my and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years, and we have had sex plenty of times, we did it within 2 months into the relationship, but she refuses to do oral sex, she doesnt want it done to her and she doesnt want to do it, she says that is something very provate of hers she promises that when we get married it will happen but not before, whats going on?
2007-03-14 17:03:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She thinks its disgusting, and even if you marry her she will rarely if ever do it. It doesn't make sense to wait when you have already had sex, so this is just an excuse to get you off her back... You might eventually convince her, but I'm not hopeful.
2007-03-17 10:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its that simple......she wants to wait, maybe she feels that you guys are exhausting every other option already. She wants to keep something, to spice up your sex life when you get married. That's OK........she just want sex life to be different when u tie the not, a little creative, i mean maybe if u do it now, by the time u get married sex will seem routined, and no one wants that. Wait it out stud, it will definitely be worth the wait....aah the element of surprise!!
2007-03-16 08:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by JamDQqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋