Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

Ive been dating the same guy since December...we are exclusive...I told him I didnt want to put any label on it and keep it cool...Ive started to have feelings...he moved in sort of by default bc he and his roomate didnt get along...ive said it is a bad idea all along...he is very sweet and caring and thoughtful...on the flipside, he is also very critical and last night he started talking about "feelings" i guess...he said that other girlfriends said that he is a coward and that he cant fall in love...i guess hes been hurt before...the other day, he said that he has never found anyone to settle down with...hes 34, im 25...should i run like hell?

2007-03-05 03:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not a member but this site is always popping up, here and there. Is it as good as advertised?

2007-03-05 03:52:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about giving up all women under 21. They can't drink legally anyway so I figure it should be easy. What about you?

2007-03-05 03:51:08 · 14 answers · asked by Quix 3 in Singles & Dating

I had to go to cashpoint earlier to withdraw some money for my mum which was £70. I had to do a statement first, I was in a mega rush and had loads of parcels to post so after statement i typed £70 in and then card cam out so i got card and dashed of to postoffice only forgeting the money. I have been soo upset i nearly passed out when i realised. Ive been to bank and money havent gone back in. someone took it as soon as i dashed off. I feel so silly its my own fault, i had so much on my mind i just didnt think.
Ive been crying constantly, How stupid can someone be. Have you ever done that before.

2007-03-05 03:50:49 · 37 answers · asked by lisa c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like us girls always make sure we look nice, we care about looking nice for the guys, acting all sweet to them, etc. but the guys don't seem to care how they dress or what they look like or whatever but they expect US to look nice and wear nice clothes, or at least clothes that look good but they don't have to...what is up with that?? If they want us to be attracted to them why don't they want to look attractive?

2007-03-05 03:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Singles & Dating

to do? I feel like ending up everything! please...could anyone help me what's the first thing i should do? i dont know where and how to start. I'm stuck!

2007-03-05 03:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by joanne 1 in Friends

2007-03-05 03:49:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay ladies so i have always wandered this. I am a male asking for a girls opinion on the following: Say you are in any location, a bar, a club, a bus stop or a library even, if a girl gives eye contact to a guy, does that usually mean she is interested (from a females point of view) or are they just smiling to be polite if you are smiling at them.

In the past i have seen a girl give me eye contact, smile and then when I approached her, gave me the knock back. Im thinking maybe she was just smiling politely because i was at her but how can you tell the difference?

Aswell as this, is there a certain thing either with eye contact or some other body language a girl will do to let you know she is interested in a guy before a conversation will start?

Thanks

2007-03-05 03:49:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 03:49:16 · 5 answers · asked by Jody H 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like us girls always make sure we look nice, we care about looking nice for the guys, acting all sweet to them, etc. but the guys don't seem to care how they dress or what they look like or whatever but they expect US to look nice and wear nice clothes, or at least clothes that look good but they don't have to...what is up with that??

2007-03-05 03:48:44 · 22 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Singles & Dating

I am the only one in my family that takes care of my 84 yr. old uncle. In jan. he when in to the hospital . Now he lives about 100 miles from me. (give or take.) He has a dog that we ended up bring home with us because his neighbors called the cops for it barking. When we did this my uncle told me to take his play money of expenses. It was $160. He was in the hospital for a month and a half. He is home now. He called me last week and yelled at me for taking his money and wants me to pay it back. I spent most of that money on his dog for food.( the dog eats very weird stuff, Chicken, Bacon, Sausage, Wet dog food(not the cheap kind ) .) And the rest of the money when in to my car for taking the dog back and forth to the hospital so he could see it. Now my question is should i pay him back? I might also and that the dog tore up my carpet. I rent so I have to fix it. And barked the whole time i had it.

2007-03-05 03:48:25 · 11 answers · asked by greentigereyeddragon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl that I (a male) am interested in, but wanted to take her to a few places as friends, first. Mostly to get to know her better. Where are some different places where a female friend can be taken for a good time?

Please, when answering this, tell of places where we can actually talk or interact in some way. In this way, movie theaters would be canceled out of the list because you don't really talk during a movie...

Please answer with a few different places where we can actually talk or interact in some way.

MANY THANKS! I love Yahoo! Answers, there are great people here with great answers.

2007-03-05 03:47:29 · 24 answers · asked by dacoofoo247 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 03:46:55 · 3 answers · asked by ashlet_sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I like my best friend a lot but he doesnt feel the same about me, as far as I know. He knows that I like him and it hasnt changed anything. What I really want to know is...What can I do to make him like me? How do I act around him...if he doesn't like me, how can I change his mind? please help...

2007-03-05 03:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by blahBLAHblah 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently I started talking to this guy I used to date a few years ago, we had sex in the past and he's been wanting to hang out lately. I just thought it mighta been some type of booty call or something. I fianlly agreed to go out with we went out to lunch and went over to his place to watch a movie, then things started to get a little hot beween us and we were about to have sex and he stop it. He said he wanted to take me out and hang out more before we did anything. But it's not like we haven't did it before. whats is he really thinking? Is he really just being nice guy or not interested?

2007-03-05 03:46:30 · 20 answers · asked by dreamangel1102002 2 in Singles & Dating

When we went we always did something sexual and that was it. A few weeks before he went back to college we had sex for the 1st time. He was in town for at least 2 weeks before he left but he never called. When he came back from college he called but I was not at home. He never gave me his number so I could return his calls. After a while I moved and never knew he called. When I was married he called called and told me he would like to see me. My husband flipped. I recently ran into into him and he has had a live-in girlfriend for almost 20 yrs and did not have kids. I am married and he wants to see me again. Is he a player?

2007-03-05 03:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I so wrong to want a life as I have told my best mate that who is male that I only just ever want to be mates. But the thing is I went and got my self a bf and didn't tell him cos I didn't want to hurt him I accidently ended up sending him a text msg which said about my new bf to him by mistake - in the midst of an arguement with another of my friends. He hates me now but I dont see I have done anything wrong as I have been straight with him right from the start and even told him if he wants to walk away that I would understand - Should I stay single for the rest of my life - am I in the wrong - am I so wrong to want a life. - am I so wrong to want to fall in love am I asking too many questions - I'm in a serious pickle.

2007-03-05 03:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by julie p 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has not been very interested in sex since the birth of our child (6mos ago). We have talked about it, and agree that we want to satisfy each others needs. She has experienced some pain, so I am happy with giving each other "a hand." We are still not in agreement on how often...any suggestions?

2007-03-05 03:44:59 · 25 answers · asked by Killer B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...and I have not slept together? We have been dating for almost three months and we see each other almost everyday. We both live with our parents (I am still in college and he had to sell his house~long story), but their were two weekends in a row where either my parents or his parents were out of town...and we didn't do anything. He hasn't even tried to get me into bed.

It's not that I want to rush into anything...but I was just wondering if it is normal for a guy to be willing to wait when he really cares about the person he is with.

By the way...we are both in our mid-twenties!

2007-03-05 03:44:32 · 18 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my flatmate and still want to be with her but its not gonna happen, but obviously i have to see her everyday still and this just makes it harder cos im reminded how much i still love her. I cannot sleep or concentrate on work either n dont know what to do.

2007-03-05 03:43:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with his ex 4 years agp, they talk on msn rarely and text eachother happy xmas, happy birthday you. Im cool with that, I think its nice they can still be nice to eachother, but why he called her that night, i really dont know. I guess he just wanted to catch up and thats ok with me, it was more his reaction that got me angry.

I know to be careful around ex's lol ive been hurt before, but trust is trust, he knows what will happen if he betrays me.

should I call him? or should i wait for him to mkae the first move? im despreate for answers lol

2007-03-05 03:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by moomoo 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are almost in a virtual cold war with another couple. The husband is obnoxious, arrogant, abrasive, and has made a point of being rude to me. I have known the wife since we were little kids. Now everytime our group goes out there is tension, which has made everyone uncomfortable.

2007-03-05 03:41:23 · 8 answers · asked by Insight 1 in Friends

I am seeking to get sole custody of my child. Will that have anything to do with the amount of child support my ex pays? Will he have to pay at all?

2007-03-05 03:41:00 · 28 answers · asked by delicious1970 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This June will be our 5th Anniversary. In these past 5 years we have remodeled 2 houses, moved 5 times, had 3 kids, my husband has changed jobs 5 times, 3 of our grandparents have died, and we have had more than 10 different vehicles between the two of us. Would you say that is enough stress to last the rest of our marriage? Are we completely crazy or is this normal? Is anyone else suprised that we made it through all of this still intact? What do you suggest we do for our next 5 years of marriage to alleviate stress?

2007-03-05 03:40:45 · 17 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this man who is divorcing his wife. The state we live in has harsh divorce laws and you cant divorce unless you have been separated for a year. We love each other very much and plan on getting married as soon as the divorce is final.There is no chance of the two of them reconciling-in fact prior to him moving out they lived "separately" for a few years. Can we get into trouble?

2007-03-05 03:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by baseballlover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

comfortable in asking them to do it for you?

2007-03-05 03:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

He is a special guy to meand he is one of the guy that i don't want to lose(aside form my bf). He asked me to have sex with him 'cause he said that he is comfortable with me.He said he is not comfortable with his gf.I love my bf so much.how can i say NO to him without getting him disappointed?

2007-03-05 03:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by Wesley Anne 1 in Singles & Dating

should i get a sex change, i was thinking it would be real funny if i got a sex change then had sex with a bunch of men, then afterwards tell them that i used to be a guy! then id get the sex change reversed and have sex with a bunch of women and then afterwards tell them they just had sex with someone who used to be a woman! does it sound like a good prank?

2007-03-05 03:39:14 · 17 answers · asked by cartman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it the vinegar?

2007-03-05 03:39:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Start slinging some ideas my way, please!

Preferably one that you or someone you know has used and had good results. Thanks!!

2007-03-05 03:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by duritzgirl4 5 in Weddings