Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

My girlfriend left to go get food on Sunday and left her phone at the house. When it rang I picked it up thinking it may be her from a pay phone. But it was her ex calling. The ex said that she was returning a phone call. I havent confronted my girlfriend about this, I honestly dont know what to do!! Help!

2007-03-05 04:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by whit2982 1 in Singles & Dating

going to vegas in may.It will only be the to of us.We want a nice wedding to remember.

2007-03-05 04:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by furggy 1 in Weddings

She and I are not speaking. I was the last one to know that she was getting married. She lied to me about dating, she made excuses when I would ask her to come over to visit. After she met this guy, she became very distant. I want her to understand how I feel, but she is oblivious to everything. This guy is running her life. I actually went to her house to visit and realized that my children's and my pictures have been taken down. I was very upset. I have not talked to her for 4 months now. I recently asked her to go to counseling with me and her response was..."I do not need counseling, but you surely do!" I am very bitter. Should I let it go and accept the way she is. Or should I let it go and not talk to her at all.

2007-03-05 04:04:57 · 20 answers · asked by ProudMama 2 in Family

to see your b00bs why not just show them or is there something wrong with them that you dont want men to see them if they are nice i would want eveyone to know

2007-03-05 04:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... despite the fact its an ace film! so cool! (and no im not gay rom-coms are cool) but anyways thats for another question however I wanted to ask
(reffering back to the movie) why do exes ring up exes and tell them stuff like "oh im getting married" or similar stuff
Id have thought that was quite a low thing to do and quite sad to be honest ok im only a 20yr old male so most people maybe saying your too young to understand but seriously why do people do this to each other its sad isnt it?

2007-03-05 04:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend signed us up for "Pornflix". I am not sure the real name of the place, but it is the porn equivalent for Netflix.

I agreed to watch porn with him previously, so I guess he took it upon himself to try out this site. When we watch the porn, he has all these "rules" so that no one gets upset/hurt over the experience. We have watched it together a couple times and it went well.

Last night he told me he had already watched the next two DVDs on the list that we had received and sent them back for two more. I got super pissed. This was something we were supposed to be sharing together and he went and ruined it by watching the porn alone and "taking care of things".

Am I right in being upset? I feel disgusted with him and betrayed that he did that. I despise when guys watch porn, but I thought if we did this together, maybe it would be ok. For him to do it alone broke that trust between us.

He kept saying he didn't know what the big deal was. Am I wrong???

2007-03-05 04:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Trixie 2 in Singles & Dating

stir paint? can a guy love his screwdriver that much more than a woman?

2007-03-05 04:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 in Singles & Dating

so, it happened again. my sister in law came to my office for a little "fun" again. the stuff she is into would be enough to drive normal guy crazy. we must have spent a solid 2 hours locked in my office doing just about anything you can imagine. is it better to have an affair with your wifes sister, or some other woman? i'm thinking with her sister might be the best since there's almost no way she's going to tell anyone and ruin the family relationship. what do the rest of you think...keep it in the family or look elsewhere?

2007-03-05 04:03:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf wants me to n i never did it b4 so explain with details how to do a reallllllly good job ok thnx?

2007-03-05 04:03:05 · 13 answers · asked by dp4lifequeso-leche-teta-putos 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has been raped by her own uncle several times starting when she was just 10 yrs old. She was able to overcome the emotional problems and did not have sex with anyone because she just wanted to do it with the man she loves. Can she consider herself a virgin?

2007-03-05 04:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by a43cha 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:02:25 · 2 answers · asked by julie p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello, well i lost and need some advice, if you were with someone for 4 yr. and they left and done this to you lots of times, and now is willing to get help, would you give them another chance? or move on with life?

2007-03-05 04:02:11 · 16 answers · asked by kristy_n_tx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 04:01:50 · 25 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 04:01:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

???????????

2007-03-05 04:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationsip with a guy for a couple weeks and he started talking about marrige. i am a senior in high shool and he is a junior and wee live about 100miles away from each other. Anyway i kinda freaked out. I mean at first it sounded nice but then i realized that im going to college next year and i really didn't want to be married for a while. I ended the relationship. Was i wrong?

2007-03-05 04:01:01 · 13 answers · asked by Hippiebaby 2 in Singles & Dating

And i mean shes the "one" and you've known her for a long time!

I mean like,u keep asking her,over,over and over again,
and she keeps on refusing u!
Why dont u just give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(This goes to some guys that react like that,not all)

2007-03-05 04:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Pinky 6 in Singles & Dating

i m in love with a girl i love her very very much che also love me but her ist love is another boy who had rejected her then i purpose her i cant live without her she also love me but i think that she cant forget her ist love
but i really will die without her plz tell that what should i die
if i dont get her i will definately die
plz tell me that what should ido

2007-03-05 03:59:54 · 2 answers · asked by sweeto 1 in Singles & Dating

how many times has that happened to you?
did you get hella worried or just didnt even trip?

2007-03-05 03:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. Well, this is this story: I'm starting dating a guy who seems very nice and cute. We had our second date last Friday, and everything was normal until he started talking about his disease. He told me that he suffers from depressions, and that he has to take pills everyday, and he goes to the doctor every two months. I was shock, I don't know what to do now. I think this is too much information for a second date, but now that I now it.... should I stay or should I go?

2007-03-05 03:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by Katherina 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to think that its sweet when he gets jealous.Because I think that it's kinda cute.

2007-03-05 03:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by jamaicanbeauty136 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently read somewhere that if a man is totally into you, he doesn't even look at other women. Does this mean if your husband/bfriend does check out other women that he is not into you?? How do you draw the line, what is appropriate?

2007-03-05 03:57:31 · 16 answers · asked by marti 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you HAVE been married before, but wont marry again, why is that?

If you have NEVER been married but never want to marry, why is that?

2007-03-05 03:56:06 · 28 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman tells her husband she wants a divorce, moves out then files for it, is it adultry if she has also moved on with that part of her life as well (AFTER the separation)? She was NOT seeing this guy while she was with her husband except at work as friends.

2007-03-05 03:56:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We'd bought a house and seemed to be focused on the future, but we we're unhappy. I broke it off with him in the summer, cause I met someone else who made my heart sore. The change destroyed my whole life and all my friends, but I finally started to feel like myself again, happy. However the weight of my decision began to eat at me I felt badly for how I hurt him and everyone I know and tried to reconsile, but it was too late and he entirely shut down on me. We've been trying to be friends, but I'm destroyed every time I see him. He started to warm up to me again and says he always wants me in his life, but I can't seem to just be his friend. I want more, I want to try and work it out, but then he tells me he doesn't trust me anymore and he'll probably never trust "us" again. He's always buried his emotions and now I'm no longer there to help him with it. In fact he knows he's hanging onto all this stuff, but won't tell me cause he gave up. Should i give up? I'm so hurt.

2007-03-05 03:55:32 · 17 answers · asked by linger 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this one guy @ school and I like him but I don't talk to him and I catch him looking at me. So how do I start to talk to him and also tell him that I like him w/o him getting scared?

2007-03-05 03:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When ÿou say 'I have a date today', does it mean that you will go out with someone romantically like going to concert or movie or having a nice dinner? If no kissing or more happens during or after the date, can it be called a date? What's your definition of a date and what is your most unforgetable date? Share with me.

2007-03-05 03:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by mermaidice 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 03:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We married at 22 very early in our relationship because I became pregnant. 8 years later the intimacy has completely disappeared and we have nothing in common. He is a good provider and is able to take care of me and our son and for years I think I have stayed with him for that. We do not do anything or go anywhere. He is completely content to stay at home and wants me by his side constantly. Over the last six months I have been involved in a relationship with another man and we both want to be together. I feel stifled in my marriage and feel we really did not marry for the right reasons, yet I worry about him and my son if I leave. I dont like my son having divorced parents, yet I truly feel trapped by staying here. My husband has no zest for life at all. Works, comes home, and watches TV. I have asked repeatedly for years for us to do stuff, but the answer is always no. I know I dont love him, maybe never did. Should I leave

2007-03-05 03:53:42 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we want to be together badly. and if we have a good day we weill have the most optimistic attitudes about life. but if one of us questions the smallest detail of our relationship we tend to dwell on it. and get stuck, it seems like every other week we end of tryin to decided if we should eb together. last week he wanted marriage last night he didnt. we are lost and confused, and we both want couples therapy but neither of us has medical insurance yet. so we must wait. but in the meanwhile, what are tactics or ways to stay focused and positive. we are all each other has.! i need advice. help.

2007-03-05 03:52:46 · 20 answers · asked by Desire` 3 in Marriage & Divorce