Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

ok, heres the deal, i have a bit of a situation on my hands and i need some parents to help me out on this one. Im really interested in this guy and he is really REALLY interested in me. He has asked me if i want to become "official" with him and i dont know what to say. i really do like him a lot, hes everything ive ever hoped for, but theres kind of a problem. He is not only twenty eight (im eighteen) but we meet over the internet by accident, (neither of us were looking for anything online lol). i really want to have a serious relationship but im embarresed to introduce him to friends and family because of what they might think/say of our ages or how we met. im also really worried about my parents, theyre super conservative and im not sure what theyll do. Help me out. what do you think i should do? and how do you think my parents would take it?

2007-03-13 06:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have masaged her breasts(but with clothe on) and she seamd to like it but I want to know if there is anything else or a technique that she would relly enjoy.
Please help, and answer as seriously as posible

2007-03-13 06:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 06:36:00 · 12 answers · asked by calamnelson 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys really stare at girls' butts and stuff like that?

2007-03-13 06:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I`m supposed to be going for a drink with a guy i quite like this weekend but theres a problem,i`m 24 and he is only 21,do you think this is a bit young?I see him in his work and we`ll have a bit of a joke and he`s really friendly and chatty and finally gave my friend his number for me when i wasn`t in and we have been texting and chatting on the phone,i spoke to him for about an hour last night and he was always trying to make me laugh which i know isn`t bad but it`s like constant,i`m not sure what to do?

2007-03-13 06:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

Some girl emailed me yelling at me because i read her profile and saw she was pregnant. someone else saw it and told her I said it, but I was told first. We got into a spat. She is a crybaby when things don't go her way? Need help. How should I handle it?

2007-03-13 06:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by Chris C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

turn offs

2007-03-13 06:34:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes I wish I could go back to being a kid. I had a pretty nice childhood-lots of friends, good grades in school, no big worries, etc. And it seems as though more people are nice to you when you're a kid, but now that I'm 21, it seems as though my aunts, uncles, parents, even people at school, etc. expect a lot more of me, and it can be really stressful. I also miss being a teenager like age 15, 16, 17...because I was in high school and things just seemed a lot more fulfilling. I hope the whole plan in life isn't "the older you get, the worse life gets" b/c that is sure what it seems like.

2007-03-13 06:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Friends

Help me out here! And no I'm not a man hater, I love my Husband I just need this for something! Best one gets 10 points! ThankS!

2007-03-13 06:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by NIKKI 3 in Singles & Dating

Sex. I have been married for 15 years now and we don't have sex as we used to. We have young children. I'm 33.
Is there a vitamin or something to help me in my sexual life? My husband is always in the mood, I still love him, and I still find him attractive. But I just don't feel in the mood ever. I'm a homemaker. Please I don't want my marriage to end. He is very patient. But I know he gets frustrated.

2007-03-13 06:33:18 · 14 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My son stays with my mother a few nights out of the week while me and his father go to work. Last night my brother came crying to my house saying that my mother had accused him of molesting my son. He said he was hurt that she would think that. Then this morning my mother called me and told me what had happened. My 4yr old son had gotten into bed with her and started to feel on her breasts. My mother was a little weirded out by this but she said she pretended to be asleep just to see how far this would go. He then checked to see if she was asleep and then he pulled the back of her pants down and tried to feel my moms butt up. My mom turned around and asked him what he was doing he said nothing. She asked him wear he had learned that. He didnt say anything then she asked him if he had learned that from my brother (who is gay) and he said yes. My mom went to my brothers room and asked him about it and he said no and began to cry. They got into an arguement and he left to my house.

2007-03-13 06:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Family

I KNOW, it sounds mean, but she wants to wear a bikini and i don't want her to embarrass herself, i mean she isn't fat but she definitely doesn't have a flat stomach. how can i tell her so she doesn't embarrass herself?

2007-03-13 06:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by lauren 2 in Friends

i'm a slow talker..and sometime i have to think for a while before i say anything..anyone have any idea how i can talk faster?

2007-03-13 06:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband, has 2 children from a previous marriage, when him and his x wife divorced in 2003, they were given Shared custody, with her as residential parent because my husband was over the road so often for work reasons. He was also given liberal visitations but no visitation guideline was put in the papers. At the time he was only able to get the children on every other weekend and holiday weekends etc. But since we have gotten married, we have watched the children any time his x wife needed someone to watch the kids, the kids go to school in our district, because she doesnt like the schools in her district. My husband asked for two weeks a month back in January, and she was okay with it at that time and ever since we've done every other week visitations with the children, and all has been fine, but now because she is upset with my husband for bringing me to a parent teacher (which I just listened to the meeting I didn’t say anything to step on anyones toes, I just listened because my husbands memory is not very good so he wanted me to be there) conference she is now stopping the every other week visitation saying its to much on the children.

2007-03-13 06:31:59 · 6 answers · asked by Bre B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 06:31:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married alomost 20 years, 3 children. Says he hasn't been happy in years - and I didn't have a clue. He wants out. Agreed for it to be a trial period and says he will be there for the kids. Now he is looking in another town for a place to live. How can be be there for the kids in another town? How do you deal with your best friend and spouse leaving you alone? My kids are so active there are many times they are not at home - I will be so lonely and I am so scared of the change.
I have went to counseling and my spouse even agreed to go to at least one session. I love him so much - maybe Iove him too much.
It is the scariest feeling and hard to explain but I know someone ha had the same feelings.
How to deal with them, what can I do to move on during this trial, What ever advice you can give..

2007-03-13 06:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by Confussedhere 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, i never think i look good
i am dead self concious
in p.e. if i walk into a room with my friends i get glared at and they ***** all the time.
I know i shouldn't care but i do
if i tell my boyfriend not to do something, he does it anyway.
I just
i don't feel brill.
i'm average weight.
I have brown hair
average height.
Been with my boyfriend for 10months.
I compare myself to everyone and it gets me down.

2007-03-13 06:31:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 16wks preggers and my family hates my bf and there big catholic goers so ofcourse its a sin to live with someone ur not married to (i oviously have diff views)

Do i move out (i rent from my parents) its a great condo nice great comunity great school system and low rent *they are cutting me a big break* but the catch is - my bf cant move in....

or do i ..

Move out with my bf into a way less nice place so we can be together. and all finaciall ties between my parents and i will be cut off. they wont even help me move...

advice????

2007-03-13 06:31:27 · 4 answers · asked by Janers 1 in Family

does that make me a Mile High Club member?

2007-03-13 06:31:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going out with a guy tonight, he said i could pick where we go... We have known each other through friends for a while.. but never really talked.. last weekend we were drunk at a party and made out, and since then we have talked every day.. is this a date.. or just two friends hanging out? And what should i pick to do.. i just need help.. im really shy and if he does like me i dont want to mess this up because he is a really great guy!!

2007-03-13 06:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by ballachino5 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 06:30:48 · 4 answers · asked by jumpin jack flash 1 in Singles & Dating

Please tell me if you have bin in this situation and how long you waited.

2007-03-13 06:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometime i have problems performing, i'm 52. Why can't women be satified with just the lovemaking?

2007-03-13 06:30:15 · 31 answers · asked by garykau2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just funny things now yhat there are 18

2007-03-13 06:29:55 · 3 answers · asked by kerstin.botto@talk21.com 1 in Friends

Help what do i do ? i told my friend me and her can do a sleep over and now i girl is asking me if she wants to have a sleep over what do i do . should i go with the frist one or 2 one WHAT DO I DO ? oh and they both are my best best best best best friends AGAIN WHAT DO I DO ?????????

2007-03-13 06:29:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-13 06:29:19 · 27 answers · asked by jammy 4 in Family

My sister broke up with her boyfriend about 5, maybe 6 days ago, they were together for 4 years. And she seemed fine after that firtst night. she went on relatively normal if not happier than when she was with him.
Then last night her boyfriend came by, and wanted to "talk". they left the house and went to where i can only assume was his house. They were gone for the better part of two hours. And now they are back together, you may think this sounds lke a good thing, but, they have broken up before; she said she didn't see a future with him and he felt the same; once one of my sister's freinds was pretty damn sure she saw him kissing another girl; and he is leaving soon to go to a different college that is pretty far away. But we think he schmoosed her until she caved in.
I think them getting back together was a big mistake, and so do my parents.
Are we wrong? Should they get back together? Didn't she need more time after the break up

2007-03-13 06:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by QuestionMark 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have benn together for 5 months he says he loves me everyday...until one day he told me that he isnt in love with me but he loves me as a person....should i be mad...should i leave him....

2007-03-13 06:29:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 06:29:08 · 15 answers · asked by LC 1 in Friends

The question is pretty self explanatory ...


So is it?


What's it like?
And what is most mens main prerogative when they
are young & in college?

2007-03-13 06:29:06 · 4 answers · asked by It's Just me.... Kiwi :) 2 in Singles & Dating