Hey guys, i just got one question to ask all of you. How would you feel abt dating someone who had a 2 yr old daughter by a different man who didnt want to be in her life?
2007-03-14 16:58:57 · 16 answers · asked by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i married a woman that had 3 children by another man. we've been together 26 years and going strong.
2007-03-14 17:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on both the mother and daughter now wouldn't it. IF they are both super great people it would be great. IF they are both losers no deal. Dating a mother with a young child would be a negative all things being equal, but it may not be too bad of an idea under the right circumstances. I mother may well have more to give than a women without any child.
2007-03-15 00:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly people make misteaks, and the person with the two year old definatly made a misteak. I hope at the very least the child was born in wedlock, never the less
Look lets be honest most men don't like baggage.... And it takes a very loveing, true and miraculous person to look past the misteak and love the child as his own. It would be hard to find a man who would accept the 2year old, but when you do find one, hang onto him because he is a rare find. Godbless the fathers that have child that arnt theirs, it takes a big heart and a real man to parent children that arnt theirs
2007-03-15 00:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally it wouldn't bother me and i would try to make sure the little girl was able to spend time with her mother and i on dates. After all, if this relationship got serious then that little girl would also be a part of my life . The only time she wouldn't be present would be bed time; but only after reading her a story, tucking her in, giving her a kiss good night and wishing her pleasant dreams. Then spending close time with the obect of my hearts desire would be my focus.
2007-03-15 00:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...I wouldn't do it. if it happened once it might happen again.
The guys that I know that date woman with kids do it more for the convenience. They know the woman wont be spending the night and demanding lots of time, because they have a child to take care off. So when they get together it is straight to the point
2007-03-15 00:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Juan_OC7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have no problem whatsoever, & I am not sure why it would matter. When you care for someone, all else is taken into consideration & one's reaction should always be to the positive. Especially when there is a child involved.
2007-03-15 00:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how things went and what you expected of the man in relationship to your daughter.
2007-03-15 00:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys will not date a single mother
as they ideally do not want to deal with some else's problems
hence why single mothers have a much tougher time of dating
2007-03-15 00:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam doing that now.when my girlfriend and i first met,she had a daughter to a dead beat dad,who left them when her daughter was born and i started to date her and now we been togeather for 7 yrs now,and her daughter is 9 yrs old and calls me daddy.
2007-03-15 00:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would honestly depend on our ages at the time. When I was younger than 25, probably not. Older, it wouldn't be a problem.
2007-03-15 00:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by David L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋