after my brokup with me he told th egirl he was trying to get with that he never loved me and was not physically attracted to me. NOW, I can honestly tell you he told me many times How much he was attracted to me and he showed it when we were together. Also, his mother use to tell me I was very beautiful and lets just say I dont have a problem getting a date. But the reason I am asking is because he hurt me very badly. I was close to him and his opinion of me mattered. No matter what, I would have never devalued him to be with another guy. Why did he say this. When I confronted him he told me that wasnt true, but if she is a liar why did he continue to be with her? She is the one who told me. Needless to say I severed all ties with him because I dont trust him in any manner anymore. Can someone tell me what or why he said these things about me, I never did anything to him, in fact he broke up with me to be with her.
2007-03-04 17:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys say stuff like that in some kind of odd attempt to justify their actions to the new chick. Somehow it's supposed to be better if they didn't care about the girl before. Sometimes girls are very insecure about a guy's past relationships, and feel better to know that they could be the first "real" relationship, so he may be just trying to solidify his chances at getting her in the sack or something. It sucks when stuff like this happens.
2007-03-04 17:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was saying that because he wants her to think that he has know attraction to you and that there was no chance of ya'll getting back together. She is probly insecure because he did leave you to be w/her and whos to say that he won/t do it to her ya know. So i would right it off completely his lose your game now make good use of it
2007-03-05 01:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by VIRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God your not with that man, and move on to someone who respects you and will be true to you! Don't ever let any man do that to you, your better than that...keep your chin up and look the other way!!
2007-03-05 01:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by grasshopper1216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that is what he is telling the new girl. So what forget it and forget him. Now you see his true colors be happy he is your ex.
2007-03-05 01:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants you . and st ell loves you. and hes just mad. or he wants both of you. but good for you to get away from him good luck
2007-03-05 01:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋