I KNOW, it sounds mean, but she wants to wear a bikini and i don't want her to embarrass herself, i mean she isn't fat but she definitely doesn't have a flat stomach. how can i tell her so she doesn't embarrass herself?
2007-03-13 06:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by lauren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mind your business. YOu'll only hurt her feelings and maybe lose a friend.
2007-03-13 06:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have someone else you know who is large, wear a bikini in front of her. If she comments, give her a look like she's in the same boat. you don't necessarily have to have a flat stomach in order to wear a bikini though. Pregnant women wear bikinis. Are you sure you're not the one who will be embarassed if she wears a bikini? Just have her try one on & show you how it looks. Then, point out her belly & ask her how she feels about that fault. If she's fine w/ it, then let her be. We learn through our mistakes.
2007-03-13 07:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel where you are coming from...But I think that if she feels ok with wearing it, let her wear it. I feel that if you mention it to her you might hurt her feelings and end up losing a friend. If she ends up getting her feeling hurt by others (I hope not) Then just be there for her in her time of need like a good friend should be. Because who are we to tell people what they should and shouldn't wear.I hope this is good advice!
2007-03-13 07:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by asweetreat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels good about herself...who are you to impose your opinion about how you think she looks. If she wants to wear a bikini then she should wear one...leave her alone
2007-03-13 06:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet - lots of women with less than perfect bodies wear them
2007-03-13 07:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one.....I mean on one hand you don't want her to embaress herself but on the other hand you don't want to hurt her feelings. I would try to be honest with her but if she gets upset then drop it! ask yourself.....is it her thats going to be embaressed, or is it me?
2007-03-13 06:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her try it on in a dessing room with 3 mirrors surround reflection so to speak then she will see for herself what everybody in every direction is seeing
2007-03-13 06:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be Frank or just mind your business...anyway she sounds fat enough to have thick skin to shield from embarassment!
2007-03-13 06:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Blulahbahsimi 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋