i like being around him, he's so sweet to me... but i don't get excited about him the way i used to with the guys i used to have crushes on... we've been going out for a few months.. what is this? i dont even know anymore...love? like? do i just like the attention? it's pretty obvious that he likes me and it bothers me that i'm not as excited about him...
2007-03-14 17:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like love to me, but then I haven't really been in love myself, thought so a couple times, but not so much looking back. I'll bet in the future when you are with someone you are crazy in love with, can't live without, on your mind 24/7 kinda love, then you'll look back and be like, ya I didn't really love that other guy.
2007-03-14 17:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by vallygval 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i could probably say that you just like his attention, cause sometimes its better to be excited when he is around and too feel a lot of rushing emotions, althought it does not mean that if you are excited and all that that your are in love, its just that you know something is missing, its incomplete, and that you just like the idea that he is sweet, if you love him you would be more interested to know who he is day by day and be happy for the little information that you get, and that you feel happy most of the time and that you are able to focus on your work, and you get better at everything you do, if he can still do that to you then there is a chance that you dont know what youre feeling yet, its just that you know you are trying to learn how to love him eventhough you dont feel that much of spark.
i guess it would really be hard,if you found someone right now who would give you that excited feeling
2007-03-15 00:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship the feelings progress differently. But from the way you are talking, it sounds like you don't like him beyond a friendship. Just because he is sweet doesn't mean you have to like him. There's plenty of fish in the sea so it's not like the end all be all if you two break up, espcially since you're not all that into him.
2007-03-15 00:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with him aperantly he means something to you the reason you dont get butterflies around him is because yall have been going out for a while and hes kinda gotten old to you, but is that his fault if you are happy with him stay with him yall probably just hanged out to much at the beginning and you need a brake if he still doesnt satisfy you maybe its a sign that you should move on but dont just listen to advice follow YOUR heart, thats the only path that will ever lead you anywhere.
2007-03-15 00:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by marianne1993_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' worry about this! it's normal to lose the initial spark, but it doesn't mean it's not there! start to do some little things together, go on dates, pick each other up, etc - maybe it'll help to bring the spark back! Hope this helps!
2007-03-15 00:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by canadian_cowgurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you like the idea of him, not him. it doesnt sound like u like him anymore, maybe u r just going ur serparate ways, and its time to move on, ask him is he feels the same way, and if so, maybe just be friends, and if not, oh well, dont hang on to someone caus eur "not sure" if u dont like him, ur only hurting him more by pretending ur into him.
2007-03-15 00:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you just need to give it a little time and get to know him better before you say he isn't attractive to you.
2007-03-15 00:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope-just a case of like
2007-03-15 00:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋