We have been broken up for a YEAR but have talked about every 3 weeks for this whole time...We wont talk for 3 weeks then one of us will call or text, we end up meeting up, sometimes sleeping together but not within about 3 months and then we dont talk again for 2-3 weeks cuz he said "he loves me but hes not sure im the one, so we need to not talk"...Well its been just over 2 weeks and LAST NITE he text me saying "im thinking of watching a movie and getting pizza, if you interested in coming over you can". I didn't respond...I guess what im asking is why is he doing this? Hes not allowing me to fully get over the situation because i DO still want to be with him....Is he over me?? I guess I just feel disrepspected because all I get from him is a text?? AND if he REALLY doesn't want to be with me then WHY does he text every 2 weeks....AHHH HELP! oh and I'm 23 and hes 29! just fyi!
2007-03-05 04:25:56 · 20 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah Its pretty much what Lexy said.
2007-03-05 04:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Welcome, to the real world! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - he is just using you. You seem like you already have a grasp of the situation. You are very smart because you know that something is wrong with this situation. You need to move on. Leave him in the past. He wants you when HE wants you and you need more from him than what he's willing to give you. Kick him to the curb once and for all. You'll find someone great. But not if you are always wondering what if with him.
2007-03-05 04:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by alisha9679 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys opinion? Tell him to think about it while your walking away. If he really is trying to get it straight in his head, then seeing you in all different ways isn't helping. Stay away from him "distance make the heart grow stronger" or whatever. Otherwise I'd say that your just filling in when he gets the need and no one else is paying the tab. Either way, I'd stop playing his game and rewrite the rules. If he decides that he really does want you, he'll come to you, and it won't be just for the night.
2007-03-05 04:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sure does sound like a booty call....then again maybe hes trying to deal with his feelings...idk because i don't know him nor you nor you 2 relationships so im not gonna judge...just watch and pay attention to his actions and reactions and maybe something will come about for you to better see what is really going on...maybe you can talk to him and find out...no hurt in finding out and letting him know how you feel....i always say that in a relationship, whether it goes home or nowhere, you must have communication and it is the key to any relationship!!!! good luck!!!
2007-03-05 04:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by ulikhawaiian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let him go. Sounds like to me that you are just a booty call. Move on, tell him to leave you alone. And you do the same.
2007-03-05 04:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like he is calling you when he has no one else it has happened to me and let me tell you it is a whole lot better to try and ingore him than to get your heart broken i thought mine was the one too but he just didnt know if i was the one either so he lead me on dont make my mistake be strong!
2007-03-05 05:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥SaLz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps doing it because you allow him too, put your foot down don't anwer his calls or texts. It seems like he doing this because he's keeping you around till something better comes along. so forget him and move on.
2007-03-05 04:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello? anybody in there? you slept with him, and kept conversation going. what do you think. he is right in his feelings, you lead him on. bot of you need to stop fronting and get back together already or just accept the fact that you are now F** buddies
2007-03-05 04:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes having his cake and eating it too I think. let him know that if he wants to be with you that he needs to ask you with is voice. I wouldn't respond to the text. I woulda called him and said "did you have something you wanted to ask me?" in a cute way. but i wouldn't have sex with him until there is something more committed. if he won't commit then don't submit. hehe
2007-03-05 04:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
B/C you make it easy. You're willing to accept things on his terms w/o complaint. He's willing to spend time with you (w/o strings) until he does actually meet 'the one' and then he'll drop you so fast that it makes your head spin. He's playing you.
2007-03-05 04:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋