Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

Me and my mom go on and off of 'close realtions'. Usually when somethin happens to me, like my bf leaves me, we talk and talk and talk, but when I do something and I don't want to talle her, I can't. She's always telling me that I can tell her anything but I don't know if I can. Plus, I was dating a guy for about 6 months. We'd ben on and off those months. Everytime something would happen between me and him, my mom would talk to me, if nothing was wrong, she wouldn't care. Can I really tell her anything?

2007-03-05 04:34:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im at this training centure and i talk to everyone but sometimes i feel like they are just talking to me cause they dont wont to be mean.if you bully anyone at this training centure you get kicked out and sometimes i think the people i talk to there are just talking to me cause they dont want to be kicked out.

i talk to the people a little bit but i dont go into a full conversation with them,i dont think im outgoing anoth.how can i be more outgoing.

2007-03-05 04:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-05 04:33:31 · 7 answers · asked by Felicia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After 5 years of being in a relationship that should give the person enough time to know wether or not if they want to spend the rest of there life wiith them.

2007-03-05 04:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by beautifull_012000 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this boy and then later on he asked me out what should i do.....HELP ME!!!!!

2007-03-05 04:32:18 · 21 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have written in before about my marriage problems, and I'm still not ready to make a permanent decision yet. We will be married 30 years next month! He didn't used to be this way, I still keep remembering back the way things used to be between us, and try to hang onto those thoughts, and that gives me some peace, and tell myself that we have survived much more than this before, and I can't picture myself with anyone else, and I don't want to picture him with anyone else, so you would think I have my answer wouldn't you? Only if it were that simple. I guess i'm afraid to talk to him, cause I'm afraid that he will start arguing with me again, and I can't take anymore stress, but I'm afraid that if I wait much later we will never be able to work things out! I wish I knew how he felt, and that he could tell someone mutual between us, so that I wouldn't have to be afraid. I know I sound like a coward, and I used to be so strong, but this emotional stuff between me and him just drained me!

2007-03-05 04:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is this normal to be seeing someone for a few months and still have a desire and think about being with someone else?

2007-03-05 04:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been texting this guy that I have had some sort of history with back in the day. he disapeared for a while. since then i got married have children and here he shows up again. We have been texting each other constantly and i love my husband very much I don't want to cheat and lose him but I can't seem to stop whats happening with this guy.

I have been trying to figure out what the thing is with the guy. Is it him? Is it me? As you know, I go out and talk to boys, boys talk to me- then I am quite satisfied that it ends there. With this guy, I can’t get him out of my head.Then, I was eating dinner with my husband and my sister and it hit me. He is my mid-life crisis! When my husband turned 45, he went out and got another tattoo. I’m turning 45 I went out and got crushed!

Am I insane? There is nothing I am willing to do about it. But I am not quite ready to let it go yet. whats going on??

2007-03-05 04:31:15 · 4 answers · asked by Shana 1 in Singles & Dating

By the way, he is like a brother to you. and all this is happening in your parents house.

2007-03-05 04:31:11 · 7 answers · asked by shocker 1 in Family

If you couldn't have a relationship with a guy, would you just see him for sex.

2007-03-05 04:29:56 · 25 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

about how they still think about you ask if you have met anyone new then ok you end up having a lil phone sex then he said he feels a lil guilty cuz hes with this new girl he is supposedly marrying this summer(we were together for 7 years but we wanted to work on our careers first and get a house and things like that) now it seems like they dont care about any of that anymore him and this new girl have only been dating for about 8 months ok so the other girl found out about what he said to me and she confronted me and i told her exactly what he said and she thinks im lying and he isnt denying what he said all he is telling me is that he was trying to ease our break up for me and i am pretty sure i didnt ask him to do that and i didnt call him out of the blue he called me is this all some psychological issue on his part like he thinks he knows what he wants but he isnt sure or do people really act this way

2007-03-05 04:29:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When it's mating season, do you ever go by yourself to the zoo to watch the animals make love?

For me, the mating season at the DC National Zoo has become an annual tradition. I always bring a lawn chair, some popcorn, and set up camp in front of the Gorilla Cages. To enhance the love making environment I bring my stereo, and play some romantic music as they're going at it. I also like to cheer them on.

Is it just me, or does anyone else do this? What are your favorite animals to watch?

2007-03-05 04:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i will need weba dress for illionis where i can pull this record from...

2007-03-05 04:28:17 · 3 answers · asked by ucoaroonz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I started dating a guy, he is funny, handsome, single, has a good job and so on. We slept together last Friday and it was an awful situation. He didn't know how to use a condom!! I asked him to wear it, because of our security, and he was so frustrated trying to put it on, that I started laughing.... By the moment he has it, I was cold, and the passion was over. Even that, we had sex, and while we were together, he kept complaining about the sensation he feels while wearing it. I was so bored, he was so mad, so, completely disaster. We left the hotel, since we weren't doing anything, and all the way home, he kept complaining about the same thing. I cannot be with someone new without a condom, and I don't really know what to do. He is pretty cool, but he acted like a jerk. What should I do? Should I give him a second chance or just walk away?

2007-03-05 04:27:13 · 24 answers · asked by marylapana 2 in Singles & Dating

like they really have a choice

2007-03-05 04:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been broken up for a YEAR but have talked about every 3 weeks for this whole time...We wont talk for 3 weeks then one of us will call or text, we end up meeting up, sometimes sleeping together but not within about 3 months and then we dont talk again for 2-3 weeks cuz he said "he loves me but hes not sure im the one, so we need to not talk"...Well its been just over 2 weeks and LAST NITE he text me saying "im thinking of watching a movie and getting pizza, if you interested in coming over you can". I didn't respond...I guess what im asking is why is he doing this? Hes not allowing me to fully get over the situation because i DO still want to be with him....Is he over me?? I guess I just feel disrepspected because all I get from him is a text?? AND if he REALLY doesn't want to be with me then WHY does he text every 2 weeks....AHHH HELP! oh and I'm 23 and hes 29! just fyi!

2007-03-05 04:25:56 · 20 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Singles & Dating

when talking to a man on the phone and he is telling you again and again how beautiful he thinks you are. Why? What is he thinking? Is he picturing you and the image he sees is so beautiful?

2007-03-05 04:25:46 · 28 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

In the past year my now ex husband had an affair, we divorced and now he is living with the other woman. Our son was introduced to this other woman 4 months after my ex left - they moved in together 4 months after that. I put him in counselling to help him deal with everything and he seems to be doing okay. He lives with me and visits his Dad every other weekend. When he is there I do not call him and I rarely hear from him (it is only 2 days). I do not want to interfere with his time with his Dad. This weekend he called me 4 times! From his comments (I do not ask about his weekends) I gathered that he spent a lot of time this weekend meeting the other woman's extended family. I have no problem with that. I am trying to figure out how it may have impacted him. I worry about him sometimes - he is only 9 and his world has changed so much in the past 11 months. Sometimes I feel like I cannot keep up - any ideas on how he is feeling?

2007-03-05 04:25:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my gf has just split with me what do i do ? i love her to bits was with her for 9 weeks. i dont know what to do she has split with me mainly due to me arguing with her over people at work spreading stuff about us. All we did was argue and outside work we was happy and stuff etc and we used to have alot of fun. she now says to me she can only be friends with me, but is still meeting me tommoroow and says she will carry on ringing and txting me plus meet me once a week! what do i do ? i want her back do u think i cud get her back if yes what should i do to make her get back with me please help ?????

2007-03-05 04:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 04:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my teacher acts as if he has nothing else better to do than to give me a hard time then wen i refuse to do work b/c of him he wants to talk to me out in the hall way! the other day i saw him trying to look up under my skirt !! wat should i do ? my school don't care.
i tried talking to my mom but she stay to buissy to listen to any of my problems.

2007-03-05 04:25:16 · 1 answers · asked by Katt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother is 16 years old. I'm 15. I'm like his journal. He tells me anything and everything. He's been telling me about a lot of bad stuff that he's been doing, then lying to our mom about it. Plus he beat a kid up cause he said something bad about me. I don't want my brother to be taken away, but I also can't live with the lies in my mind. I don't know if I should tell my mom, the cops, or what. If you have any advice, please leave it. If not, don't waste my time with stupid answers please.

2007-03-05 04:24:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you met this guy over a summer, thought that you loved him and he loved you...

he leaves to go back home, (out of state)
you cry because you miss him.
you im almost every day and save every conversation....
one day he tells you to go to some ones blog and asks you if they are pretty.

He then says that he is going to marry her one day.

you let him know how hurt you are and all he as to say is, I am sorry I lead you on.

just wondering how you would feel in that situation.

2007-03-05 04:24:23 · 9 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy & sometimes if he hasn't texted or called me in a while I start missing him like crazy. Now I'm usually not the type of girl that just HAS to hear from or see a guy alot (I've always been more of an independent, "I don't need a man to make me happy" kind of girl), but I just can't stop thinking about this guy & feeling better (more content) when I hear his voice, get a txt, or see him. Can someone please help me understand what's going on with me...am I falling in love...how can I stop feeling this way?! Thanx...

2007-03-05 04:24:01 · 2 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-05 04:23:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Self explanatory, I was a dork and misplaced our marriage license when we moved and it is no where to be found. How do I get a copy?

2007-03-05 04:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, me and my bf have been dating for only a few weeks. We see each other in school everyday, and we hang out when we can. Over the past few days, I've realized that I'm getting more feelings for him. I don't just like him anymore, I think I'm starting to actually love him. But I don't want to fall in love cause last time I did that, I got hurt badly. I know that my bf now isn't like the other guy, but I'm still worried. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel, or wait a while.

2007-03-05 04:22:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is he really sorry?
A friend of mine at work and I had a fight. We haven't talked for over a month since he told me that I was too weird for him to be friends with and that it was best that we ignore each other since I began to like him as more than friend. The thing is he already has a gf overseas. I've been ignoring him, but he keeps throwing glances at me. One time he was looking and I caught him looking and then he lowered his eyes like he couldn't look at me.

2007-03-05 04:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a start of a new week. Are you excited of an upcoming event or are you sad since its the beggining of a work week?

2007-03-05 04:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Mariko 4 in Friends