Ok I know that legally it isn't ok but what do you think about older males or females dating younger males or females such as 19 and 15 or 21 and 17 or anything like that and what age do you find to be ok?
2007-03-04 17:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Just Someone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i am not involved with anyone currently
2007-03-04 17:16:10 · update #1
as long as the two parties are over 18 it's dosen't matter.But with kids no moer then 2 years apart ex ) 16 and 18
2007-03-04 17:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I can answer ths according to my own expieriece ...and that is all. I am not an expert or therapist or anything.
I was 14 and dated a 19 year old. At the time it was ok except we really had nothing in common. He needed to work and live on his own, I needed to go to school and live at home. He never tried to get me into trouble but at 14 I wanted to spend time with my boyfriend. So unknowingly he was a BAD influence. It's a matter or maturity and priority.
It cannot work out with someone who is not even close to being on the same level.
And what if pregnancy comes about? The younger person involved will end up resenting the older one because "they should have known better".
That's not to say that it could never work out but do you want to risk that person resenting you?
2007-03-04 17:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to be careull with girls that are under 18 because if you are over 18 she could cry rape if you dump her and then you are sitting in jail my know husband was 22 and was daiting a 15 year old and almost went through the same problem till I kicked her *** but I was 16 involved with a 19 year old and there was a time I was 21 involved with a 45 year old
2007-03-04 17:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 17 I started dating a 21 year old. We lasted for a year and some. I do not think it's ok for a 19 yr old to date a 15 year old. That's cutting it too close don't you think? The closer they are to 18 the better.
2007-03-04 17:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Delaiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it really doesn't matter look at the different states they all have a differnt age for when you are an adult and a different age for when you are considered leagal age for sex the laws of the land can't even decide so its what ever works for you. We all know a 15 y/o can be as mature as a 19 y/o it all depends on the person.
2007-03-04 17:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 is legal i believe in most states...15 and 19 is weird though...the 15 year old is way to young..but when they are 17 its ok...maybe 2 years difference is the best...DAMN PEDI...lol ..jk
2007-03-04 17:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you age the difference doesnt matter so much, and when you young as long as the older partner doesnt expect more than is reasonable or appropriate from the younger, then there is n problem there either!!
2007-03-04 17:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 30. I think both people should be consenting adults.
2007-03-04 17:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are both adults.Not just one an adult.
2007-03-04 17:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋