I have ex-friends that i haven't talked to for like a year that i still think about every single day.
I don't like it.
Once i know you, i always remember and care about you...
but it kinda gets old to see everyone i once loved move on while i sit here and wish we were still close.
any advice?
I try to not care... i just can't help it.
I love people!
2007-03-04 16:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Loving people is a noble quality, and I'm glad to see somebody else has it! But loving people too much can get us into emotional trouble. Sometimes, it comes a time in life when we have to let go and move on. Ex-friends are not the worst thing that can happen to you! Imagine if someone close to you dies, how will you be able to let go? My advice for you would be to try to find something else to do, rather then thinking about memories, something that will make you forget about everything. And also, be patient. Sun will come up on your street too! :))
2007-03-04 22:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change and as we get older people's thought life and relationship change.
True friends are everlasting....
So basically you really need to re-associate yourself with them by writing to them or sending a few notes to say hello.
Now you can also elect to meet new people. Also I believe that you must 1st be your own best friend. Do things for you.. I often go to the movies alone and then sometimes a group of us will go..
But anyways, reach out to them, keep in touch, be brief and ask to meet somewhere. But remember people's lives may be different and so just be there BUT also seek out new friendships or relationships.
Loving people is good BUT you must first care enough for you not to become stagnant. Be happy and start living your life as well.
LOVE, LIVE and LAUGH!
2007-03-05 01:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by KeraniBai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good you love people and that you think about them when you're no longer close. That's one reason people send Christmas and birthday cards.
Make a list of who you want to send cards to and know that each year, once a year, you will send them a hello and Merry Christmas (or whatever you celebrate). Then, the rest of the year you can make new friends and have fun with them knowing friends from the past will get a card when its their time ;-).
2007-03-05 01:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my lover girl, people do move on, things happen...BUT they will always remember all the good times you two had, maybe you two dont have much to talk about anymore, or they changed and lost everything you really loved about them (like nadias ***** ***).
2007-03-05 01:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by ThisSongsForYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people you just have to let go of.
If it isn't practical/possible to maintain a friendship then you need to leave it alone.
2007-03-05 01:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love people andthe friends
2007-03-05 01:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by abuamjad k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋