This girl, is my gf's friend.
she got my phone number from one of my friends, and now she calls me and want us to talk.
of course we talk, and seems i'm getting closer and closer to her, to the point where she asks me a question"Do you love your gf??"
From that time, i just felt guilty and stupid, why i should be talking to her.
plz help. should i just ignore and tell her to stop calling me or what should i do? (my gf already knows i talk to her but she sounds unfair with it)
2007-03-13 05:48:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to decide if you want to be in a relationship with your girlfriend or her "friend".
If you want to remain with your girlfriend, just tell the friend that her phone calls have made you uncomfortable and tell her not call you anymore (and don't call her).
If you decide that this "friend" is someone you want to pursue, be honest with your girlfriend about it so she will not waste anymore time vying for your affections and can look elsewhere.
One word of warning is that this "friend" may only be interested in you is because it is a competition thing that her girlfriend has something (you) and she wants to prove she is "better" by taking the something from her friend to bolster her ego (very common if the friend is under 21, but sometimes the "girl" never grown out of it. If this is the case, she is not a good "friend" and is likely to make just as lovely of a candidate as a girlfriend.
Usually only girls in their pre-teens to early teens (under 14) or very immature girls "test" their man's loyalty by putting their friend up to enticing them away...in that case, you may want to re-think being invovled with either of them.
2007-03-13 06:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're open with your gf, you would have told her that you two talk. If you felt guilty, you knew you were doing something wrong inside. So how secure are you in being with your gf? Because that girl is obviously after something and you should set her straight if you like being with your gf and her JUST as a friend, tell her.
2007-03-13 05:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your girlfriend, then I suggest that you stop talking to her friend. Cause the way I see it, getting closer and closer to her is a danger sign, the fact the she asked you if you love your girlfriend means something. You also need to assure your girlfriend that there is nothing between you and her friend. This is how most love triangles start, and believe me, no one comes out the winner, everybody loses in a situation like this.
2007-03-13 05:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not ask us as you know it is not right. Would you care if your girlfriend had a mate of yours calling her and getting"closer"? I think not.
Sounds to me as if you really aren't"in" to your girlfriend and would like to explore your options.
If this is the case break off and let her find a man who will treat her with love, kindness and RESPECT.
I have a thought maybe the pair are playing you and setting you up. Makes ya think now , doesn't it?
2007-03-13 05:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she might be falling for you i would Definitely stop talking to her, because she might think because you are talking to her that you feel the same way or that you're open to something because you all talk and she knows your g/f. I would quit talking to her and tell your g/f what shes been asking you she doesnt sound like a very good friend
2007-03-13 06:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be completely honest with your girlfriend and break it off with her friend all together. If you really love your gf then it shouldn't be that hard. Her friend is probably trying to start confusion in the first place to break you all apart. If you break up with your gf, then you are just letting her friend win. Go with your heart.
2007-03-13 05:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by babyjishot4ualwayz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girlfreind whats really going on she has all the right to know
then talk to the girl that keeps calling you and if you like her then maybe leave your other gf but if you dont like her tell her that you like or love ur gf and you want to be with her and her only but be nice about it and dont try to beak her heart unless shes a b*tch and a hoe
good luck♥
2007-03-13 05:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u luv ur gf?if you do, stop talking to this other girl, all she's trying to do is prove that she's better than ur gf or she wants to take revenge or something so don't be a part of her stupid plan and go tell ur gf that u luv her directly
2007-03-13 05:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. tell her you love your girlfriend very much. mabye she'll get the point and back off. if not, tell your gf, cuz if ur gf finds out later on from someone else, it may cause problems in your relationship, so tell her now b4 anything worse happens.
2007-03-13 05:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by F . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do u love ur gf...
cause if u did i don't think you would be talking to her friend would u...
so make up ur mind
if u like your gf don't mess things up with her...stop talking to her friend ...u can still be friends but just not CLOSE friends
nd if u don't maybe u should break it off b4 u break her heart then im going to have to break ur neck...LOL
2007-03-14 09:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by i'm a rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋