Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I met this great girl online , chatted for a few hours, exchanged cell messages for a month. We met briefly for about 3 minutes. I like her a lot , but as for her ?.One time I was showing off about something , and she messaged me "stop it , I don't need u explaining all that. I'm already impressed by you as it is.I already told u the tickin part is missing and we said we'll see about that".
Cell messages come & go , and one day she says "I feel I am doing you injustice , I enjoy very much our chit chats & I'm sure I'll enjoy meetin u even more , but a girl knows who will be her best friend and who will be something more" . Once I got that , I just stopped messaging her all together but she called me "which is very rare , she gets bad migranes from talking on the cell", she called just to check on me & say she's worried why I haven't messaged in two days . is there hope for me with this girl? If so , how?

2007-03-05 04:21:37 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by connie w 1 in Singles & Dating

When ever he is with his friends...he acts as if he don't know me....and then when we are alone...all he wants to do is have sex....He says he loves me, but I don't feel it...it doesn't feel like his love is real....we have been together for three years...what should I do?

2007-03-05 04:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by sHy_gUrL 1 in Singles & Dating

I've done the dinners(both home cooked and eat out), flowers, chocolates, cards, rose petal floor with backrubs and wine,customized M&M's, I like the weekend getaways but don't know what kind of themes to use other than lodges, bed and breakfast, and the outdoors. But I'd like to hear some new ideas and thoughts on the matter. So I thought I'd go to the source and see what you ladies have to suggest.

2007-03-05 04:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I currently have a wife.We are having many problems.Our love is'nt there anymore like how it use to be.She loves me less.I really wanted to put things back together and grow from our problems with a fresh start.Right now we are seperated, not divorsed.Everytime i talk to her about love or me changing.She says that im puishing her away even more.It makes her mad.Now since i am pretty much alone here i am loving her less and less.There is still like 1% of us getting back together from whatr she and i said.Now I am talking and starting to see another woman.She is great and was an old friend.She has and does things that my wife didnt do or feel.I like her more then what i expected.She likes me alot too. she had a big crush on me before.So now i am mixed up and don't know if i should hop into this relationship.Should i still stick around with my wife and see what to work out.My wife is my first love! Am i attracted to the woman because of sex or companionship?I enjoy both.Is she a rebound?

2007-03-05 04:17:51 · 28 answers · asked by srodrico 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does she mean when she says that you would be great together and knows how well you would treat her. but she just can't date you.

2007-03-05 04:17:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:16:34 · 10 answers · asked by jamal w 1 in Singles & Dating

thinking about their favourite barmaid,
and having a tommy tank..!!!

2007-03-05 04:15:59 · 4 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Friends

2007-03-05 04:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:15:12 · 6 answers · asked by melissa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Love is suppose to be unconditional and there aren't no limits, right? I'm 19 and im dating a guy who's 51 ( I know the whole age thing is a big diffrence ) but if you like someone and connect with them then its not a issue, however, I have a daughter who's almost 2 years old and he loves her to pieces and im pregnant ( 38 weeks ) with my 2nd ( not his ) and he has been so supportive with me through alot, Even with my pregnancy , However I don't feel to SEXY with my big pregnant belly, and he is like you'll lose it, ..I just feel like he won't love me or as much if I keep my wweight, and love is suppose tp be unconditional? sometimes I joke around that, would you still be with me if I kept all my weight on after the baby and he is like * lets hope that doesn't happen * ...and give me a smile as if to say it won't happen....How do I know if he loves me unconditionally?

2007-03-05 04:14:47 · 27 answers · asked by mom4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean what percentage of the time??? what oodds does the average guy have???

2007-03-05 04:14:41 · 12 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who comes down to where i live every weekend with my friend and we just hang out okay i really like him and was planning on telling him how i fell when my cousin suddenly meets him and like him too and he finds out and i guess since he found that out he likes her but i know for a fact if he knew how i felt he would choose me but okay so now there going out and dhe has a long distamce relationship already it's not fair because she also knew i liked him im so mad and frustrated and kinda heartbroken i want him bak i dont care im not gonna be nice any more he was gonna be mine till she showed up i mean i know she my cousin but i didn't think that was right what would you do??

2007-03-05 04:13:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by makarand p 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a good idea to hit on girls who I study with (at university) ?

Or is it unwise to fish in your own fishtank ?

2007-03-05 04:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've really been wondering what I should do here. I see so many Brides that change out of their dresses into a white party dress for the reception. I'm just wondering what any of you have done or have seen being done. My dress is a very formal dress. It has those very tight built in corsets. Everyone is telling me I should change, but I look at it this way.... I only plan on getting married once. My Mom spent well over $1000 on my dress, so I feel I should wear it as long as possible to get some of my money's worth! This is a link to a picture of my dress. It has a cathedral length train on it, but we're going to have it busseled for the reception.

http://www.moncheribridals.com/Bridals/StyleDetail.aspx?best=True&pid=425&ReturnUrl=/Bridals/Gallery4.aspx

Should I get another dress just to be more comfortable or should I wear the dress all night? I think I should wear it all night, but all my friends are telling me otherwise! Opinions please!

2007-03-05 04:12:49 · 49 answers · asked by Holly 3 in Weddings

What do I do? I don't cheat on her unless the other girl is super hot.

2007-03-05 04:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work for a consulting company and last week, there was a client visit, a guy, whom I had to take out for lunch and be with for the afternoon.

It wasn't a big deal, I have done these things before with no problems.

But this time I found the guy rather nice looking. However, I hope I din't let on how I felt. We were talking of politics at lunch as people do when they meet for the first time...He was all right except he seemed quite shy, and even embaressed.

Then he mentioned girlfriend totally out of context. Now this hurt me big time. Maybe I am being very sensitive here, but I couldn't stand the thought that he guessed I found him sweet and had to mention his gf to let me know he's not available.

But would a guy really think a woman is into him and he needs to tell her he's not available the first time he has met her and that in a work situation? I mean I din't honestly say anything flirty etc..

I feel insulted..waaaaah

2007-03-05 04:12:21 · 15 answers · asked by bourbon 2 in Singles & Dating

wot wud u do if a 14 year old girl started sleeping with an 87 year old man????!!!!

2007-03-05 04:12:19 · 47 answers · asked by N H 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is cheating or not? My boyfriend used to sneak phone calls to a girl at all hours of the day. She would even pose as his supervisor and call him at home and see if he could get away to meet with her. When I confronted him on it about a couple phone calls made at one in the morning to this girl he said he called because it was about a job. Now from my experience you don’t call about jobs at that time of day. He also said that it wasn’t cheating. What is your opinion on the subject is this considered cheating?

2007-03-05 04:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by Tabatha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:11:04 · 15 answers · asked by connie w 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me to find my friend

2007-03-05 04:10:36 · 2 answers · asked by yuvani 2 in Friends

...and I have not slept together? We have been dating for almost three months and we see each other almost everyday. We both live with our parents (I am still in college and he had to sell his house~long story), but their were two weekends in a row where either my parents or his parents were out of town...and we didn't do anything. He hasn't even tried to get me into bed.

It's not that I want to rush into anything...but I was just wondering if it is normal for a guy to be willing to wait when he really cares about the person he is with.

I just feel like maybe I am doing something to make him back off...I don't mean to...and I don't know what it is I am doing.

He is not a virgin..and he is not shy.

By the way...we are both in our mid-twenties!

2007-03-05 04:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Singles & Dating

What should i do?
this guy he is my friend he has been hurting my feellings alot and are you reaty for it i like him and every boty in school says that i like him and we look cute together and today one of my friends tolled him. at first he did not want to believe it but then he tolled me he does not know who to trust. my friend that is in the states thinks that i like him B/C i am traying to keep are friendship going B/C he has hurt my feelings so much i just dont know what to do.
I need help i mean should i tell him that i like him or should i just try stoping to like him.

2007-03-05 04:08:43 · 1 answers · asked by cool cat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Could u answer the very simplest q?
What is ur role in this world? why ur are so faceless?
what u want to do in theworld? why u got birth..do u have any role..and u woeking on it pals

2007-03-05 04:08:34 · 10 answers · asked by WavEE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf split up on saturday he said he didnt love me any more. but last night he txt me askin how i was and apologised for sayin he didnt love me. i bought him a ring a while ago and he left it here he is coming down 2nite to get it how do i act with him what do i say? HELP PLEASE

2007-03-05 04:08:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could you look past their "professional job" and see the person?

I am talking about being in adult films and that kinda thing.

2007-03-05 04:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 1 year and he has 3 kids with his ex I love his kids and they like me to but his ex refuse to let his kids see him when i am around we are on the virge of breaking up cause he rather see his kids so he thinks is better for me to leave but since the beging i told he i wanted no problem with his ex and kid or nothing to do with them so either he accepted it or leave me alone he accepeted it and now he said sorry but i can't forget my kids i said okay cool we could go see them i mean i like them their kids right just last month we gave them a phone their mother took it and broke it so he couldn't have any communication with them and turn them against both of us should i stay n be strong or leave and get out of a deed

2007-03-05 04:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by giliani g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a in home child care provider. I have a clean record and used to just happily give out my social if reluctant parents needed to do a background check, last year i was a victim of identity theft. Since then no one has asked to do a background check, i provide Credible references from familys who i work for and personal refrences and I have also done 2 interviews and invited them to my house....they are friends of a personal friend of mine as well, who also gave me a great refrence, howver they want a background check, so i told them i want to do one on them first to make sure they check out and have no criminal activity and then they can have my social and do one...
they are insulted and mad. any suggestions on how i can make them feel safe yet not worry that ten years from now that background check with my social is going to make it into the wrong hands?? Identity theft is not funa nd it almost ruined me the first time. please help??? this is my childcare business.

2007-03-05 04:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by nikel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

yeah, its for the unmarried people. pre-marital sex. it is said as immoral and people still do it..

2007-03-05 04:05:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating