Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I've started to get confused and concerned that this "widow" I'm seeing may not be after all.... I met her online and we seem to hit it off great. She's a nurse and I find her very attractive. She says that she's in love with me. On Friday we had incredible sex. And she was very tight since she said that her late husband was sick for the last four years and they could not have sex. And that he died seven months ago of complications from diabetes. But over the weekend and the last couple days things seemed to have cooled. She went out with "friends" and seems to be busy when I want to see her. I took her flowers to her work last night, but she was home with a migraine. This morning I got wondering so I tried to look up her dead hubby's obituary, and found no results at all. So I did a phone search and found their listing is still the same.
So I'm wondering if she is truly a widow or just a cheating wife? Can anyone advise me on how to find out, or what I signs should look for?

2007-03-13 06:17:42 · 14 answers · asked by parkster1969 1 in Singles & Dating

Give me some suggestions.

2007-03-13 06:16:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

iv been recently seeing this lovely guy he's great i feel lucky to have met him, every time we go out he puts his arm around me in a sort of protecive way, and i see other men looking at me he looks at them and holds my hand do you think that he just really likes me or is that possesive?

2007-03-13 06:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

if I wanted to make women attracted to me and have it with me what do I need to do?

2007-03-13 06:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

becauseit is very different than when they are dating. I know my guy loves me very much but he isn't the romantic mushy gooshy thing(never really was) that he was when dating.



He works hard to provide me with a house. He takes care of our kids. He helps out when he can around the house. He repects me. though he may not always be everything "I always dreamed of" I know beyond a doubt he love me unconditionally. he has stayed by me when I have been sick through surgery.

I just wonder if somethimes woman mistake the ways that men show their love once married as something else?

what do you think??

2007-03-13 06:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by no 4 in Marriage & Divorce

On the one hand, if I try telling the girl I miss (we haven't talked for ten months and I've just left her alone without trying to get her back because she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I had liked her and she didn't like me back that way) that I just want us to be friends again and how I feel about her, it could scare her off and I'll appear like a stalker or something. On the other hand, if I never try how will I know what could happen and more importantly, how would she know how I feel about her? I just don't want to scare her off, yet I also don't want to never see her again.
This question will help to understand what I'm talking about more-http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ain7SLa5_iTC2AezXYdQjw_sy6IX?qid=20070313062116AAEvKJb

2007-03-13 06:15:10 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 and I am talking to this boy who is 15. He is really cute but I dont know if it will work out. He is mature in some ways but in other ways he is kinda immature. Should I give the relationship a chance or stop talking to him.

2007-03-13 06:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do guys like the most??HELP plzzzzzz

2007-03-13 06:15:07 · 6 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

We are taking a break because of my parents, (18) but he told me that he would wait for me as long as i need...but not to take too long. He also said this ..."What if i go out with somebody and then u tell me that u r ready already, and i dump her because i really love you, would u take me?" I just stayed quiet but I don't know if i would do that.. I would't want the other girl to get hurt but I would want him back..and i know he would leave her...Waht should I do???

2007-03-13 06:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by chikis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 06:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by Chopin 1 in Friends

I just had THE TALK with my boyfriend of almost 2 years (he's 40 and I'm 35). He brought it up, because he thought I might be feeling impatient. I do want to get married, but neither of us are prepared to sell our place and buy one together (we're both remodeling this year) and he's about to make a change at work.

My thought is that we'll need at least a year to finish our home projects and for him to settle in at work, before we can think about marriage. He agreed and seem relieved.

I assured him that I love him and want to marry him, but that I want to be logical about this to avoid making a mistake (we're both divorced).

Did I handle THE TALK well from a guys perspective? I figure it's all about timing.

2007-03-13 06:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by LifesAMystery 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my fiance for 2 yrs and we are to be married in Nov. I love him with all my heart and I'm happy with him. There's just one slight problem. At times, I wonder if he's cheating on me or looking for another woman or even looking at things I don't approve of on the internet. The catcher is, I have no reason not to trust him. He's never done anything wrong or to hurt me. I know he cares and loves me very much and would do anything for me. I seem to get mad or upset when I see him doing things or suspect he might be doing things I don't approve of. It got really bad on my part when his sister got him a myspace page. He usually only gets on his page every other day and then only for a few minutes. I don't see how he'd have time to talk to other people on there. He usually doesn't go anywhere without me.If I see he's on myspace I get upset (jealous) maybe and wonder what he could be doing. I have been cheated on in past relationships. I want this marriage to work. Any advise?

2007-03-13 06:13:00 · 13 answers · asked by Bubbles 3 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months and recently his ex and her mom have been trying to split us up. They have threatened him that they will tell my parents we are going out. I think they are doing this because her mom wants him to go out with her daughter again but the reason they broke up was because she cheated on him and she broke up with him.

2007-03-13 06:12:44 · 22 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u handle it?

What are u suppose to do, if all your friends are dating for a long time, and ur the only single in the group?

cause obviously they and you feel ackward abt this - but, what is a girl to do,

please advice,
thanks

2007-03-13 06:12:41 · 17 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

inquiring minds want to know!!

2007-03-13 06:12:15 · 7 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

what is the correct amt of time after starting a relationship do you think is best to get physically intimate - or kiss??

please post honestly

2007-03-13 06:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

He is seperated from his wife & kids and he is living with us, his mom & dad. He gets to see his kids when he wants but he's afraid once the divorce proceedings come up that she will want full custody. He also has a drug & drinking problem. I want to help him & he wants help. He's told me so.

2007-03-13 06:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by spacebeam2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

coz maybe u know this or maybe not but lots of people out there give up their dreams just to make their family happy.... young man in Lebenon and other parts of the world are forced to join the army even though they know whats the outcome.....how long shall this continue? guess as long as there is a divide....

2007-03-13 06:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my wife have had some problems in our 8 year marriage we have 3 kids and about a few months ago my wife cheated on me she was leaving and i asked to her to stay and try to work on our marriage after about a month or so things started to go good i love her and want better for all of us her included i kind of understand why she did it but im having trouble coping with it i need some advise from someone who has gone through it
should i stay or go?

2007-03-13 06:08:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

once a cheater always a cheater? or can they change by some miracle?
once a liar always a liar? or can it be that they only once lied to you?
all is fair in love and war? or is the outcome not fair?

2007-03-13 06:07:43 · 29 answers · asked by princess_anne_2009 3 in Friends

like the garter toss(does the bride sit on the best mans lap, then the groom takes it off) the boquet toss. the runnin to the car with the rice.

2007-03-13 06:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by da_chief_one 2 in Weddings

Realize that it might make them feel old?
I guess being looked apon as a harmless father figure beats creeping out young ladies.
-Sigh-

2007-03-13 06:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by Repub-lick'n 4 in Singles & Dating

I read somewhere if a man has a big genital, he is more likely to stay married and in a longer relationship.
I dated someone for over 4 yrs who was enormously endowed, and I was totally drawn to him. We engaged in "relations" almost every day. He was a no working, lazy, criminal, but I stayed for 4 whole years.
Are women really more satisfied with men who have large genitals? Do you have personal experience?

2007-03-13 06:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Well..... I don't really know where to start. My husband and I are thinking about going and getting his nefew, cause this little boy's mother is a knew drug addict and he is being moved from place to place.... with no real place to call home and haven't been in school about a week or two now.
So, I guess I need some inside on how to go about doing this. We are worried that if Family & Childern Service get into it, that thay will want to put him into Foster care, and that's what we are trying to keep from happening.
Please if there is any one out there that has been though this or even knows how to go about doing this with out it ending in Foster care.........
We want to open up our home to him, but we don't really know how. I mean yes we do know it's alot of work and time (paper work) but where do we start??? PLEASE HELP US!!!!

2007-03-13 06:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by vamps&flowers 2 in Family

What do you perfer doing after sex? Obviously most men dont want start a deep conversation....any ideas?

2007-03-13 06:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by southren_lvr_17 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a house wife With two small kids (under twenty months).I love my husband very very much ,i love him so much that i cant stay without him.He also loved me a lot but suddenly his behaviour towards me has changed ,Y i dont know?? I feel he doesnt love me any more.Often we fight for small small things.Day before yesterday we fighted so bad that we desided to divorce,I also agreed but when he went ,i felt that there is nothing anymore in my life.So i tried to kill myself but when he came to know this he came back but his behaviour is still same.I feel that i am forcing him to love him.What should i do??I have two kids?They need both of us.Should i start to work again and start a new life?? should i leave him coz he is suffering for me?? i love him very much.i dont understand what is my fault???

2007-03-13 06:06:01 · 12 answers · asked by sherry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the typical signs of an abusive relationship and partner, ow do u change that?

2007-03-13 06:05:32 · 8 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what r the symptoms of love???

2007-03-13 06:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 06:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by pam 1 in Friends

I ran into a girl from my highschool at a restaurant, she was waitressing, anyways she recognized me and came over and talked to me for a few minutes, anyways when she went to go back to work I asked her for her number, which she gave me. I want to call her and ask her for a date, but now I'm not sure, since I don't know if she had a boyfriend, was just being polite, or if she really wanted me to call her. What do you think

2007-03-13 06:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Singles & Dating