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is this normal to be seeing someone for a few months and still have a desire and think about being with someone else?

2007-03-05 04:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

yes it is possible and no you're not weird for feeling that way. But that doesn't mean it is right.

2007-03-05 04:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Krista 3 · 0 0

Yes

It's possble to go so far as to be in love with more than one person at the same time.

Think about it, with men cheating 60% of the time and women 40%, it's not usually for the reasons people assume (just sex or for the thrills, etc).

In fact, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.

Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two choices.

I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.

I've always wondered why people find cheating (breaking the rules) more acceptable than open and honest non-monogamy.

My last relationship was with two people. They were in love with each other and with me. Though I have since moved on, I am still very much in love with them both.

2007-03-05 04:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1 0

Of course its normal. Married people have desires for someone else... its human nature. As long as you don't act on those desires and you stay faithful then you are good.

2007-03-05 04:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

As inconvenient as it is, it is natural, and it does not mean that you should abandon your significant other. Checking out others will always happen, no matter how committed you are in your relationship. Just don't act on those desires, that's where the trouble is.

2007-03-05 04:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Al 2 · 1 0

Yes it is possible for this to happen and it is a good sign that the person you are dating is not the right one for you to settle down with.

2007-03-05 04:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's possible...i think. But this does mean that you do not want to be with the person that you are dating. :~<

2007-03-05 04:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mo 2 · 1 0

I am pretty sure that means that he is not the one for you and you should get out of that relationship because when you finally find that "one" person you won't see others in that kind of way.

2007-03-05 04:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by You have no idea♥ 2 · 1 1

Most definitly i have been like that with almost all of my relationships

2007-03-05 04:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lena 2 · 1 0

I don't know if it is normal, but I do it.

2007-03-05 04:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes .
I do it all the time !!

2007-03-05 06:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by goldeneat 3 · 0 0

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