my gf has just split with me what do i do ? i love her to bits was with her for 9 weeks. i dont know what to do she has split with me mainly due to me arguing with her over people at work spreading stuff about us. All we did was argue and outside work we was happy and stuff etc and we used to have alot of fun. she now says to me she can only be friends with me, but is still meeting me tommoroow and says she will carry on ringing and txting me plus meet me once a week! what do i do ? i want her back do u think i cud get her back if yes what should i do to make her get back with me please help ?????
2007-03-05 04:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Appears she has not shut the door to her relationship with you completely as she is still willing to remain friends with you. I feel this can leave you an opportunity to win her back. You must first stop creating arguments with her regarding people at her work. This shows a lack of respect from you and she has grown to resent you for it. Remember, love is of mutual respect and trust without this you will lose her. Be her friend as she has requested. Use this opportunity to build a more trusting relationship with her without the pressure of a commitment. Hopefully she will then begin to believe in you again. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-05 04:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has not forgotten you. The arguing over what people say at work is dumb, unless you are her supervisory or she is your supervisor? Keep work at work and fun times outside of work. You can have fun at work if you handle it in the right way. Be fair with every one and no one can complain.
2007-03-05 12:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young and emotionally immature and needy to do a darn thing. 9 weeks? You haven't got a relationship yet. Back off, talk to her, play it cool. See if you are still drooling a month from now.
2007-03-05 12:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is done with you. It seems she just wants to stay friends with you. If ya'll were arguing constantly I can understand why she wanted out.
2007-03-05 12:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and that you wont argue with her anymore or you could make her jealouse by going out with de hottest girl in your area r summit
2007-03-05 12:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋