Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

My friend and I are debating the topic of middle school dating for our debate class in school. She is against, and I am for. So, I wanted to get others opinions and why they thought so. I know that a lot of people are dating in middle school and I know that a lot of people say 16 is a good age. I personally think that 13-ish is perfectly fine. Thanks for your opinions!!!

2007-03-13 05:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by SML594 2 in Singles & Dating

I sometimes write short poems to girls i like.

but now it seems to even me old fashioned .

is it still ok ?

Girls are not mysterious like before but I feel like writing short poems .

2007-03-13 05:52:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help

anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels

please help

2007-03-13 05:51:36 · 8 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

If so, where is the line drawn between healthy sex drive and promiscuousity?

2007-03-13 05:51:29 · 20 answers · asked by DizziDazi 4 in Singles & Dating

Do guys prefer girls to get all dressed up or is casual and natural more attractive. Actually is it just when out on the pull that you go for the more done up chick?

2007-03-13 05:51:27 · 24 answers · asked by fancypants 4 in Singles & Dating

Did it work?

2007-03-13 05:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by truthyness 7 in Singles & Dating

I got out of a relationship 7 months ago and Im lonely...I cant find anyone that has a decent job, or doesnt live with their mother...Im also very shy and I dont have that much money to dress the way I want and I think that may be a problem. I think that I'm attractive sooo I dont know ...I guess its how I dress.. Help someone please.

2007-03-13 05:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Singles & Dating

Almost 4 years ago I met this one guy and long story short he'd send mixed signals and flirt and hit on me and deny it. Sure enough I fell for him. I broke our friendship(he's overseas breaking the country's law), with him and I never heard of him since. I became interested in other guys and had infatuations but occasionally out of the blue I'd have stray thoughts that I'm in love with this one guy from 4 years ago. I don't have any feelings for him so why is my mind saying this unintentionally? I'd usually blurt out of the blue "I'm in love with him"(When I'm alone of course).

Suggestions? Why is my mind and heart always saying I still love him when I don't and he's not even the one I'm gonna marry?

2007-03-13 05:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 05:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by laundryman18 3 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy (isn't that life!) and I like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me although nothing has been verbalized on either part. He asks me to go to a movie (we go with friends) but then hardly talks to me, doesn't sit next to me and doesn't pay for my ticket! Ummmmmm . . . am I missing something here???

2007-03-13 05:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by SusieQ20 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bpyfriend have been in a rocky relationship for about 2 years now. I thought we were about to work things out but to my surprise he was cheating. I spoke with the girl myself to find out all the details. She was very honest and open. Well, NEwayz I went by his home to confront him and she was there. I broke down immediatly and i've been lost ever since. Someone please help.

2007-03-13 05:50:12 · 6 answers · asked by babyjishot4ualwayz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 05:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One night my husband and i decided to have a few drinks at home. When he drinks he likes to call everyone he knows, but anyway he happened to be on the phone with his mother. He tells his mom everything. Well i wanted to know what he was talking about so i pushed the speaker phone and this is what i heard... "mom" you should see these woman that come in here"( my husband is a warehouse manager and these woman that come in are represenitives for other companys) anyway he says how hot they are and he dosen't wear his wedding ring at work for two reasons 1. he dosen't want it to get smashed and the other reason is because these woman don't know he's married, and they flirt with him. All his mom said is don't you cheat. As soon as i heard that i went off on him. So we got in this huge argument and hes denying everything(of course) he's says he swears theres nothing to worry about!!! What do you think? Should i be worried?????

2007-03-13 05:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by greenmarkalyssa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl, is my gf's friend.
she got my phone number from one of my friends, and now she calls me and want us to talk.
of course we talk, and seems i'm getting closer and closer to her, to the point where she asks me a question"Do you love your gf??"
From that time, i just felt guilty and stupid, why i should be talking to her.
plz help. should i just ignore and tell her to stop calling me or what should i do? (my gf already knows i talk to her but she sounds unfair with it)

2007-03-13 05:48:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We go to this small town cafe for lunch on occasion and the waitress who waited on us was very kind and he says he has known her for a long time....even before he met me 5 yrs ago.
She came to our table and took our order and on the way off, he grabbed her apron string and gave it a tug and laughed as she walked by. I sat quietly and didnt pretend like I noticed and he proceeded to talk small talk with her when she came to our table and he was joking and laughing and acting perverted.
I raised holy heck when we got home and told him how ashamed I was that he flirted so openly with her in a restaraunt and how bad he made me feel. He is 54 yrs old and the waitress is about 23 or so years old. He denies flirting with her and flat out tells me I am crazy. To make matters worse, she is mennonite. What do you think?

2007-03-13 05:47:44 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

Looks or personality?

2007-03-13 05:47:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if yes whatz the way out

2007-03-13 05:46:46 · 6 answers · asked by remote 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so I like this dude he is one of the quiet types of guys, how do i approach him please help me out I really like him!

2007-03-13 05:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by MARIA 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey there, a friend of mine is having a formal going away event this sat. and im one of the people who would be called up on stage and asked to say something. I dont really want to talk about our 10 year friendship with strangers so id like to just say something meaningful. We both had great interests for films and film scores so if you could relate it to that, that would be great. Thanks. A good 3 min. speech would be good enough

2007-03-13 05:46:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay ,does it really matter which shampoo you use? If so, what's the best kind?

Also, I want to try some side bangs. How do I know that they'll look okay on me before I cut them? I'm getting married this year and dont want to jack my hair up. Help!!

2007-03-13 05:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Weddings

But I felt guilty as it is her birthday.What should I do?Is'nt that a bad thing to do to a person on thier birthday?Cos she said she was fine but whatt if she was just being polite?I think I might have hurt her I'm not sure though it was a movement class on my performing arts course.

2007-03-13 05:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by BRAD Thomas 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 05:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

when she was 9 my wife walked out onme and i have not seen her since. i am dating ayounger woman, she is 21 and i am 34. since itold my daughter we are getting married she refuses to talk to me andtorn up some books i gave her when she was alittle girl.also, she hangs up the phone when my girlfriend calls. it has been very rough when her mother left and my daughter was allthat kept me sane i wish things could be like they once were.

2007-03-13 05:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by don d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend are spending the weekend together in a bach house for spring break..........i wanna do something like really sexy for him that will be a big distraction from everything else and make em be like "whoa"...........so any suggestions

2007-03-13 05:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married on 10.20.07 to the man of my dreams. We've been together for 2 years now and I'm in love with him. However, with the wedding getting closer I'm begining to have second thoughts maybe? There is a lot of "what if's" in my head. Am I jumping the gun with the first person I fell in love with? Am I missing out on anything? I guess it's just cold feet. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-03-13 05:44:55 · 21 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Weddings

This love is so deep, that it doesn't matter he cheated on me. He's a very different kind of man, he feels deeper then most men, its like he was looking for an emotional crutch at the time. He has this beautifully artistic mind, the way he sees things are so different from anyone, and the best part is that I understand him. I have utterly forgiven him, the moment he said he cheated, it might take some time but the time comes out between us. I knew this was going to happen, I packed my things and left him alone, I was scared of hurting him again like I did so often before, he deserves more, he's so lonely like me, people absolutley don't get us at all. Do you believen true love, no matter the cost?

2007-03-13 05:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by Whole 4 in Marriage & Divorce

like im going to bust your mac or bust that mac?


I have another question too today i was talking to this boy and we were writing notes to eachother i wrote i like you :) and he wrote HOLY Shiza! yeah what does that mean im not bad looking or anything could he have been surprised? or what and

2007-03-13 05:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is kind of a long story: I like my best friends cousin and he acts like he likes me back but nobody makes a first move or anything. I would ask him out but theres the problem of my best friend. She is 14 like me and she has no interest in boys and when I say something like "hes cute" she seems to get really uncomfortable so I dont know how I should handle this. Should I let it go and wait it out? Or do something about it? Advice please!

2007-03-13 05:44:46 · 11 answers · asked by guitarxocutie93 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy named paul ask me for my number and i said i was tasken well he said hi to me and then one day i told him i like him .... then i let it go for a year then i told him i like him again but he wont talk to me but he stares at me alot what do that mean .... like when we was at the dance none of his friends was around and he sat in front of me but turn his head while i was standing ..... and he looks at me everyday.. we share alot of eye contact like in a glaze or something for a min then i turn away i dont get it please help

2007-03-13 05:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by anniyeahh 1 in Singles & Dating

Hay iwas in a retionship a month ago and i broke up with her. anyway I'm DIRTY blonde blueyes. Sled,4-wheeler and racecar. So wat should i do? If want to be my gf write back. ty

2007-03-13 05:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Sexy 4 in Marriage & Divorce