is this a good idea or is there something I can do to get her back into the mood>
2007-03-14 17:14:11 · 22 answers · asked by AnonymousLovesicker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want her for sex or do you truly like /love her because if its just sex let her go but if you like who she is ,give her time she Willl come around just don't push her right now females go through lows help her feel good about herself you wil have a big smile soon
2007-03-14 17:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, why are you making girlfriends as some kind of sex toy? Why is it that sex is always on your mind? You want to get AIDS or what? I tell you what, you must treat your girlfriends for who they are and they have feelings and not something to ease your sexual urges. So can you treat women with the proper respect that they deserve?
Secondly, if your girlfriend is not ready for sex, don't force her. She may have other problems that she did not tell you and you are pushing her too much. If you push her too much, she will want to ask for a break up. So be a sensitive guy and ask what is bothering her.
2007-03-15 00:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, if you care about her, you should wait. It's only two months for petes sake, there's lots you can do for yourself! I definately have to say that you are shallow if you are willing to leave a girl just because she wants to hold off for a couple of months. If you want to know exactly why she wants to wait, ask her, but respect her decision. I'm sure she's in the mood, she just has her own reasons.
2007-03-15 00:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by canadian_cowgurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose there are a few questions to ask before you dump her, have you already had sex? Did you just start dating?
If the answer to number one is yes there is probably some specific reason she wants to wait, ie test results of some kind. If the answer to the second question is yes, she probably just wants to get to know you better, and then I suppose it is up to you to decide if she is worth it.
if the answer to question 1 is yes, but you can't think of any reason why she might want to wait try talking to her without any anger. if the reason sucks dump her, but atleast you aren't stuck wondering.
My guess is she just doesn't want to rush into anything I know that sex changes a relationship and in general it is better to get to know the person better before you do have sex.
2007-03-15 00:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to get back into being sexual because maybe your girlfriend doesnt want to do it anymore. If you can't respect her reasons for not doing it then you don't need to be with her. If I was the woman dating you I would drop you for someone who respected me and everything that makes me who I am. Anytime a man treats a woman like she's some kind of an asset he only cares about his needs and that makes you a selfish and self centered prick.
2007-03-15 00:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she doesn't want to have sex. If she gives you a good reason then I think you should support her and wait. Two months really isn't that long. And besides you can satisfy yourself without her. Don't leave her unless you don't love her.
2007-03-15 00:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are thinking of finding it somewhere else, then your relationship is based all on sex, and if that's the case, then you don't deserve her. Leaver her alone and find someone as insensitive as you, who just wants a sexual relationship. If you really care for her, then ask her what is bothering her. Ask her if she is depressed. Stop thinking of yourself. Maybe you can't please her and you just don't make it worth her while. If you decide to get someone else, be a gentlemen and let her go first.
2007-03-15 00:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mir3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you find out what is going on with her first before you
start looking elsewhere. sex not everything, and if you really
love her then ask what going on, and then deal with it, dont
rush something that could be a problem down the road.
2007-03-15 00:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her why, but if you find another lover, you could risk losing her. That sort of thing can show one way or another in ways that you least expect.
2007-03-15 00:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk for only wanting sex from her! A relationship is not based on sex! And if this one is for you, then you should stop dating her! YOU ARE A SEX ADDICT!! GET SOME HELP!!
2007-03-15 00:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋