I was in a relationsip with a guy for a couple weeks and he started talking about marrige. i am a senior in high shool and he is a junior and wee live about 100miles away from each other. Anyway i kinda freaked out. I mean at first it sounded nice but then i realized that im going to college next year and i really didn't want to be married for a while. I ended the relationship. Was i wrong?
2007-03-05 04:01:01 · 13 answers · asked by Hippiebaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not....
You have plans and maybe he doesn't. You are not on the same track obviously.
After a couple months would be scary enough, but a couple weeks. Whew!!!!!!!
You did the right thing and do not question yourself here.
You do not need to get tangled up in this scenario.
Date, have a good time, not long term commitments that could deter your chances of going to college and putting 100% into it. You deserve to do this for yourself and should follow through.
I would have been running down the block at full tilt if I had heard that kind of proposal.......after a couple weeks......
stick to the seniors who are motivated to go onto to college and university.
2007-03-05 04:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Im a senior in high school also. But I think you were not wrong in freaking out if this guy was serious. I have been in a relationship with a guy for three years, and we are going to college together. Who knows what will happen after that, but we have talked about marriage after college. But our talks are not immature puppy love talks like many high school students have that I know. In my opinion you need to have a serious relationship before even joking about marrage, and a couple of weeks, or even a couple of months is not a serious relationship to me. But no worries, this guy hasnt grown up yet, so his marrage talk either wasnt serious or he is a freak.
2007-03-05 04:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were wrong, you should marry this guy after only 2 weeks forego college and get pregnant quickly so you can work at the grocery store and he can bail hay.
2007-03-05 04:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as you said "toatally freaked". And you are going to COLLEGE next year. How sad. Maybe you should learn how to spell TOTALLY before going to college.
2007-03-05 04:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have talked to him about it. He might meant later on in life. I dont very many men who want to settle down after only 2 weeks of dating.
2007-03-05 04:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not wrong. I'm freaked out just hearing about it.
Neither of you are ready. Why he felt the need to discuss this is baffling.
2007-03-05 04:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should've looked at the bigger picture...it was 2 weeks and he was already talking about marriage...GURL YOU HAD HIM SPRUNG...you could've gotten anything you wanted from him, he was going to do anything for you...oh well maybe you'll find someone like him in college... :)
2007-03-05 04:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you were right, you shouldnt be scared into anything you dont want to do. and its difficult to be in a relationship where one person wants one thing and the other wants another. an old boyfriend was just like that. he wanted to get married and have many babies. i just want us to last a year and that was it.
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2016-09-30 05:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,if you're not ready for the committment,then you made the right decision for yourself.
marriage is alot work..you both young...so..if you still love him..talk to him about it,.tell him you're not rady for the commitment yet.and if he understands,you guys can still dating or maybe be friends
2007-03-05 04:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by PinK Lady ♥ :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋