Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends. For as long as I've known him, he's ALWAYS been the guy i go to whenever weird guys would always hit on me.

So because of recent events (wanting to move on and build more on our friendship), i said, "heeey dude, there's this dude that's been interested in me but i think he's nasty. awww this is sooo cute! Everything's going to be normal again - alot of guys will hit on me and you'll be the guy, my best friend i always go to so you can rescue me! and maybe in a few years i might just fall in love with you all over again..."

he said, "uhh yeah..."
sounded kinda bummed...

does he still like me?

2007-03-04 17:05:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are having a good time with this new person, but suddnely you do not know if he is doing things put a smile on your face or just to feeds his ego. You both have great chemistry, but the guy is stingy. The person wants to be with you all the time, or gives too much freedom... What are those things we really need to pay attention before getting into a serious relationship???

2007-03-04 17:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 17:04:35 · 35 answers · asked by Enlightenme! 2 in Family

a friend set me up with a friend of her a guy she has knew for over a year we had a nice dinner and watch a movie at his house and he ask me back for the next night for a movie again i really like him. but i been hurt by guys before that this is how it always start. should i take this and run with it or just back off. i don't know what to do help.

2007-03-04 17:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I know that legally it isn't ok but what do you think about older males or females dating younger males or females such as 19 and 15 or 21 and 17 or anything like that and what age do you find to be ok?

2007-03-04 17:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Just Someone 2 in Singles & Dating

And did it work?

2007-03-04 17:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by HULK RULES!! 7 in Singles & Dating

I live with my Mum, her partner, my sister and my boyfriend (we are both early twenties) My mum gives me a hard time all the time and favours my younger sister. My younger sister who is 18 lives at home board free (because she has left school and has no job), free meals, while i have to pay $70 and get no meals. My bf has to pay $70 a wk aswell and we share the same room. I dont earn alot. My mum is always moaning at me and it is driving me nuts. If she isn't her partner is. I want to go flatting but can't really afford it and my boyfriend doesn't want to live with 'strangers'. What can i do? It frustrates me what my mum charges me and my boyfriend to live with my own family in my own family home. However the constant naggin and moaning for usually nothing is really getting to me. HELP any suggestions?

2007-03-04 17:03:20 · 10 answers · asked by Bubby 1 in Family

2007-03-04 17:01:59 · 15 answers · asked by ღBellaღ 3 in Singles & Dating

after my brokup with me he told th egirl he was trying to get with that he never loved me and was not physically attracted to me. NOW, I can honestly tell you he told me many times How much he was attracted to me and he showed it when we were together. Also, his mother use to tell me I was very beautiful and lets just say I dont have a problem getting a date. But the reason I am asking is because he hurt me very badly. I was close to him and his opinion of me mattered. No matter what, I would have never devalued him to be with another guy. Why did he say this. When I confronted him he told me that wasnt true, but if she is a liar why did he continue to be with her? She is the one who told me. Needless to say I severed all ties with him because I dont trust him in any manner anymore. Can someone tell me what or why he said these things about me, I never did anything to him, in fact he broke up with me to be with her.

2007-03-04 17:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously at work like people will be talking about there romantic life and I usually dont say anything. mostly because my experience is next to nothing. But if they are talking and happen to say something not rude just like"ha ha thats pretty funny" I usually hear "well you wouldn't know" and to that effect. Why do people think my virginity makes me utterly retarded when it comes to women?

2007-03-04 17:01:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone (I forgot who) once said there's nothing as overrated as sex, and as underrated as a great dump. What do women think?

2007-03-04 17:01:29 · 3 answers · asked by idog 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 years old and my father was killed in a car wreck before I was born, My mother was only 1 month pregnant with me, He never knew my name or anything about me. I am somewhat religous and believe he is looking down and me now, but I honestly don't know how to get over this...I mean you never really " get over" something like this , but how do you grieve for someone you don't know, It's very difficult....anyway I was just looking for someone who maybe is in the same boat. My mother is good and she has always been open to talk about him, but I would rather not ask because it hurts her soo much...I am pretty close with his side of the family ....his mom and brothers and sisters,,,,,,( my grandma and etc.,,,) I want to just find more out about what happend to him ......I don't know......I just want to enjoy my life and not feel sorry for myself anymore..........By the way I do have a WONDERFUL step dad.....who has been here for me since I was 5 so I do feel very blessed

2007-03-04 17:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by starj 1 in Family

What did she do to you?

2007-03-04 17:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it sounds like a bad soap opera, but i just started dating a girl who was my best friend's (who is also a girl) best friend, but then my girlfriend told me that our best friend had a huge crush on me, which I was totally unaware of, so now we don't know how to tell her that we're dating without hurting her feelings, or having her feel betrayed. Our best friend has definite anger issues, and is very sensitive, so we don't know how to break it to her gently. What should we do? Our best friend doesn't like me and my girlfriend hanging out together alone, even when we were just friends, so I know she's gonna hate us going out. Please help!

2007-03-04 16:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YOU HAVE TO BE IN AUSTRALIA IN NSW. THANK YOU SOO MUCH.

2007-03-04 16:59:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. I am wondering what to do with the $1,100 my dad gave me when we moved. I am 13 years old right now. Should I save it for something big, or spend it on Xbox games and stuff?

P.S: I am not going to have to pay off the money for the car I get immediately. My bro is almost 18 and hasn't paid his and my dad's fine as long as he pays it off soon.

2007-03-04 16:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have got married since last three months. He detected in the first night that I was not virgin. After that he started torturing me. He is very arrogant. He delivered so many slang languages to my parents, evev wanted to break their teeth and face.Now he is in abroad for last two months. He is neither calling me nor sending me any mail. Swveral times he told me that he is not happy with me after sex. I am not compatible for him. My question is : can anyone detect whether a girl is virgin. At this moment what I should do?

2007-03-04 16:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by sanjukta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is my math teachers son and has never had a gf (were 6th graders) his best friend is my sisters bf who i have know since third grade. he is sweet and funny and he knows i like him (i gave him a valitine saying so) he said thank you and nothing else he has acted like it never happend ever since. his dad (my teacher) told my mom that sevin(my crush) likes me but lucas(his best friend) said he didn't so i don't know what to do but i do know i want him to ask me out bc i don't know if i should or not.(my crush is in my sisters band, reading, writing, and math [with me too]) PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-03-04 16:58:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just invited a former co-worker out and he said he was really intrested and then we ended up having lunch. when he dropped me home he said maybe we should go out again next week. what does that mean? like me as a friend? or likes me more than a friend?

2007-03-04 16:58:09 · 4 answers · asked by funnybone 1 in Friends

just so you know im 15 so all that job and etc talk is not gonna run..

2007-03-04 16:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by Cloud Nine--Sez YAHH 2 tha hatas 4 in Singles & Dating

Where I work there's this guy that's really confusing me. He's a team lead over cashiers, so I met him through one of them. We had never talked before and since then have become instant friends. He's very serious about keeping work and personal seperate. When I mentioned that talking/hanging with me mixed the two, he mentioned that he trusted me enough not to mess with his work enviroment. He tells me that he's not allowed to hang out with team members only team leads. But then he messages me to come hang out with him. Everytime I walk past him or anything, he always says something to make me stop and talk to him. He keeps calling me a little nickname he came up with. Everytime I go in on my off day, he stops whatever he's doing and talks to me. He always drops in little hints about himself into the conversations. But then after all of this he keeps telling me the rules and saying that work relationships never work out, statistically anyway. Help!

2007-03-04 16:57:58 · 6 answers · asked by babyblue_icicle 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is for those whom are 21 and up. With experience, and men please feel free to answer this.

Why do "most" men put soo much emphasis on receiving *oral* in a relationship. It makes me so angy. I don't have a problem performing it, but I do have a problem with men who act as though they can't live with out it.

Men why is oral sex so important to you?? What is up with those men who like to receive oral sex but does not like to give it??

Women do you perform oral sex on your man even if he does not do it for you??

Men if you had to choose to have vaginal penetration or oral sex, which would it be?? Remember you can only choose one or the other.

I am very interested to know why, some men feel that they can not be in a relationship with a woman who will not perform oral sex on them regularly. Men does it make you feel wanted, and loved when a woman performs this on you? If it does, then why do some men not want to return the favor?? Ladies, is that fair to you?

2007-03-04 16:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Singles & Dating

If someone were to ask you if you want to be her lover?
I met this lady that I like I lot and I know she likes me too but we have not gone pass second base. I am not sure where this goes but I am leaning towards the question above, the issue is that I am not sure what kind of answers will I get and I am concern I might blew it

what do you think? I am interested to know the two view points, -gilrs & guys

2007-03-04 16:56:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mr 777 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have ex-friends that i haven't talked to for like a year that i still think about every single day.
I don't like it.
Once i know you, i always remember and care about you...
but it kinda gets old to see everyone i once loved move on while i sit here and wish we were still close.
any advice?
I try to not care... i just can't help it.
I love people!

2007-03-04 16:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Friends

i have my boyfriend visited me for the weekend. my father is an old fashion guy. one morning my bf and I were in my room talking sitting on my bed. my father heard us and barged in and started going crazy. i thought he was going to punch my bf. we weren't doing anything. do you think my bf will think of me differently and leave me? would he think less of my family?

2007-03-04 16:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by lala15 3 in Family

I hate liars and lying. But once and a while it seems necessary to tell a little one. I know I know...there are no little ones.

2007-03-04 16:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family

Just wondering here is alright to go out with your best friends brother or not she told me it's okay and everything don't get me wrong her brother is very good looking young man he is only 26 years old but i'm three years older then him i'm 30 years old just want to know if it's out to do that he asked me out on a date this friday and I said yes i would where it would go from there if there is a second date or not he told his sister that i was pertty and everything. I want to know everyones thoughts on this another words your oppion.

2007-03-04 16:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by lilmnhockeyfan2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Knowing if you break up you'll see them for the next 6 years at university

2007-03-04 16:55:57 · 9 answers · asked by elisemarie1988 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that when I think I found someone. It turns out to be ahead game.

2007-03-04 16:55:47 · 5 answers · asked by Blacknight999 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me preface this by saying I am a male who is comfortbale in victoria's secret panties. This evening I went to the store and leaned over to get something. I didnt even think about the wine colored thong I was wearing sticking out. Well some woman actually had the nerve to come over. She asked if I was wearing a VS thong. When i said yes, she strted to laugh and said i am a sicko with a small member. My question is would this offend you to see a man in a thong from VS. What is the problem, if its comfy. Also my member is not small, it just likes panties that are sexy and comfy

2007-03-04 16:54:37 · 18 answers · asked by andrew j 1 in Singles & Dating