My girlfriend left to go get food on Sunday and left her phone at the house. When it rang I picked it up thinking it may be her from a pay phone. But it was her ex calling. The ex said that she was returning a phone call. I havent confronted my girlfriend about this, I honestly dont know what to do!! Help!
2007-03-05 04:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by whit2982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldnt have waited to say something..but u definetely need to confront her and ask her y she is still talking to her ex..u have a right to know
2007-03-05 04:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come to your own conclusion, talk to her about what's going on. Also be prepared for her to get upset that you answered her phone. If she takes that approach then be concerned because if it's innocent then she wouldn't have a reason to be upset. However she's the only one that can tell you why he was returning a call that she made to him. Before you go to her with this be sure that you have no skeletons in your closet that she can come back at you with.
2007-03-05 04:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its common for an partner to stay in touch with an ex; I have talked to past girlfriends before and stayed committed with my girlfriend. I see no problem with confronting your girlfriend about this, just make sure that you don't seem pushy, jealous, or nosy. It IS your responsibility to know what is going on in your girlfriend's life, especially since it effects you so much; just be supportive about it and I am sure she will be open.
2007-03-05 04:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get things really right if she's cheating on you. Get every evidence you can find. Because if you misunderstand her, not only you might lose her, you'll feel guilty too. Best way is to do things slowly. Hint her a little here and there. If you feel that she's really cheating you and you have concrete evidence, go ahead and rant to her abt it. Because if she loves you, why would she cheat on you? But be sure to get things right first. Gd luck!
2007-03-05 04:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by flyed123456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....are they still friends or what? you gotta give someone some latitude or they will feel pressured and wanna be away from you. whatever is done in the dark will come out in the light. its no shame on you for biding your time until you know. its shame on them for trying to lie to you. good luck
2007-03-05 04:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya she's cheating. Get rid of her before she breaks your heart anymore.
2007-03-05 04:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Agent Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the first thing you need to do is confront her. dont jump to conclusions
2007-03-05 04:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is still in contact with her ex..
2007-03-05 04:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Denny O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely talk to her about this. it may be nothing, but you two should definitely talk....
2007-03-05 04:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋