me and my girl have been goin out for like 3 months and she's always telling me that she loves me nyway i haven't seen her 4 like 6 weeks but like we talk on the phone everyday and like if i say something bout her u know like just playin wit her she takes itall personal and we sometimes argue on the phone alot cansomeone plz help me i don't know wat to do
2007-03-14 17:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should find someone who is more fun to be with and knows how to flirt back. Maybe she is too sensitive. Maybe, inside, she actually likes the drama from your arguements since it builds up an emotional feeling inside her. I was with a girl once and I teased her a lot. After 8 monts of awesome dating, she started complaining about my teasing, and saying I was a mean person. So one day I told myself that I'm just going to be the "nice" guy that she seems to want. Guess what happened? It went downhill from there and I eventually broke up with her. I've met women who are really witty, knows how to take a joke, and is smart enough to tease me back. That is someone who I'm more interested in.
Just my perspective. I hope this helps.
2007-03-14 17:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Skytide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that is a problem if you can don't meet your gf for 6 weeks. It is dangerous as she could easily being fall in love with another guy. I do suggest that you should spend more time with her first and see if things can be salvaged. If the situation keeps on being like the current condition, I think your relationship will end very fast
2007-03-14 19:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the problem is the fighting; I think that the problem is the fact you are not seeing enough of eachoher. The best solution to this problem is talking about how both of you feel and make a point to see her, because when the cats away the mouse will play.
2007-03-14 17:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋