My mom keeps telling me I need some friends but I have been alone for so long any time someone tries to befriend me I shut myself down because I like being on my own. dont like the idea of having cliques. The just bring you down. Being by yourself you get to go when you want to go, do what you want to do. There is so much freedom being by yourself. But mom cant understand that.
2007-03-14 16:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, if you make friends with someone and you know what true friendship is you will understand why mom wants you to have friends...She is worried you aren't happy, and she is trying to encourage you to be more outgoing...She loves you very much and she is worried about you..
2007-03-14 17:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I don't trust many people and I don't like the drama that comes with the "friend" thing. The only interaction I'm looking for is being in a good relationship (boyfriend). That way, he can be my best-friend and my lover.
I don't need anyone else. And I don't want any other relationship. If I just have that one person, I won't have to worry about dating different people.
I do have friends, but not many. And it's not like I hangout with them all of the time. I like to keep them at a distance. I'm just at a point in my life where I come first. Maybe it'll change later on.
2007-03-15 00:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't have that many friends, because like you I enjoy being alone. At times though you do need someone to talk to and it is easier to talk to a friend than a parent. It's very important to be able to get things off your chest, and I think that a good friend is someone that you feel at ease with and you don't have to force it. Don't worry about a clique because you can avoid them, but closing yourself off to people is not healthy and I think that you should try to let someone into your life and see how that affects you.
2007-03-15 00:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems some thing wrong with u or your mind .. well u can enjoy freedom even if have friends one or two..if they are friends what i mean real friends..man cann't live alone u know..at any stage of your life u have to sacrifice your privacy..or share your thoughts.. or working together..in teams ..get other's help or beg other to help u..u know.. the whole mankind and civilization go in this style..entire nature goes in this fashion....u for others and others for u..
2007-03-15 00:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u onli need urself and urself only. thatsz all i can say.
2007-03-15 00:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋