I have been texting this guy that I have had some sort of history with back in the day. he disapeared for a while. since then i got married have children and here he shows up again. We have been texting each other constantly and i love my husband very much I don't want to cheat and lose him but I can't seem to stop whats happening with this guy.
I have been trying to figure out what the thing is with the guy. Is it him? Is it me? As you know, I go out and talk to boys, boys talk to me- then I am quite satisfied that it ends there. With this guy, I can’t get him out of my head.Then, I was eating dinner with my husband and my sister and it hit me. He is my mid-life crisis! When my husband turned 45, he went out and got another tattoo. I’m turning 45 I went out and got crushed!
Am I insane? There is nothing I am willing to do about it. But I am not quite ready to let it go yet. whats going on??
2007-03-05 04:31:15 · 4 answers · asked by Shana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you're insane if you really think you're going to get through this without damaging your marriage.
You need to let this go. Stop text messaging other men. If you have to, have your cell shut off. Your marriage is too important for the games you are playing. And even if you haven't touched each other yet, it's emotional infidelity. You are betraying your husband.
2007-03-05 04:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shana,you are not insane.You need the trust of a good friend or family member that knows your feelings well to help guide you thru this thing.Donot just take random comments from persons that have no knowledge of your feelings,it appears you have very serious commitments to your husband and children.They are important in your life,but it seems this guy has something you are lacking.Be carefull Hearts are fragile!
2007-03-05 04:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal even though your husband might not thinks so. You are wondering in the back of your mind what could have happened. It is also the excitement of somthing or someone different. Even though you do not want someone different it is still enticing, the unknown that is. We crave what we dont or cant have even when we actually dont want it. I think it would be easier to cut contact with him. You dont have to be rude, but it is wasted time. Leave him on your cloud nine and visit him in dream land if you like. Dont loose focus on what is important to you. It basically makes you feel good about yourself, beatiful, empowered, diserable and maybe sexy. Use these feelings and go and attack your husband. Good luck and Good health to you!
2007-03-05 04:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your serious about not cheating on your husband then you better stop contacting this guy because you know it will lead to an affair.
You just want to know that you are still atractive to other men and obvioulsy you are. Break contact with this guy before it leads to sex.
2007-03-05 04:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋