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When ever he is with his friends...he acts as if he don't know me....and then when we are alone...all he wants to do is have sex....He says he loves me, but I don't feel it...it doesn't feel like his love is real....we have been together for three years...what should I do?

2007-03-05 04:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by sHy_gUrL 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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What?! You've been with the guy for three years and he's still doing the 'immature thing' and denying that you are a couple. I'd look after my own best interest and let him have the freedom to find someone he's not ashamed to admit that he likes. He's a player...or at least trying to be. He doesn't sound like he's very good at it....but it seems to be enough to keep you on a string. You can't continue to accept being treated so poorly. I'd walk away from that guy without giving him the satisfaction of hashing it out first. Value yourself and walk away is my advice. He's using you.

2007-03-05 04:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Any guy that doesn't give you a place around his friends is not a real boyfriend. If the only time he wants to show you affection is in the bed then that is a sign of "time to move on". Trust me...if after three years the guy hasn't learned to appreciate you and show you love when not in bed then he just doesn't know what he has yet. My advice to you is to move on with your life and find something better. When this guy realizes that he is about to lose something special he will regret...but be strong and keep your head up and don't ever let no guy hold you down or feel unappreciated. There are many guys out there that am sure would love to be in a relationship with you and do things other than sex...things that will make you laugh and smile and of course make your feel like you are the only one in their life.

2007-03-05 04:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by babinalinda 1 · 0 0

If you have been together for three years, and you do not feel that he loves you and he completely ignores you around his friends...it sounds like he is using you and is just "comfortable" in the relationship and probably is why he stays with you. Have you tried talking to him? It sounds like you may have introduced the idea to him. I think you really need to think about your relationship, and whether or not it is worth it. He should be proud to show you to his friends and he should show how much he loves you. Not just by sex. It sounds like he is inmature. I think you deserve better, you could be wasting your time with this guy.

2007-03-05 04:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aron H 2 · 0 0

Anyone who loves you wouldn't act like he doesn't know you. But there is the possibility that he does, deep down, but he's just too immature to admit it. Either way, you're only hurting yourself by staying with him. You can do much better (any girl can do better than that). Go single for a while, if he really does love you he'd better clean up his act.

2007-03-05 04:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygod 3 · 0 0

Honey he doesnt love you. He loves that he gets some *** from you... he is embarrased to tell his friends about you for some odd reason, and when all he wants is to have sex, that is a major problem because people who love each other dont focus on that in their relationship

2007-03-05 04:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by s..... 4 · 0 0

He sounds like a finished d bag! you deserve more suitable positive! i'm so sorry he damage you! i could say flow on there are more suitable fish contained in the sea! it may even stress him wild that you dont care about him any more suitable. perhaps then he will understand what an fool he has been and beg u to take him again! I wish u best of luck!

2016-12-05 06:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by jaffar 4 · 0 0

Actions speak louder then words. Stop being a door mat. If he is only looking for sex after 3 yrs, then he has no respect for you and this relationship is going no where fast. Sorry to say you are being played. Pick yourself up and move on. Remember, no one will respect someone who has little to no respect for themselves.

2007-03-05 04:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0 0

DUMP HIM!! If he only wants to have sex....take a clue. If he won't recognize you without your clothes on around his friends....take a clue. He's been screwing you for 3 years, not dating honey. Guys will go as far as you let them. Dump him, move one, don't put out. Respectable guys want respectable girls.

2007-03-05 04:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by bored_in_city 2 · 0 0

If it has been three years, doesn't his friends know you by now? Dump him unless you just want a sexual connection with him, because it sounds like that's all he's giving you.

2007-03-05 04:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Break up and move on to something MUCH better. This is NOT love, this is a booty call when it comes down to it....no offense. IF he loved u not only would he tell his boys about u but he would BRAG about u!!!. U deserve better....good luck

2007-03-05 04:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0 0

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