...and I have not slept together? We have been dating for almost three months and we see each other almost everyday. We both live with our parents (I am still in college and he had to sell his house~long story), but their were two weekends in a row where either my parents or his parents were out of town...and we didn't do anything. He hasn't even tried to get me into bed.
It's not that I want to rush into anything...but I was just wondering if it is normal for a guy to be willing to wait when he really cares about the person he is with.
I just feel like maybe I am doing something to make him back off...I don't mean to...and I don't know what it is I am doing.
He is not a virgin..and he is not shy.
By the way...we are both in our mid-twenties!
2007-03-05 04:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by southernbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl,i dont know him,so i cant tell you exactly.But If hes waiting,im sure hes trying to make it prolongue so that its natural and beautiful when the time comes you know,I think he really does care.He wants you to feel comfourtable i guess-and if i were you id flash that to the world
2007-03-05 04:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by kill_the_barbies!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be forward. If you want that kind of relationship ask him if he is wanting the same thing. If he doesn't he is either a virgin or has a hard time with approaching the subject. Maybe he is confused, anyways ask him and if yo want sex go somewhere else . Obviously there is something a little fishy.
2007-03-05 04:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by rm3alford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, this is an exceptional human being anbd if you let him go then you will definitely experience a loss. To think that he has enough moral fiber within himself not to give in to those lower qualities of lst and instant gratification and focus on your whole being is a stroke for allof us men who do likewise, and i do mean MEN as all others are errant boys wih delusions of male behavior that is usually far from the level of manhood
2007-03-05 04:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that it's strange. Three months isn't a long time. You really don't know each other well yet. Has he kissed you? If he hasn't kissed you yet then, i would be concern. Just have fun...sex complicates things anyway. Especially, when you have it too soon. Fall in Love first!
2007-03-05 04:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is respecting you, and he doesnt think that you are ready yet, unless you fool around with him. If you want more things to happen, you make the move. But for me, after three months, I wouldnt be having sex with my boyfriend yet. I would wait longer, but that is just me. So make the first move to let him know that you are interested, well if you are of course.
2007-03-05 04:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-05 04:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Wrigth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it not strange if you both have decided to wait. Are you making out at least? why don't you just talk about it and see where both of you stand about it. If you don't talk you will never know!!
2007-03-05 04:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by k-girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. He might actually just really like you and wants to take his time with you. No need to rush. He might not want to ruin a good thing.
2007-03-05 04:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird. He could have performance anxiety brought on by stress. He could really like you, but not in a physical sort of way. Or he could be way. no matter what the issue is, it is his issue not yours. Don't beat yourself up because of his behavior.
2007-03-05 04:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Summer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he really cares for you? why dont you talk to him about it. He might just be waiting for the perfect time.. or he might not think that you are ready.. comunicate your feelings.. it will always work out in the end.
2007-03-05 04:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by sleepdeprived85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋