I am not a freak. I just have a very high sex drive and would like to live life a little. All I get here though are bitter answers from bitter women. I know there has got to be more women out there like me that thinkg about realising the fantasy of sex with their husband and another woman.
2007-03-14 17:20:45 · 22 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bryan M, Why is it that people like you that have done it all, are so quick to denounce it.
At one time you and your wife thought it was a good idea right?
2007-03-14 17:46:27 · update #1
I had a threesome. It was fun. It's also lots of fun to think about.
2007-03-14 17:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by kadan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may both be concenting to it, but in actuality a threesome is cheating. If you have a high sex drive, take advantage of it with your husband, don't bring another woman into the picture. Your opening yourself up to a BIG world of problems if you do.
Take your marriage vows seriously. The part where it says FORSAKING ALL OTHERS!!! Meaning keeping yourself ONLY to your husband and NO OTHER!!!
I've been there, I've been in an open marriage, done threesomes and in the swinging lifestyle, it's NOT worth it, it almost destroyed my marriage.
There's more to life than just sex. Don't buy into this lie that society tells saying it's just sex. That is a lie, sex involves emotions. And having been through that crap before, it only causes hurt, pain, loss of trust. And in the end it's NOT worth it.
Yes I did think it was a good idea, AT THE TIME, but the reason I denounce it is because of the pain that that bad decision caused. That's why I am so against it NOW!
2007-03-15 00:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a woman but you are right about other women thinking about the same thing. I'm not saying all women but there are many that feel like you do. I love that you have a great sex drive and would sure love to help you out.
2007-03-15 00:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that.
Most interesting part was trying to find a partner.
Like most aspects of sex, the anticipation is much more interesting than the event so enjoy the planning and the finding a partner and keep a sense of humour.
It is hard to see how anybody could get addicted to this idea but maybe I am just weird. Certainly, you don't know until you try it.
2007-03-15 04:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We do that, it has done great things for our sex life. We have 3-somes all the time, other men and women. Would like to with a couple but haven't had that chance yet. It's a lot of fun but not for everyone. Have to be completely open and lay the rules down and follow them.
2007-03-15 04:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry honey. I am Christian and I don't think of such things. It is a sin and would not like to put myself in those kind of situations honey. So stay clear and be free from AIDS and other sexual related diseases. But if you still don't care, you just go ahead. Don't blame anybody if you contract the disease. Better be safe than sorry honey. Anyways, I will pray for you to have endurance and avoid temptation. Peace be with you.
2007-03-15 00:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that if it is something both you and your husband want. Just think about how you will feel to see your husband with another woman. Make sure that both of you can handle the emotional waves that may come when and if you ever do it. But really if you are both willing.....go for it!
2007-03-15 00:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your definately not the only one who thinks about it, I had the same fantasy in my marriage but never acted on it. I'm separated now, and dating again, and am definately looking for a man that will be open to the idea. My advice, just make sure it is purely sexual, that it is still about your's and your spouses pleasure, and i wouldnt recommend getting personal, if that makes sense. If your partner is open to the idea, then go for it, you should be able to share anything with the one you love. :)
2007-03-15 01:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move your attention and interest to a site offering women seeking this type of relationship...you will have to search the internet to find it but there are sites with willing participants for what you want. Be sure first that your husband is as interested as you are in this.
2007-03-15 00:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 100% correct..
A 3some with you, hubby & another woman that wife invites
is the safest multi partner sex relationship.....
Never ever have another man or couple in your bed..
Swinging / Swapping & Open Marriages are usually roads
to Divorce...
2007-03-15 00:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think about that, but i do accept that some people have the right to be open minded, and its your choice and your will, its just that not everybody feels the same way, though some think like you, there is nothing wrong with that. if you like it, then go on like it , you dont need other peoples opinion and assurance.nor our judgement, do what makes you happy
2007-03-15 00:26:43 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋