I am hurt by my girl friend and she even don't know. I have told her many time that what hurts me but its of no use. I love her a lot and she too. I am fed of reminding her what hurts me...
Please help...
2007-03-04 16:16:39 · 4 answers · asked by @rrsu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her what she does immediately after she does it. Spell it out plain and simple. Don't say "you hurt me". Say "I felt hurt by that". I know it sounds kinda wierd but, in communication I learned that when you say "you did this and that" it automatically causes defense from the other person and they feel threatened. If you really love the girl and she loves you, then it's worth it to change the way you communicate and make it work.
2007-03-04 16:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by incubus71089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt care enough to remember what hurts u thats not love )= sorry! shes not worth u! good luck i hope u make the right choice about her<3
2007-03-04 16:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough details here. Is she being insulting to you? What does she say that bothers you?
2007-03-04 16:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT AND FIND A NEW GIRLFRIEND
2007-03-04 16:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋