okay so I like this dude he is one of the quiet types of guys, how do i approach him please help me out I really like him!
2007-03-13 05:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by MARIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a cookie
2007-03-13 05:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Bonanzas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quitely.... seriously the quiet types are hard to get. They get scared realyl easy, and the fact that they are quiet usually means they're not interested in anyone. YOuve got to really catch his eye, but not in an obvious way. Think of him as like an animal.... lets say a horse.... okay If you run at a horse with your arms flailing in the air he's going to either get scared of kick you in the face. Now i know you wont run with your arms flailing, that was a metaphor, what i meant was if its too obvious that you like him hes going to be a lil tense and not be interested at all. Back to the example, if you approach a horse slowly and cautiously then it most likely wont run away. Here again im using a metaphor, very cautiously get him to notice you, even just eye contact is something.....
If your patient he will notice you eventually and hopefully he'll begin to flirt back, just know that the quiet type take a lil while to get, but all in all they last a lil bit longer
2007-03-13 12:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone like you.They either do or they don't.Just be yourself and hope for the best.
Do you know him at all?You could ask him out to lunch or the movies.If you don't.....just try getting to know him first.
Being friendly and polite will count for a lot.Since he's the quiet type don't be too forward or you may chase him away.
Good Luck.
2007-03-13 13:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, just "approach" him. And he should like the way you are, so be yourself.
Try to start a conversation by talking daily stuff; school or work etc... And you may try to ask for help on something, he will not reject (especially if he likes you).
2007-03-13 12:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it's always about the eye contact....so try catching him with your eye.
And if he looks back at you smile sweetly and go and talk about something like the latest flick. Participate in something he likes to do...like if he plays any sport or is into dancing stuff like that. And while your at it flirt and then he'll get the idea and you can ask him out!
2007-03-13 12:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by swyt09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u hav 2 do is just say hi and smile when u see him and if hes interested, hes gon respond. start a conversation wit him, get 2 know him more and u might be surprised.
2007-03-13 12:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tail him how you fine
2007-03-13 12:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by laundryman18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋