Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

theres this girl i really like and i want to tell her that i like her and that i want to hang out sometime. i just need a little encouragement. Please help
P.S. she is a foreign exchange stundent from germany

2007-03-05 04:43:19 · 20 answers · asked by reuw t 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:43:10 · 2 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I chose to be a working mom because I wanted to give my girls everything. I did not want them to ever know hunger or what it was like not to have heat or a place to live. My mother was extremely abusive and I left home at 14. I got my college education and went on to have children. My marriage didn't work out. My ex got into drugs and I put him through rehab twice to no avail. So, I divorced and raised my girls alone. All I wanted was for them to get an education and not be distracted by boys. I am proud to say that both my girls did just that. My oldest went into the Airforce. She married a year later and now has three children..a daughter and twin boys and she is only 23. I couldn't be more proud. But then she decided to get close to my family. My mother and sister have put a wedge between us with gross fabrications. And now my daughter has decided to put me out of her life. She claims I abused her..when the fact is I never touched her. I couldn't..I was afraid to become my mother.

2007-03-05 04:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by shawn t 1 in Family

my babymomma been with me for ten years, but i also live with two other women sometimes for month or 2 when we fight. im not listed on the govt paper for the apartment. are we marry? we live in georgia. im asking cause i want to leave and take my children but if we not marrie i dont think i can have sustody.

2007-03-05 04:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by ROBERTSJOHNSON 2 in Marriage & Divorce

cuse now days you hear a lot about bad thang

2007-03-05 04:42:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am just about to start living in a flat with two other girls who are have been good friends for 10+years, but they do tend to moan about one another behind each others back, often to me. What words of advice are there to dealing with them both? I want to be friends with them both and treat them fairly, and not to feel like I am caught in the middle.

2007-03-05 04:41:56 · 15 answers · asked by peaches8216 1 in Friends

touching do for you? It cannot be that satisfiying, right? Please tell me about your own experience or thoughts on this. Just curious, you guys. No offense. Thank you.

2007-03-05 04:41:51 · 6 answers · asked by may b 1 in Singles & Dating

i made eye contact with a girl the other day, and well i think she's obsessed with me, she made eye contact with me again, how do i get her to lose her infatuation with me? i think that it might be taking over her life, i mean i know im good looking but she needs to keep her eyes to herself.... damn....

2007-03-05 04:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by greg h 1 in Singles & Dating

people have asked what i like about this person and i could never give a real answer other than qualities that alot of other women have. ive been thinking for a few days now and i cannot come up with a definate reasons that set a person apart from someone else. so im asking women what is it about them that they want men to like them for (excluding something like "i want someone to like me for who i am")

2007-03-05 04:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by thelittlelim 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 04:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it?

2007-03-05 04:40:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We aren't exclusive or anything but we really like eachother a lot. We are so fun together and do the most ridiculous things to entertaine ourselves. I'm happy when i'm with him. I"m having the most difficult time trying to get him to open up to me though. He never talkes to me about whats going on when he's upset. He shuts down when I have to break plans with him. He never talks to me about his "feelings."
I like him a lot, but he's pushing me away...I don't want that. can someone please tell me what to do?

2007-03-05 04:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with her husband she wasnts my brother. so things she went onto my brother now there together when it happend in aug of 2002 i realy like kims husband i was the one who told him what happend, how, ect i told him how i felt about him he felt the same. over the next 2 months i talked to him secretly i did not see him ='( well i found out at the end of sep2002 i was prego with a nother guys baby joe was ok with it he wanted to work things out with my. but for my brothers i stayed back cause he was living with joes wife kim. in dec my mother(like joe like a son) sent joe a x-mas card. kim and my brother fliped out and i was forbided to see/talk him. well joe jumped the gun and married the first girl who came around after this and its been 4 years and they now have a baby who is 5 months i went to (kim and joes has a 9 year old son together) boy scouts thing last night and for the first time (sence my bro and kim did this) i saw joe ALL my feelings came back how i had wished it was me with

2007-03-05 04:40:18 · 1 answers · asked by amymamagurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy who iv'e liked for a while and now he's going out with my cousin ,now let's see she knew i liked him but she didn't respect that and flirted with him which led him to ask her out when i was just about to tell him how i felt i know for a fact he would have liked me back also. but then she comes in the picture and takes him away from me plus she also has a boyfreind already. It just pisses me off i fell so mad,hurt,jealous and sad i need him back what should i do??

2007-03-05 04:40:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is such a stigma about mental disorders. People make fun of me and critcize me for the prescriptions I have to take. I was told by an aunt, to straighten up my act and get off of those pills. I know it's real and the medications do make a big difference. I see a therapist and she helps me some but I'm not satisfied with her answer about how to handle people who give me such a hard time about it. If the truth be told, some of my family could benefit from the medications I have to take themselves. Family treat me like I'm crazy and talk about me behind my back. I'm not paranoid about this, I know this for a fact because I have over heard some of their comments when they thought I wasn't in ear shot. I don't like my situation and I wish I wasn't this way. My question is, how do I handle these people?

2007-03-05 04:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-05 04:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

I have been off and on with a great guy for about 3 years now. We always mutually agreed there would be no serious commitment between us. At this time we are "on". I know in the long run, as much as I want it to and as much as I love him, it will never work out between us. Yes I said love.... I know he has love for me but does not love me in the same sense of the word. I met another really great guy about a month ago and want to persue a relationship with him.

How do I tell him we can't see eachother anymore without killing the long standing friendship we have?

2007-03-05 04:40:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so here is my problem. i asked one of my best friends to be a bridesmaid and she said yes...now the only thing i hear from her is complaints on the price of the bridesmaid dresses (they are $250 each- but they are getting made just for me..the colors i want and the design i want-plus the dresses are getting made to fit each person perfectly...!) is that to much $$ to ask my bridesmaids to pay? the rest of them have not complained at all...what should i do.

2007-03-05 04:39:23 · 24 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Weddings

In a divorce case, if the wife has been cheating and this can be proved, would that prevent the husband from having to pay ridiculous alimony payments and child support? Essentially the wife is the one that caused the divorce, so why should the husband be punished with these payments. Anyone who has knowledge on this matter, please help!

2007-03-05 04:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by Jessie S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

O.K. i was walking to catch a cab home on the way from work. And a for-millier face said i had an nice azz. I turn around and it was a A-List star Orlando Bloom. I didn't know weather to slap him or kiss him and get his autograph. What should i have been my first reaction?

2007-03-05 04:38:55 · 3 answers · asked by may 3 in Singles & Dating

Do men watch porn to fantasize about the women in the video or just to get the sexual stimulant??

2007-03-05 04:38:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

please post

2007-03-05 04:37:53 · 3 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if it is better to stay covered if you are small.

2007-03-05 04:37:17 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its a simple question?

2007-03-05 04:36:46 · 7 answers · asked by mr.starbux 1 in Singles & Dating

She said that I appeared to be unhappy and that she now wanted to see if she could make it on her own. She had previously written me a letter saying all this and I decided it was time to make a change for the better and work at being a better husband. However she just received her permanent green card and she told me that if she hadn't gotten now that she was feeling this way - she would not have left. She has moved to Westwood village near UCLA and hangs out with a girl that has been coaching her on how to get out there and discover herself. I feel that my wife was very loving but very impulssive and insecure at the same time. She is 25 years old. I have heard that Westwood is party single scene. Do I stand a chance that she will reconsider coming back to me - last I heard from her she was decided on leaving.

2007-03-05 04:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by michel s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i honestly do love him i see a future with him but i wanna try this "NEW" thing and so i think i should end it b-4 i hurt him an i am attracted to a female, help please

2007-03-05 04:35:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wedding WAS set for Sept 1st. (we have been dating for 2yrs)He called off wedding Sat night, on Sunday i broke up with him. His reason for calling off wedding is "I am not ready-meaning me, not him". Now since i broke up with him, he wants to call the wedding back on. Says if he wouldve known i would leave him, he wouldnt called it off to began with. He rather not lose me. What should i do? I partially want to get married because i am pregnant and want to be a family, and have told everyone i am getting married, the other half....I just really dont want to be with him after this weekend after the nasty comments he made to me in front of his friends and he has made me realized some things about him. We haved talked last night i am stuck with my answer, no we are not getting back together, but this morning he has callled saying he doesnt want to lose me and he is sorry and lets get married. Any advice?

2007-03-05 04:35:08 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance want to get married in the US (we live in Cali) and were wondering what states do it

2007-03-05 04:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night my husband and I were on our way to my parents house because my brother has come home for a few days and I wanted to visit with him and my family. My husband stopped at a gas station to get him a a pack of cigerettes, I don't know what I was looking for I really wasn't looking for anything, but I found drugs in his truck, I asked him about it, and he came clean. Told me he'd only done it that one time since we got married, he's done drugs in the past and stopped for me, cause I don't get involed with any of that.
My husband for the most part is a good man, we have our ups and downs, and we deal with each of them. But this I don't know what to do any more, I don't trust anything he says right now and have even moved my wedding rings to my right hand, until he MAY or MAYNOT gain my trust back. Im so heart broken right now, any adivice......would be great.
Sobbing in the South

2007-03-05 04:34:33 · 12 answers · asked by msoutherngirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wedding WAS set for Sept 1st. (we have been dating for 2yrs)He called off wedding Sat night, on Sunday i broke up with him. His reason for calling off wedding is "I am not ready-meaning me, not him". Now since i broke up with him, he wants to call the wedding back on. Says if he wouldve known i would leave him, he wouldnt called it off to began with. He rather not lose me. What should i do? I partially want to get married because i am pregnant and want to be a family, and have told everyone i am getting married, the other half....I just really dont want to be with him after this weekend after the nasty comments he made to me in front of his friends and he has made me realized some things about him. We haved talked last night i am stuck with my answer, no we are not getting back together, but this morning he has callled saying he doesnt want to lose me and he is sorry and lets get married. Any advice?

2007-03-05 04:34:08 · 14 answers · asked by Nicole B 2 in Singles & Dating