Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

I met this guy who is really hot. And, we've been chatting online for about a year. He's a cop in Bimingham, England....and oh my....is he hot!

I know that you have to be cautious and realistic with online romance. But, he tells me that he thinks he is in love with me and wants to come see me.

Another issue is that he has no kids of his own. He says he's fine with the idea of helping me raise my young daughter....but, I feel I'd be cheating him out of having his own kids....as I can't have anymore.

What do you think?

2007-03-14 17:06:58 · 19 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl have been goin out for like 3 months and she's always telling me that she loves me nyway i haven't seen her 4 like 6 weeks but like we talk on the phone everyday and like if i say something bout her u know like just playin wit her she takes itall personal and we sometimes argue on the phone alot cansomeone plz help me i don't know wat to do

2007-03-14 17:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have reached the crest of the hill.I ges I will be ridind the band wagon doun the other side now,Will you be joining me for the ride?Admission is free.

2007-03-14 17:06:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known this girl for like 4 years and when i told her that i liked her she ignores me and will not talk to me at all, in return i dont talk to her, but i really want to be friends with her, im too shy to talk to her though and we only talk on AIM, what should i do?

2007-03-14 17:05:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Tomorrow I'm going on a date for the first time and it has to be in the morning from like 11 to 2pm and it is with this guy. I'm normally not a shy person I don't know whats up with me being shy around him. He asked me to come up with a plan for tomorrows lunch or even not lunch but a time together and I have no idea where we should go. What do you think about a Movie with a guy that I have never stood so close to? It's more of a getting to know each other more than a date though. And I didn't want to go to an expensive restaurant for a short lunch period. I'm 19 he's 22. He gets shy around me too but he does have an excellent sense of humr which I love. Please give me ideas I don't want to sound awkard!

2007-03-14 17:05:43 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i like being around him, he's so sweet to me... but i don't get excited about him the way i used to with the guys i used to have crushes on... we've been going out for a few months.. what is this? i dont even know anymore...love? like? do i just like the attention? it's pretty obvious that he likes me and it bothers me that i'm not as excited about him...

2007-03-14 17:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, here goes. I'm 26, have slept with 30 people or so all of whom I was in atleast a three month relationship with- except for two which were stupid drunken one night mistakes. I've been in three relationships lasting approximately 2 years. I'm not sure if I actually have a problem or not but I can't seem to find anybody in years who I feel is particularly right for me. I'm smart, fun, loyal, trustworthy, all that. But I generally find that I have a higher sex drive than most women and they generally bore me in the bedroom or I end up feeling that I'm doing all the work. I'm talking about most of the partners I've had in, say, the last five years. Any thoughts or anything to add? Should I just forget about finding someone to have fun with behind closed doors and just focus on the other stuff? Really starting to think I'll never find anybody who's as into creative fun sex as me, but also the other stuff that makes for a great relationship - getting on great,trust,loyalty,fun,etc!

2007-03-14 17:03:42 · 26 answers · asked by T M 3 in Singles & Dating

i just need to know how to introduce myself to girls and start talking to them and what to talk about

2007-03-14 17:03:38 · 6 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

my and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years, and we have had sex plenty of times, we did it within 2 months into the relationship, but she refuses to do oral sex, she doesnt want it done to her and she doesnt want to do it, she says that is something very provate of hers she promises that when we get married it will happen but not before, whats going on?

2007-03-14 17:03:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter graduates in 2 months and for the past 2 or 3 months I have been really emotional. She is the baby and about to leave home. I can hear a song that just sets me off crying like a baby...such as Tim McGraw's My little girl. I feel heartsick but I know she has to make her own way and life in this world..any advise on how to get over this? She is all I have had for a long time so I am not sure if I am over-reacting. Thoughts?

2007-03-14 17:03:20 · 2 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I approach her?
How should I dress?
What should I do?

Don't tell me I should just be myself... >.>

2007-03-14 17:01:38 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

well this happens alot, i always seem to catch people staring at me....one in every one of my classes :D like... this girl in one of my classes.the funny thing see does is she glances at a clock by me and then looks down & starts staring.....at the corner of my eye i notice and look at her and she gets all fidgety and turns away quickly! but she does it everyday...or other some other people who start to stare cause they think im not looking or my head is sideways, but then i look at them and they quickly look away or up at the ceiling :D. Umm my question is lol :D what should i do when people stare should i say something...:) well not to be conceited (bad spelling) but people always tell that "im really pretty" which i dont see how im pretty ? is that why people stare!!? haha ,but im also very very very shy! so why do they stare ? and what to do?
wow my question must be alot of nonsense :D

2007-03-14 17:01:32 · 13 answers · asked by BrownieMonster 4 in Singles & Dating

IE, if we're twins I'd refer to her/him as my twin sister or twin brother. What if there were three of us, I know we're triplets but what do I call the other two? My triplet sister??? My triplet brother???

2007-03-14 17:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is your opinion on what age is a perfect age to start dating? This is your own opinion.

2007-03-14 17:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

that sometimes he feels like he is no longer human , that sometimes he feels like a dog, or just the wind, and lately just nothing

he texted this to me, and we were just texting one another to share anything that we feel, i like him , but i dont like to think about that, its just that im still a stranger to him,and he is a stranger to me, i just dont have the courage yet to talk to him face to face. and i know that sometimes its a lot easier to tell strangers about what you really feel deep within.

what is he trying to say to me,

2007-03-14 17:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey if my boyfriend lives far away, I don't know if he cheats on me or not. He's really cute, nice, and smart. But, still.

2007-03-14 17:00:39 · 2 answers · asked by Taylah. 3 in Singles & Dating

how can i make my mom happy? she's been very tired of her work but she is doing this for us (we're four (4) siblings in the family). she never thinks of her own welfare but she always thinks of us. can you suggest any gift? i just want to give her one as a token of love and a 'thank you' gift for loving us.

p.s. ----> she just broke up with my dad...

2007-03-14 16:59:57 · 14 answers · asked by lily 1 in Family

they have been best friends for years and ive only been dating him for 3 months. is it okay to be jealous?? what should i do??

2007-03-14 16:59:40 · 10 answers · asked by hotlilblondie831 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, i just got one question to ask all of you. How would you feel abt dating someone who had a 2 yr old daughter by a different man who didnt want to be in her life?

2007-03-14 16:58:57 · 16 answers · asked by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I was the one that broke up with him... I love him but sometimes I feel its best for us to apart I'm 21 and in my 3rd year of college... When we met at age 16 he had plans for his life as years passed by he started changing not towards me but hanging out with people who committed criminal acts... Well he has changed his ways and I feel I should be with him because I dedicated time, money and dedication for 5 years.... I feel that he just wants to explore life because we are young but thats ot fair because I told him thoughout our realation that i felt he wanted to be with his friends so he should choose them but he refused by saying that he knew what he wanted.. When he got out of jail we were together but felt he had to go away from the town we lived because he didnt want to commit the same mistakes he moved and I knew we were going to fall apart my love for him is strong maybe because he has been the only person I ever been with and my love is pure and true but IDK any ideas....

2007-03-14 16:58:54 · 1 answers · asked by marleen 2 in Singles & Dating

HI, I am 16 and I am a girl. I like my bestfriend a lot. I invited him once to the movie theater like a date but at the last moment we didn't go but he agreed to go. If I ask him to again supposing that he goes......... should I tell him how I feel about him? or do you think he wouldn't go to to the movie theater with me anyomore knowing that I like him? thanks!

2007-03-14 16:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by celinuchis90 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom keeps telling me I need some friends but I have been alone for so long any time someone tries to befriend me I shut myself down because I like being on my own. dont like the idea of having cliques. The just bring you down. Being by yourself you get to go when you want to go, do what you want to do. There is so much freedom being by yourself. But mom cant understand that.

2007-03-14 16:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Friends

Is it wrong for me to have standards? I'm unattracted to most guys in my area but not a lesbian either. I'm straight but is it wrong to think most guys are really unsexy? The cute ones are hard to come by and never ambitious. The smart ones tend to be ugly. I want a handsome, smart, successful guy who will want me. I'm not bad looking and I think I AM SMART. Why is it so hard to find someone like me in a guy? Why can't there be more Leo DiCaprios out there in the world?

2007-03-14 16:57:56 · 11 answers · asked by * 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm seriously considering doing something like this for my husband. He said I could find another guy and have the both of them, but that is waay gross!

I would rather feel the smooth body of a woman against me and my husband.

2007-03-14 16:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that older men are much more attentive to a womans needs in bed?

2007-03-14 16:57:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a powder brush? a small eyeliner brush... a fan brush... ladies give me some advice :)

2007-03-14 16:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by docboom2386 1 in Singles & Dating

any that tell when a guy breaks up with his gf and then later on regrets it. no country plz. thnx in advance

2007-03-14 16:56:02 · 8 answers · asked by The bohemian 6 in Singles & Dating

since my moms been dating my whole life her latest b/f has turned her into something we both now shes not but when i try to confront her she always takes his side. what should i do?

2007-03-14 16:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by marianne1993_2007 1 in Family

like sit on you for a massage or something

2007-03-14 16:54:10 · 17 answers · asked by theleader 1 in Singles & Dating

How long should two people date before they get married? Is 3 months too soon?

2007-03-14 16:53:08 · 12 answers · asked by shouldibe 2 in Marriage & Divorce