Is it wrong for me to have standards? I'm unattracted to most guys in my area but not a lesbian either. I'm straight but is it wrong to think most guys are really unsexy? The cute ones are hard to come by and never ambitious. The smart ones tend to be ugly. I want a handsome, smart, successful guy who will want me. I'm not bad looking and I think I AM SMART. Why is it so hard to find someone like me in a guy? Why can't there be more Leo DiCaprios out there in the world?
2007-03-14 16:57:56 · 11 answers · asked by * 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK YOU!
FINALLY, someone who agrees!!
I'm in college-I'm premed-You'd THINK there would be smart, good-looking, non-jerks in my classes, but I haven't found any. The good looking ones are dumb, the good-looking smart ones are full of it.
There's like NO ONE.
But when I go to other cities, it's like
GUYS EVERYWHERE.
What's teh deal??!
I need to move.
Good luck in your pursuits and all I can say is:
Don't settle; you deserve better!
Good luck!! =)
2007-03-14 17:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend exactly like you. Every guy she meets there is something wrong with. Even if they get along great. They only ever become friends, nothing more because she always finds some reason why the guy is not right for her. Guess where she is in life now? Single, living with her mother, all her friends are living with partners or married or have kids. She wants to visit everyone all the time coz she's got nowhere else to be, but she gets pissed off when her friends cant have her over all the time coz everyone else has their own life to live. Lighten up. Go on a few dates with a cute guy. Even if he's not what you want long term, he might be fun for now. Spend some time with the smart guys. You may meet a cute smart guy if you hang out with them long enough. Who knows, you might end up being attracted to a smart guy you would have rejected if you didnt give him a chance. Being attracted to someone is not just about their looks or first impression. If you wait for the 'perfect' guy, by the time you find him you might have wasted the best years of your life.
2007-03-14 18:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by saturdaygirl4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR unattracted to most guys in YOUR area?
DON'T BE SO NIEVE, trust me, as a guy I am extremely shy and would never say to you that your attractive even though I would think your the most beautiful girl on earth. Oh and Leo DiCaprios skinny and UGLY compared to me, LOL. :-D
2007-03-14 18:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with being picky when it comes to picking a potential future spouse. If you make a bad decision you could be living with it for a long time.
2007-03-14 17:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by p_doell 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer "like" lesbians... i do no longer likely even get into looking at 2 women jointly. yet, i think of the fact is this: maximum adult males get grew to become on by employing looking at 2 warm women having intercourse with one yet another. yet maximum folk of lesbians are no longer what maximum adult males could evaluate "warm"... that's not the lesbians they prefer, it only looking at warm chicks be bare jointly...
2016-09-30 22:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go where the kind of guys you like congregate. College classes are a good start.
2007-03-14 17:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
er... it's not good to have a very high standards, you know, maybe that is the reason why there are no guys who go out with you. try to lower the standard a bit. i mean, we are not perfect after all.
2007-03-14 17:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by caige 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not lesbian, you just have really high standards
There's plenty of people with hight standards
2007-03-14 17:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tha Rook 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
darlin, there is nothin rong in bein choosey, smarter that way..
one thing............... looks IS NOT everything. you want some one who is goin to take care of you rite, respect you, treat you as u r supposed to be treated, like a lady.
you will know when he comes along, just hang there, he is commin
2007-03-14 17:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by chevys4evr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move to a big city.
2007-03-14 17:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋