sometime i have problems performing, i'm 52. Why can't women be satified with just the lovemaking?
2007-03-13 06:30:15 · 31 answers · asked by garykau2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your problem is not uncommon at our age. It comes from a body changing and can be corrected easily. Try more lengthy foreplay and performing oral sex on her before looking to satisfy yourself. The foreplay can build a heightened desire in your wife and actually satisfy her more when she is able to orgasm. The oral is a sure bet for most women to be satisfied. And by the way most women desire multiple orgasm to be completely satisfied. It's no different than going to a movie and not watching it to the end. What's the point in starting to watch it if you don't care what the ending is going to be other than just killing time? May I also add that learning more about what a woman likes by experimenting in foreplay will also show that you are a romantic lover and not just interested in performing a duty. Think about it pal. Casanova wasn't know for the end result in what he gave women, it was his methods of romance that made him famous. You want to know what women want? Pick up one of the cheap romance novels they enjoy and read it. It's like stealing another teams playbook before a game. It won't be long before your wife will start bragging about what they have waiting for them at home to their best friends(and trust me they do!!!).
2007-03-13 06:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you if you didn't orgasm? The thing about men--is that 99.9% of the time, your sexual actions result in an orgasm. How would you like it if you got right to that breaking point, an oops sorry just enjoy what you had, even if you aren't "finished"? Realistically most women DON'T have orgasms while having sex. They require direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. This can be done before, during and after the actual act of sex. G-spot orgasms are very hard to come by(no pun intended, LOL!!!!) and it takes a woman and a very patient partner to acheive this. Most women are satisfied with the enjoyment of the act--what you should be doing is doing everything in your power to learn and satisfy her--then lovemaking will go to a whole other level!!!
2007-03-13 06:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you take care of your performance problems? It is most likely your fault that they are not having an orgasm because you can't perform properly. You are 52 not 92, you need to fix your problem and not have women settle for just lovemaking with you.
2007-03-13 06:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by NLH823 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you satisfied with just the lovemaking? Don't you like to have orgasims? Everyone does! If you are having problems performing then she should be understanding. Maybe you could try satisfying her in other ways before you start intercourse. Or maybe invest in some toys... if you can't come through the toy will never go soft. That way she is happy and you will not feel as if you have let her down.
2007-03-13 06:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by VMSS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 52 and haven't figured out yet that there is far more in life than d*cking around with women. My God man! You should be a wise old hermit living in bliss on a mountain top somewhere. The whole man woman thing is nothing more than procreation and problems. If you think otherwise you are a sucker. Just whack it, and get on to thinking about something important.
2007-03-13 07:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you? I think it's just fair you both do. Nowadays there are so many ways (and things) that can help women reach an orgasm. Try sex toys! Viagra. It'll be exciting for both of you to discover new things about sex, and you can actually do it together! Talk to your woman, get options and enjoy sex. It's just too wonderful to pass on it and so worth the time to research. Good luck!
2007-03-13 06:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime a women needs more then lovemaking they need to experience something they never had before they need the urge to want i more something that they can't handle try new moves that can enhance your ability to perform better
2007-03-13 06:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are YOU satisfied with just the lovemaking or do you want to orgasm too? You should be willing to see to her orgasm, but it doesn't have to be just with coitus. Get a vibrator to use on her, use your fingers, use your tongue. However you do it, get the job done to HER satisfaction just as you would expecte her to do for you.
2007-03-13 06:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by bdunn91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The purpose of the female orgasm is to lower the uterus to aid in the collection of the semen from the male. It is not physically necessary as the sperm can swim and get there anyway.
But I suppose the woman likes her orgasm as much as you do, so she's into it. Use your hand to finish her off; don't be selfish.
2007-03-13 06:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that some women don't always require an orgasm.
why are you being so selfish, in the meantime?
you're 52, so you should know how to provide a woman with an orgasm in foreplay, if that is what your lover would like.
why is it all about YOU?
2007-03-13 06:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋