yeah, its for the unmarried people. pre-marital sex. it is said as immoral and people still do it..
2007-03-05 04:05:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is just casual sex - no. If you love and are committed to a mutually exclusive relationship - yes. I walked away from the Christian belief years ago - I see nothing wrong or immoral about premarital sex as long as both people are single and have made a commitment to a LTR (potentially leading to marriage).
2007-03-05 04:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those who are saying sex can't make a relationship stronger have probably never been in a strong relationship or had sex before. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it just means that they have no frame of reference to know what they're talking about.
People say premarital sex is immoral and it still happens. People say pedophilia is immoral and it still happens. People say drunk driving is immoral and it still happens. People say murder is immoral and it still happens.
People say and do a lot of things, but I don't understand how premarital sex hurts anyone, as opposed to pedophilia, drunk driving, and murder. There are risks involved yes, but there are also risks in walking down the street. As long as contraceptives are being used and both (or more) partners are on the same page about what's going on, I see nothing immoral about consenting adults participating in pleasurable carnal encounters.
That said, never underestimate the power of awful sex to destroy an otherwise great relationship.
On the other hand, never underestimate the power of great sex to hold together an otherwise awful relationship.
2007-03-05 12:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, sex doesn't make a relationship closer in the manner that you're asking. If there are problems in the relationship it doesn't make it better it confuses it more. And it isn't one of the most important parts. (that was an immature response by the way). Sex does take you to another level- once you're ready for it, but it doesn't make you closer. Love is the only factor that brings you closer.
Sex is something that has no meaning anymore (speaking generally by today's generation) It is done when ever where ever and how ever with no concern about any.
Sex is something that is supposed to mean something and is supposed to be shared with one partner (yes after you're are married). But we are no longer a nation that believes that. And we wonder why there are so many problems.
2007-03-05 12:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Krista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is a man-made institution. Sex however was there long before marraige. Relationships can not be built around sex but sex can be built around the relationship. It is a connection that two people share and it is the ultimate expression of love. If someone finds a more profound one, let me know. If ever you have sex, just to have it, then you don't have a relationship, you have a release. Sex makes relationships stronger because it is a component that, if shared, makes two people so much closer.
2007-03-05 12:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really now for some it can make an relationship fun but after a min and u been there and done that the relationship falls and its sometimes because of having sex its not always the thing to do if u want an good relationship but some do it and there fine and ok but do what both of u want not just what u want r she want make sure your really to take it to the next step
2007-03-05 12:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by dark_n_sexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex can definatley make a relationship last longer. But I think that makes the relationship based on sex alone. And nothing deeper than that. So I dont think it is healthy at all. I think if you have a solid relationship and truly love each other then have sex, but dont base the relationship on it, or have sex just to keep the person around.
2007-03-05 12:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by s..... 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, id think that it makes the relationship stronger at all. it can be what breaks the relationship up but i guess that in all fairness, people do what they want to do, regardless of morals. that's where free will came in....there are so many other things to a relationship than sex. both emotionally and mentally. there are so many other connections than sex.
2007-03-05 12:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SEX is a major part in any relationship,it's just as important as trust & communication.sex is a way of showing your parner how you feel for them & that they can trust you.this does not mean that you need to be foolish about it & have unprotected sex with just anyone.........
it's a bond that to people share with each other & it's very important for both of you to want it & appreciate it.
pre-marital sex is not a crime,you just need to be mature as well as responsible about it!
all the best!
2007-03-05 12:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by KARMA 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Even though I usually wouldn't trust Neitzche, he did have something good to say on the subject:
Sensuality causes the tree of love to grow quickly. But it grows without roots, so often the first storm will wash it away.
2007-03-05 12:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only immoral to the whacky religious types.
There is nothing wrong with it unless you are too young.
2007-03-05 12:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋