what is the correct amt of time after starting a relationship do you think is best to get physically intimate - or kiss??
please post honestly
2007-03-13 06:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"how long should u normally wait before u get intimate?" Until you know the other person so well that you know what the brand of bras his mother wears. Until you know the other person so well that you know ALL of their quirks and habits and would be able to tolerate them in a permanent relationship.
2007-03-13 06:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing is ok if you like each other and the mood is right. It really depends on how old you are. If you are a teen-ager--wait a long time, because this is not the person you will be with forever, and you don't want to waste yourself on every guy you go out with. If you are older, you probably wouldn't be asking this question. :-) I think that if you form a relationship where you know neither of you wants to see anyone else and you are committed--then it is ok to be intimate--but forming a committed relationship may take a while, and there is no time frame for that. Slutty people say 3'rd date if you want a specific time. But I would think it would take months to form that sort of commitment.
2007-03-13 06:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no absolute amount of time before a couple get intimate. Once both partners feel they are physically and emotionally "ready" to move the relationship in that direction then THAT is the right time for intimacy.
2007-03-13 06:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on u both some people moves real fast in a relationship some take their time to know each other
like old school to new school
personally i think getting intimate is important for me and some people to the point that they kant live wizout each other and start gettin closer "its a rite of passage"
2007-03-13 06:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me there comes a time that we look at eachother and we both know that there is no stopping what's coming next. At the very least a kiss. Generally on the first date.
There is no harm in physical comfort as long as you are mature about it.
2007-03-13 06:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is a designated amount of time one should wait. As long as you trust the person and are comfortable with them and ready to let them have you in that way, i think you should go for it, hell if i felt comfortable enough on a first date to kiss them, i would go for it!
2007-03-13 06:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't rush into things!!
Cliched I know, but you'll both know when the time is right. You can't plan these things, let it come naturally. Good luck!
2007-03-13 06:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and him, whatever you guys feel, don't go by what other people tell you because you'll know when it's right...i thought you were single though??
2007-03-13 06:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shudnt rush things evryone has there own needs and morals so there is not set time for how long u shud wait.
2007-03-13 06:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. If you are both adults you'll know when the time is right.
2007-03-13 06:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋