me and my bf split up on saturday he said he didnt love me any more. but last night he txt me askin how i was and apologised for sayin he didnt love me. i bought him a ring a while ago and he left it here he is coming down 2nite to get it how do i act with him what do i say? HELP PLEASE
2007-03-05 04:08:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok let's all try to remain calm!!!! If it were me, I would just let him come and get the ring, be pleasant...whatever you do don't cry and beg for him back. Thefirst couple of weeks after a break up are so hard. But you are going to get through this. Saying he didn't love you anymore either suggests that he was just trying to hurt you ( which means he's an ar*se hole) or he actually doesn't (horrible as it may feel) so take this time before hand-get yourself looking gorgeous and be calm, poised and friendly.
good luck!
2007-03-05 04:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant turn love off like a light switch,either he does or he doesn`t.When he comes over don`t let him take the ring but ask him what is going on in his head,if he has something that he is finding difficult to share.Reassure him that your a good listener and ask him if its something that you have done wrong,try not to get upset or angry with him but try to be level headed,cool and calm.Suggest that you take your relationship a day at a time and that you go out together and have fun,but whatever you do DON`T give him the ring until you truly believe he is firstly telling you the truth and secondly you truly believe he loves you and is committed to your relationship............good luck.
2007-03-05 12:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok gurl...it depends on u..don't give him the ring yet 2nite even if u still love him...wait and see his behaviour over the next week...if he is sober and proves to u that he still loves u after one week then u can give him back the ring and get together again....but if he gets pissed at waiting and does'nt prove his love to ur satisfaction...then gurl he really does'nt love u any more and u can keep ur ring for another lucky guy...gud luck..
2007-03-05 13:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Love Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I'd just give him the ring and push him out the door.
That was a horrible thing to say to you, even if it was true.
Whatever you do, please don't agree to go back out with him tonight.
If he has an explanation, let him give it to you.
If it's a good explanation, think about it for a while.
After that while, decide whether you really want him back.
If he wants you back, then things are sorted.
As for things to say, just talk the way you normally would, without the love stuff.
2007-03-05 12:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by FuzzyCloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bought him a ring, and he is coming to get it back now hes just dumped you?! Dont let him have it, and tell him its too late. if he really loved you he wouldnt have said such a hurtful thing. Sell the ring and get some new clothes and go out on the town! Dont sell yourself short, u deserve more
2007-03-05 12:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a little crazy. First off...if he loved you to start with he just can't cut it off like that. Love has no off/on button. LOL. I would just say to see what he has to say and feels about the whole thing when he comes to get it and go from there. Good luck hun.
2007-03-05 12:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he no more loves you ,, just take a deep breath n accept the fact, when he comes, meet him as a friend don't mix up just say him goodbye with a smiling face,,
even in ur heart, there shud be no regret or hate for him as you have loved him n u shud respect ur love n the person whom u felt deserving for it at some time,,
life always mooves on ,, be positive,,
have peace n joy in life ahead,,
good luck,,
2007-03-05 12:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is: is he coming just to get the ring?
I'd put it away, see how things go, and if it looks like you're getting back together in several weeks, I'd give it back.
2007-03-05 12:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally,I'd make sure I wasn't home when he showed up. He's playing you like a yo-yo,in my opinion and what he said was extremely hurtful to you. I would stop contact with him for the time being. Don't test him,don't reply to his texts-he'll get the message that you will not accept being treated like that.
2007-03-05 12:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd text him back telling him you're busy tonight so he'll have to collect it when it's convenient for you, or send it through the post. Regardless of your feelings for him, he shouldn't play you around (if that is indeed what you think he's doing). Good luck hun x
2007-03-05 12:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by niamh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋