I met this great girl online , chatted for a few hours, exchanged cell messages for a month. We met briefly for about 3 minutes. I like her a lot , but as for her ?.One time I was showing off about something , and she messaged me "stop it , I don't need u explaining all that. I'm already impressed by you as it is.I already told u the tickin part is missing and we said we'll see about that".
Cell messages come & go , and one day she says "I feel I am doing you injustice , I enjoy very much our chit chats & I'm sure I'll enjoy meetin u even more , but a girl knows who will be her best friend and who will be something more" . Once I got that , I just stopped messaging her all together but she called me "which is very rare , she gets bad migranes from talking on the cell", she called just to check on me & say she's worried why I haven't messaged in two days . is there hope for me with this girl? If so , how?
2007-03-05 04:21:37 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is with somebody else, and doesn't want to take the relationship to the next step.........good lesson for her and you about meeting people on the Internet.
2007-03-05 04:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its hard to tell if there is hope with her or not. The best way to find out is to call and ask her, "so am I the kind of guy who is going to end up being your best friend, or am I someone you would consider as somthing more?"
It sounds as if she likes the person that you are, but I have no idea what she meant by the "tickin" part is missing. In all my years I have never heard that phrase before.
2007-03-05 12:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Deu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, It sounds like she just wants you as a friend. If that is what she wants, back off the relationship part, totally treat her like a friend, ignore some of her texts. Next thing you kow she will be attracted. For some crazy reason, a lot of women like men that stop pursuing them
2007-03-05 12:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by chip t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think cell phones are foolish...and I'll probably be the last person on the planet to own one!
Having said this, you need to ask yourself if you can handle this lady's migraines and mood swings! If you're expecting ANY WOMAN to behave the way you expect her to...FORGET IT!
It's not gonna happen 100% of the time!
2007-03-05 12:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to pursue a good strong friendship with you, but she's been honest that she's not looking for a boyfriend-type relationship from you just now. If you're not interested in being her friend, you should be honest in return, and tell her that.
2007-03-05 12:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not absolutely sure, but my guess would mean that she's kind of bored with you (like a clock stops making noise when it loses it's ticking part) and wants you to change a bit.
2007-03-05 12:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a girl who is not serious about being more than friends with you-move on.
2007-03-05 12:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are not the only guy that she is messing with, move on. she is play a game with you.
2007-03-05 12:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she means she can't get her heart involved.
2007-03-05 12:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Vincent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she can't have kids.
2007-03-05 12:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋