follow my mind and go with brian

2007-03-14 17:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by cherrimimi 1 in Singles & Dating

is this a good idea or is there something I can do to get her back into the mood>

2007-03-14 17:14:11 · 22 answers · asked by AnonymousLovesicker 1 in Singles & Dating

my question is well it's about my friend. his sign is a cancer and my sign is a scorpio. my friend has an attraction for me an all but the thing is he's gonna reveal you know the attraction to me and it's gonna progress. does that me he will like me more?

2007-03-14 17:14:08 · 2 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

So i like my brothers friends, but they really don't even talk even close to how much they used to. I want him to know i like him, but i don't wanna be the one to tell him, because i always get embarrased and can figure out what to say. Also i have no friends that actually talk to him, and i don't wanna d it online, cause that's just lame.

Any ideas on wat i could do?

2007-03-14 17:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Tizmo 2 in Singles & Dating

im talkin to this girl i know and i think she is cool and all but i dont want to date her. i just want to hang out and **** she's cool to talk to and all but i just want to have sex and still be friends but not boyfriend girlfriend thing can anybody help me explain that to her with out pissin her off?

2007-03-14 17:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Austin D 1 in Singles & Dating

You know all the baseball bases dat are code for relationship bases. What are they?

2007-03-14 17:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by drewneemialover 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been very depressed for most of my life, but the last few years i've worked on myself and i'm almost happy. when i was young before i was depressed, i had alot of friends and no social problems. but since my depression, i stopped talking to most people, and found two good friends that weren't to well known in school. i've been nearly invisible. i've realized that i need to change, and i've made some ne friends, one in particualr who is very well known at school, and is an awsome person who really gets me. we started hanging, other people who knew her made friends with me and i'm a little more well known now. the thing is that i'm afraid of being hurt. i've opened up to her and at frist i though we could be best friends all the time, but she's moody and she's VERY good friends with ALOT of people. i'm afraid i'll somehow lose her or get hurt, and the fear makes me back away from her and all the other friends i've met. i want to be invisible again, but i know it's bad. advice?

2007-03-14 17:11:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It is so imberasing to tell your parents that you are in love. I just don't have the guts to do it.

2007-03-14 17:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by ♠♥becca♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

i was originally going for 09-08-07 but my priest was booked, so then i was thinking dec 1st. but now im thinking sept 15, or 22......oct...3...oct 20.....nov...3....nov 10...or dec 1..... which one do youll like? im in san antonio?

2007-03-14 17:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Weddings

If you are an adult, does your mother treat you like a child.
Mine doesn't treat me like anything, because she doesn't speak to me, but when she did .... What can be done about this?

2007-03-14 17:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by Proud Mama of 4 6 in Friends

My lodest son who is 12 heats his dad for leaving and my 3 year old just misses his daddy? My husband has left and went on to start his new life with his girlfriend and my kids are having a hard time with the speration.

2007-03-14 17:09:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whatever happened to wooing, sweeping a girl off her feet, or seducing her even? Honestly, what woman wants to be " wined , dined and 69d?" How in the world is that good for one's self esteem? Just asking. Saw it on TV and it made me throw up a little in my mouth.

2007-03-14 17:08:03 · 14 answers · asked by heatherclhn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant talk to girls i get shy ples help

2007-03-14 17:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by martin 1 in Singles & Dating

its true

2007-03-14 17:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by reaperfest1 1 in Singles & Dating