Is he really sorry?
A friend of mine at work and I had a fight. We haven't talked for over a month since he told me that I was too weird for him to be friends with and that it was best that we ignore each other since I began to like him as more than friend. The thing is he already has a gf overseas. I've been ignoring him, but he keeps throwing glances at me. One time he was looking and I caught him looking and then he lowered his eyes like he couldn't look at me.
2007-03-05 04:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he really sorry? I'm not sure you're giving the whole story because you've not said that he's apologized to you just looked at you. Him looking at you isn't necessarily him trying to apologize. He may have been looking to see if you're looking at him. You need to get over him and let the whole situation go. Let it die down because by your own admission he has a girlfriend and he's obviously not leaving her.
2007-03-05 04:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is that you work together. On the job, you should NOT have to ignore each other. That is crazy to ignore each other for TWO months!!!!! I hate to tell you this, but it doesn't mean anything that he is looking at you. Maybe he is thinking of getting in your pants cause his girlfreind is a long ways away. Men think with their penises, you know? He doesn't WANT you, but KNOWS you would be an easy target to try to seduce. Keep ignoring him, if possible. He is not worthy of your affection. You can do better.
2007-03-05 12:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is more than likely attracted but doesn't want to become involved with you due to the fact that he does have a girlfriend somewhere. By telling you that ''your too weird for him'' is just a way to distances himself and not start up something that you two might reget later on.
All i can say is just treat each other as friendly coworker and thats all do not get involved with each outside of work or in each other personal life
2007-03-05 12:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by tiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is, but men don't like to admit it. Maybe you should just talk to him about everything. Just as friends. Ask him how his girlfriends doing, and just make conversation. Soon he'll realize what a great friend you are and how he was stupid to have chased you off.
2007-03-05 12:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is that sorry because he hasn't actually spoken those words to you...I would let him go because my friends would accept my weirdness for what it is...he is not even a true friend...so just be professional co-workers and left it at that...
2007-03-05 12:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do would be to just ask him when he is alone. it might be that this girl likes him but he might like you too. he might have to choose between both of you. just ask him and tell him to tell you the truth that no matter what happens it will be okay.
2007-03-05 12:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anna T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only looking at you because he's thinking "WTF??". Leave the guy alone and find other weird people to hang out with.
2007-03-05 12:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋