Your both over 21 so if you are comfortable with it...then OK,,,don't get all wrapped up in what other think...it will drive you insane....lol.
2007-03-14 17:12:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think the age is as much an issue as the long distance. I was in an Ohio-to-California relationship. It can be deceiving and after actually spending any amount of time together you will learn things you can't see or feel online or on the phone. Back to the age issue...my boyfriend is 20 yr. younger than I, and we are terrific together! He is caring, attentive, honest, and humorous among sooo many other things. He is all the things I looked for in a man. We are so happy we found each other. Admittedly, we had some negative responses at first, along with positive. It's been 8 months and we look forward to a long happy relationship. I already have a heart shaped diamond solitaire ring. Best of luck to you in you relationship. The final deciding factor is..."Does he make you happy?" BTW, he doesn't want kids. I felt the same as you, that he would be cheated. The more time we spend around kids the more convinced he is not to have any. Besides, my children will be old enough to have kids soon. We think it's hilarious he could be a grandpa in his 30's.
2007-03-14 17:30:30
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answered by Jasmine 1
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I've been there and hear what you're saying. As far as the age difference there's nothing wrong with that. I dated a 42 year old and i'm 30 and things were fine. As a matter of fact most of the women that I date are usually older than me ( I guess women my age have no interest in me). I've dated women that were at least 15 years older than myslef and never had any problems.
Now as far as the kids go if he says that he's cool then maybe it'll work. I know you say well you dated older women so why didn't it work, because of the kids. I want at least one child of my own and the older women that I've dated were not able to have kids anymore. That's just me though because I've always dreamed of beng a father one day and that's really important to me.
But again if he is cool with raising your child as his own and he doesn't want kids of his own then it may work. I say make sure that you talk with him again about his thoughts of having a child of his own and if he tells you again that he's cool then I say go for it. Good luck
2007-03-14 17:18:06
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answered by ltwatkins77 4
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My opinion, NO! First, why would you invite someone into your home with you and your child that you don't really know! There are crazy people in this world and as a Mother you really need to be more responsible. Of course you are entitled to a relationship, but this stranger thing is not healthy. So what if he is 'hot'! There's a lot of creepy hot guy out there once you get to know them. Looks are not everything, but RESPECT is! If you insist on going through with it pay to have a background check done on him. Seriously! Tell him that under the circumstances you feel it is necessary. If he has nothing to hide, he won't mind at all.
2007-03-14 17:13:15
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answered by daffodil 5
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Number one: I think it is fine to date someone younger than you because my boyfriend's parents are 40 and 50 when i met him.
Number two: I do not beleive in internet relationships. They are very dangerous and even if you think you know the person, it is likely to lead to unhappy places, so unless you met him in person and know him well, go for it!
Number 3: Unless you're happy together, ask him that same question, if he wants to have kids. Maybe it's the idea of having a kid rather than the idea of having sex. Ifhe loves you and is true at heart, then don't worry; everything will fall into place.
2007-03-14 17:18:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I am a 28 year old woman. My mother is 54 and just married a 31 year old man. If that doesnt seem wierd to you then go ahead and date him, but I can tell you that my mother has been shunned by most of her freinds and family because of it so be prepared! Also make sure your the only one he is talking to!
2007-03-14 17:10:21
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answered by Deja28 2
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Go for it, grannie!
Just kidding--that age arrangement really isn't all that unusual anymore. I keep seeing articles about how the younger men like the older women because they are settled, know what they want and are not "high maintenence" the way the younger girls can be.
2007-03-14 17:09:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Since you've only spoken to him online, I wouldn't take what he says too seriously. That he loves you, wants to help raise your daughter, and come see you. He may be buttering you up just to see you and have sex with you. Don't make lifetime decisions with someone you haven't even met in person.
2007-03-14 17:15:18
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answered by Lana 3
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think this..when both of you walk side by side in a shopping mall..everyone might think this mummy and son. unless you are prepared to take whatever the society gonna throw at you..then go ahead lady. i can see that you are very much young in heart.
2007-03-14 17:15:46
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answered by Eledron 3
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Not at all, I am 20 years older than my wife so you two are close in age to me.
2007-03-14 17:09:53
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answered by Anonymous
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