I'm seriously considering doing something like this for my husband. He said I could find another guy and have the both of them, but that is waay gross!
I would rather feel the smooth body of a woman against me and my husband.
2007-03-14 16:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am looking for a woman withoug STS's. And no Joe B you cannot come over you disgusting pig!
2007-03-14 17:13:12 · update #1
Why don't you admit that you think about it to.
2007-03-14 17:17:40 · update #2
go to a swinggers groupe.
2007-03-14 17:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not easy.
The first thing to consider is whether this experience would be better with somebody that you both liked such as a friend. The problem with this is that a friend is already part of your life and you do not want to build a complex and tangled emotional grouping, you just want to experiment in a taboo zone. Also, why risk loosing a friend. So friends are out.
The next idea would be to find some professional assistance. This is fine if you know where to look for a relatively safe partner and don't mind investing the time for the search. If you have somewhere like a night club where professional ladies hang out you can actually meet and evaluate them before anything happens and decide whether everybody is comfortable with the idea. Only problem with this is the higher risk of STD's which it is difficult to evaluate.
Next choice would be an internet search and I have included one link to one of these. Again you never know if these people are professional or amateur and none of them will be virgins saving themselves for the right couple to come along to make their life complete for one evening.
If you intention is for a one off experience to investigate this tabboo then you don't need to worry too much about the moralizers who are attacking you but do be careful and do make sure that you discuss everything first with your husband and agree that at any time either of you feel uncomfortable you will have a pre-arranged signal which stops everything dead and gets you out of the situation fast.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 00:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your playing an extremely dangerous game by even entertaining thoughts like that, with the results that could come of it being the end of your marriage.
WHY on earth do you feel you need to bring another person into the picture? You should be satisfied with who you have in your husband as well as your husband should be satisfied with ONLY you and that you shouldn't need ANYTHING else.
Sex was created by God to be kept within the bonds of marriage, not to bring mulitple partners into the picture.
Your playing with fire and you could get burned BIG TIME!
Think about this, it may sound cool in fantasy, but how will you feel when you actually see your husband having sex with another woman, or how would your husband feel seeing you having sex with another man?
It's a recipe for disaster, and opening yourselves up for alot of jealousy & resentment, plus, what if he likes the other woman more than you and leaves you for her?
2007-03-15 00:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This shows you that you and your husband do NOT have any kind of respect for one another, that you now stooped to the lowest level by adding another person all because of this great fantasy you both have.
You will be making a terrible, terrible mistake in your marriage, not only can you get a transmitted disease from doing this, but you both are committing an act of adultery, which is an abomination unto God. By doing this, you will destroy your marriage.
Guess you two don't take your marriage vows serious.
2007-03-15 00:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You are playing a very dangerous game. I hope you are having safe sex especially when the third party does come on the scene.
2007-03-15 00:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
craigslist.com
or swinglifestyle.com
or adultfriendfinder.com
you have no problem finding a women
though some may not want anytin to do with your hubby
and if your hot looking you definetly get women interested
2007-03-15 00:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought about the possiblitiy of your husband liking her better and leaving you for her..? Just a thought.. Id NEVER share my man Id be more apt to have a xtra guy.. at least then I would be the one with the harem...
2007-03-15 00:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Dana D 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
adultfriendfinders.com and there are several other sites available for this. We used this one and has proven to be successful for us.
2007-03-15 04:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll give you a nice 3some. Maybe I can give you a mouthful while your husband does you or vise versa!
I like your style!
2007-03-15 00:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Around the corner. gross
2007-03-15 00:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋