I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We aren't exclusive or anything but we really like eachother a lot. We are so fun together and do the most ridiculous things to entertaine ourselves. I'm happy when i'm with him. I"m having the most difficult time trying to get him to open up to me though. He never talkes to me about whats going on when he's upset. He shuts down when I have to break plans with him. He never talks to me about his "feelings."
I like him a lot, but he's pushing me away...I don't want that. can someone please tell me what to do?
2007-03-05 04:40:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its only been a month...men have to want to open up to you....just give it some time....as you 2 get closer he'll start to b/c your bestfriend
2007-03-05 04:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe he sees you as more of a buddy. You have put it in his head that you are all fun and games, and NOW that you want to talk serious, he doesn't know how to handle this other side of you.
Also, I am just guessing, but maybe he has some secrets that he would rather not tell you, knowing it would only drive you away. Keep in mind that you only know the fun side of him, too. There just may be a person in there that has more problems than YOU are able to deal with. He needs to learn that in this game of life, all is NOT fun and games. There is a time to open up and share, and trust another with our feelings.
2007-03-05 12:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just has trust issues.
my boyfriend on a month does too.
he assured me though that it would just take time..
and a month is hardly long enough
just let him know you're there for him and you won't ever judge him.
just be there, so when he's ready...he CAN open up to you :]
2007-03-05 12:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away and find someone who gives you all you want.
2007-03-05 12:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋