I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it?
2007-03-05 04:40:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you should. She may like it. If more people were open about their sexual needs more marriages would work out. It is human nature to want sex and its human nature to desire other people.
Your marriage should be the one place YOU CAN talk about anything and everything and full fill your fantasies. If not in your marriage..then when?
2007-03-08 10:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has the same fantasy. Honestly, I think it is hot to know my husband is getting off on watching me get it on with some other guy. We have a very open line of communication. We have shared all our fantasies with each other and discussed what we are comfortable with!
Whether or not we ever do this, is still up in the air. He and I still have a hot and heavy sex life, so we dont feel like it needs spicing up in that way...yet...who knows about the future.
I am glad we can share openly with each other...
2007-03-05 04:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Momma 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, communication in a relationship is very important. If this is a fantasy, then tell her about it. She should know. As long as you don't act on this it's okay. Dream on, having a fantasy about something like that can be a turn on.
2007-03-05 04:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is open-minded and tells you her fantasies, yes. Otherwise keep it to yourself. By the way, it's not a question of being well-endowed, as generally who has a short penis is compensated in width!
2007-03-05 05:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by mister Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being honest. Just tell her that you want to be a swinger. Maybe she wants to be one too. What's the worst that could happen? She could ask you to go to counseling. Maybe you should go to a sexual therapist. It seems as if you have low self esteem and need to work on that. Remember that it's not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean. My husband says that it's a long uncomfortable trip across the Atlantic in a dingy though. Ahhh, forget what I just said, talk to your wife.
2007-03-05 04:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do u think she will react?? I would love my guy to tell me his fantasies all the time. Maybe act on some, but NOT just because he doesn't think he's big enough for me....just that it would be a BIG turn on!!!!
2007-03-05 04:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
enter cuckold on a search engine. there are a whole lot more men out there that are into this. this seems to be a very common fantasy. cucoldforum.net offers a lot of advice. there is nothing wrong with sharing fantasies, as long as she is a little open minded, she might be thankful that you are looking out for her in this way in wanting her to have what you can't provide
2007-03-05 04:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by chip t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should tell her about it. Then, if she's still with you, send me an e-mail since she's interested in that hot studly guy...
2007-03-05 05:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by kwtavtr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is exactly what you called it, a fantasy. You should be able to share your fantasies with your wife. That doesn't mean you have to act on them, but that intimacy is a good thing.
2007-03-05 04:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by QT 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can have any fantasy you wish. No, it is not wrong. Odd in my book, but not wrong.
No, I don't think you should tell your wife. It probably wouldn't be as big a turn on for her as it is for you. Enjoy it on your own.
2007-03-05 05:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋