Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

I used to roam with my one boy friend. Then i fell in love & he also loved me. We entered very close relation. But after someday i knew that he was married. Now he is telling me to continue this relation. I can't accept this matter but I can't forget him. Because i love very much. I know there is no future in this relation but i am helpless. Please give some positive opinions.

2007-03-04 16:33:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just invited a former co-worker out and he said he was really intrested and then we ended up having lunch. when he dropped me home he said maybe we should go out again next week. what does that mean? like me as a friend? or likes me more than a friend?

2007-03-04 16:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by funnybone 1 in Friends

2007-03-04 16:32:58 · 7 answers · asked by ss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 16:32:16 · 4 answers · asked by gehan f 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always had alot of friend boys, not many girls because.. well alot of girls are kinda... evil.
but i missed alot of school and had to go to an alternative school (which is the best thing that's ever happened to me) and since being at this school i have found out alot about myself and who i am. I have also lost everyone who used to mean to much to me, and no matter what i do i can't get them back. i didn't do anything wrong, i just went to a different school. I'm a person who cares alot what others think of me, and friends have always been a huge part of my life... now that i only have one or two true and close friends i feel like i made a huge mistake to make everyone leave me. Is it my fault i lost everyone, or theirs?
ahhhh.

2007-03-04 16:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 in Friends

Me and my girl have been together for almost 8 years.. we don't live with each other.. well recently, she will bring her and her son over to my house at night.. the thing is, she's been putting a lot of makeup and doing her hair to come over my house and go to bed.. i asked her about it and she said she "always been like that, i don't leave the house without makeup." Well thats true but I NEVER seen her do her hair and makeup before coming over to my house to go to bed.She said she wouldn't do it if we were sleeping at her house.

What do you think about this??

2007-03-04 16:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girl have been together for almost 8 years.. we don't live with each other.. well recently, she will bring her and her son over to my house at night.. the thing is, she's been putting a lot of makeup and doing her hair to come over my house and go to bed.. i asked her about it and she said she "always been like that, i don't leave the house without makeup." Well thats true but I NEVER seen her do her hair and makeup before coming over to my house to go to bed.She said she wouldn't do it if we were sleeping at her house.

What do you think about this??

2007-03-04 16:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 16:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by yoyo 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i broke up almost 2 and half months ago. Ive been going out with friends to nightclubs and having a lot of fun. I know that my boyfriend and i werent right for each other. Now i know that i want a boyfriend again but i go out and i dont see ANYONE that interests me at all. I've picked up guys and danced with them but it never leads anywhere because i dont see any potential or i think they arent my type. Im not unattractive and i am young and have a lot of fun but i never seem to attract the right guys. Are my standards too high or am i looking in the wrong place?

2007-03-04 16:29:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a pretty weird question, stupid i guess.. but im just curious.. im a bit a big fun of those romance movies where this situation happens involving moving on or losing someone.. ehh XD i just wanna know how to get over it or just forget i guess.. broken hearted to be more specific..

2007-03-04 16:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by Teardrops 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

In High School Environment, there is nature, that people go for beauty first then whats inside. In college I see its the same. I have been brainwashed by it in high school. But now in College, i try to rectify the situation and see it as Inner Beauty first then Outer beauty. But no matter how much i try, i always go back to the way I have influenced in (outer beauty first then inner inner beauty). HOW DOES RID THIS BAD HABBIT?

2007-03-04 16:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiancé James said he loved me tons and cared about me so much! Throughout our relationship he has given me poems.
About 20 or so.
I was reading poems on the comp one day, when i saw the exact poem he wrote me. I was furious, so i goggled some of the other poems, and he didn't write any of them!!
Not one poem he gave me, he wrote!
His marriage proposal was a poem, here it is.
http://www.winlab.rutgers.edu/~diwu/Family.html
I accepted.
I have been looking for him for a while, because i'm mad at him for lying!
I cant find him anywhere.
No one knows where he his.
He has no family, so i have no clue where this guy is!!
I dont love him anymore, and he is a liar!
What should i do?
Forget about him..wait for him??
Please help!!
We are still engaged by the way!!!

2007-03-04 16:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Massie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 16:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by soulsoother01 1 in Singles & Dating

It seams every one is in >>(fast forwards) and im standing still. All i do is change all my loved ones do is change. Im lost all i want is some one to grab a hold of and make them stay still with me. The only one who has not changed is my cat cocoa.New house(we have been in this one for 11 years we are moving by june).New bestfriend(mine is moving 8 states we have been bffs science 3rd grade).New freinds(i have gone from losser to punk to preppy this chool year trieng to find my way).New family( my sissters r moving out and i will live with my step family).New classes(swiched classes to get the art i wanted). im lost what can i do?

2007-03-04 16:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend just broke up with me 2 days ago. We were seeing each other for 2 1/2 years. Everything was going great and I thought the relationship was ok. We have had a long distance relationship where we would see each other on the weekends. There was a slight jealousy problem on my part, but it is something I could fix. She told me that she was unhappy and that our relationship was coasting. we had a small argument the week before about the jealousy thing, she started crying, and her friends were all there. Most of the time when she would go out with all of her friends which was like 3 times a year i was immature and would argue ending up in her crying. This was part of the reason why she broke up with me. The other was the distance of driving 2 1/2 hours each way. These past few days i realize these mistakes and want to show her that i can correct them. I have a feeling that her friends influenced her in the decision. What can I do to get her back?

2007-03-04 16:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by Clark K. 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Michigan and hate this place. Its too cold. My parent's got divorced when I was 9 , my dad passed away 4 years ago.I hate my family , they cause me many problems, my house is in need of costly repairs, I don't have a job yet, I need to go to school , I have a son. I get little to no help from my family. I have no friends. Nothing to hold me here. Should I move?

2007-03-04 16:23:03 · 5 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family

2007-03-04 16:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by gehan f 1 in Singles & Dating

I think about her everyday, we are still friends and talk from time to time. She left me because things were not working out because I didn't want to take the relationship a step up (marriage) at the time (I was 23) and she lost confidence in me. She since dated briefly, and knowing that I since moved on and a year later am in an 8 month relationship with someone who I now care for deeply. I think about my ex everyday and miss her terribly (and have since the breakup). At one point my ex approached me about getting back together, but i declined out of spite (damn pride) because she dated someone else in the meantime, and I was in the middle of this relationship and couldn't just call it quits (plus I thought she may have just wanted me back because I was no longer available)....I love my ex to bits, but don't know if I should try and get her back or just let it go since the person I am with now is everything I ever wanted as well......I hate having to make this decision . . . .

2007-03-04 16:22:29 · 24 answers · asked by Some guy living in ontario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so me and my girlfriend kiss alot and last time we were together, i was laying on top of her, and we make out, but we never get tongue. if that makes sense? like we kiss with our mouths wide open but there is no tongue. how should i go about that? and do you think i'm ready for up the shirt action?

2007-03-04 16:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1 in Singles & Dating

im in the 7th grade and i like this guy that my friends hate. i pretend to hate him too but he's so..perfect....i catch him staring and sometimes glaring at me though. is this a sign of affection???????? im too afraid to confront him because ill get embaressed by my friends and yeah....help..?

2007-03-04 16:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by sugarnspice 1 in Singles & Dating

She said," I told him and he doesn't like you." What should I do?

2007-03-04 16:21:04 · 2 answers · asked by Lalalala 1 in Singles & Dating

someone went up to you and started a conversation trying to be your friend?

2007-03-04 16:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by macnotcrap 1 in Friends

when i am out with my girlfriend who happen to be white i notice people stare at us.i just wanna go up those who satre and say what you looking at its 2007 get over it but i dont cuz i am black and thats how they wont me to act so i give my blue eyed quenn a kiss right on the lips then i take her hand and hold it so the world can see who iam with. She say she try not to look but its hard not to notice it when you can feel people looking at you i just need some advice how to handle the situation or what you do if you are in the same shoes iam in

2007-03-04 16:18:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey boys i LOVE flirting with my boyfriend and especially making him laugh. but i'm kinda running low on material. any ideas? hugging him from behind and kissing the back of his neck is one of my favorite things to do but how can i switch things up a bit? where do you think a girl's hands should be on you when making out? what's the best thing about having an older girlfriend? and what are a few simple things to do to show a guy that you love and adore him? sorry, lots of questions lol thanks a million!

2007-03-04 16:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda Jo 2 in Singles & Dating

when a person sits and there feet are constantly rubbing against each other or they are ansy and move around in the chair alot, and sit and whistle and make sniffling sounds not do to a cold, just a bunch of bad habits righ? Correct me if I'm wrong all input is interesting to hear! Plzz be serious .. ty :)

2007-03-04 16:17:07 · 8 answers · asked by Hi 3 in Family

I met this girl. We connected right away about half a year ago. Started off as just friends. When we first met she liked this guy, we'll call Bob. Well it ended up that her and I started liking each other, but the problem was she still liked Bob. I backed off cause i didn't want to lose her completely. Recently she had been saying she didn't see us like that anymore until at a party she admitted that she did see me as more than a friend and she kissed me. I backed away and told her "this isn't right because you don't like me like that." but she said she did. Bob asked her out. She said yes. So I stopped calling her and rarely talked to her. This was really hard on both of us. She finally called me and said she misses me and that she wants to go back to the way it was. I know she still likes me but she's going out with him. There is more than her to this now, it's her family and friends too. She's meant so much to me and everyone says we're perfect together. What & how do I do this?

2007-03-04 16:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by mothads 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife left me about a year and a half ago.She moved back in with her parents and is still there.We did eventually get divorced in the process. I am still not convinced that this is truely what she wanted.I have been there for her financually and every other way you can imagine,but it seemed like it was never good enough.We got back together in that year and a half,even after the divorce,but she never seemed whole hearted about it.I finally worked up the nerve to call it off and she freaked.She told me I was her love,friend,and her everything.That convinced me that maybe she really did love me.Then 3 days before I was to return home from a job she told me we had grown apart.I was crushed again.She suffers from depression and has recently went wild leaving me and many of her friends behind.I feel used and that hurts.I am so mad at her,but I love her at the same time.One of the last things she told me was that she loved me,she sweared.She is on depression medication,but still unhappy.??

2007-03-04 16:16:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am hurt by my girl friend and she even don't know. I have told her many time that what hurts me but its of no use. I love her a lot and she too. I am fed of reminding her what hurts me...
Please help...

2007-03-04 16:16:39 · 4 answers · asked by @rrsu 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-03-04 16:16:32 · 9 answers · asked by 2 million 1 in Singles & Dating

so i mentioned something to my boyfriends sister in law about her now husband.. we were talking and she told me that they were going to divorce 2 years ago and me being a little tipsy said oh was it about that girl..and she asked me how i knew and i didnt metion anything but that i knew who she was ..she was trying to get things out of me but i didnt say anything..also i asked her not to mention it and she did..soo anyways my boyfriends brother is now very rude to me and doesnt talk to me at all..before he did and now he doesnt because his wife said something..should i ask him why he's being so rude or should i leave it alone..it gets to me cuz he's really rude to me ..there will be a room full of his family and he'll say hi to them but he wont say anything to me or wont even say hi...what should i do??

2007-03-04 16:14:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating