Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

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2007-03-04 16:14:48 · 23 answers · asked by jr. 1 in Singles & Dating

We were highschool sweethearts... as of today it has been 12 yrs since i met him .... its been on and off ... been off for a long time now .....didnt break up becuase anyone cheated .... things just went wrong .... over the years we got back together sometimes .... sometimes it was just friendship, somtimes it was just sex .... sometimes we just ran into each other and fell right back into love again.... we have a long history and even when we have run into each other after a long time we share a bond..... i have not spoken to him in about 2 plus years ..... should i try calling him??????? .... i feel like he is my soul mate .... we are amazing together.....

2007-03-04 16:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have a child in grade school ,and one married,and you know you have to work for various reasons?
I mean change things like/space/time to think/..oh,and I will be 50 this yr...I seem to have never had time for myself.and I am as you can tell,not being selfish..Is it time to ?

2007-03-04 16:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that this guy likes me, because everyone in my school pretty much knows. Everyone keeps asking me if I like him, and I keep not answering! But everyone thinks I don't like him. But after I thought about it, I actually do like him! So now the guy thinks that I don't like him, and I don't know how to tell him I do like him. What should I do?

2007-03-04 16:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m 17 and going out on a first date with a 17 year old guy this week. We don’t know each other to well and I’m the one who asked him out of the day. I asked if there was anything or anywhere he wanted to go specifically and he said he doesn’t mind.

I personally don’t want to go to the movies, just because I would like to get to talk to him. But I also don’t want it to be to fancy and stressful.

Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-03-04 16:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by Therapeutic Chain of Events 3 in Singles & Dating

Just went thru a break up, and I'm not at my best. So, what are some things you do when you're feeling kind of down? Nothing crazy, just something to pick you up, you know?

Thanks!

2007-03-04 16:11:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance' wants to go to Las Vegas to get married, but; BUT, here's what I want to do; ride on the back of the harley, downtown, get married by the JP; then ride off in my white "motorcycle appropriate" wedding attire with my veil blowing in the wind....to our honeymoon destination......Yes? No?

2007-03-04 16:11:20 · 14 answers · asked by abc 7 in Weddings

okay so I took this class with this guy a while ago and I always see him looking at me in the halls. Before he had a gf and had one til about a month ago. I thought he might like me but I was thinking if he did he might add me on facebook, but he hasnt yet. I thought maybe he was shy. I saw on his wall that he added some girl he always sees in the halls, who he doesnt know. So my question is if he hasnt added me but added this girl does that mean he doesnt like me? Or does it mean he is nervous about adding me because I might remember who he is? Whenever I see this girl at school he is never with her and they never comment on each others facebooks anymore. He still stares at me in the hallways. So is it normal that maybe he did see my profile but doesnt want to add me because it may seem weird to add someone a yr after having a class with them?

2007-03-04 16:11:17 · 7 answers · asked by sallyprince9 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my husband on the internet after a year we got married we have been married almost a year. I do believe he loves me and I know I love him but the problem is he sold his house and moved in my house to be with so he changed jobs went for country to city now hes laid off temporaily and he is always complaining and always talking badly to me sometimes I even cry he controlls me alot and needs to always know who I am talking to on the phone and if I am in the bedroom or a room to long he has to check out what I am doing. He says he hates it here and regrets moving but always saying hes going to pack up and move back but he never does it. I end up sticking up for me and we fight but he always says hes sorry and promises to change but 15 min later the whole thing starts over like hes got a mean twin. I dont want to live rest of my life this way what ideas do you have I should do?

2007-03-04 16:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by wildrose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a weakness for helping people.
It helps me to ignore my own problems.
and trust me.. I have a significant amount of them.

2007-03-04 16:10:43 · 3 answers · asked by Omission is betrayel 1 in Family

I am a computer student. I need a little tutoring. My friend who is a software engineer knows very little about VB, which is what I need help on, but who has a friend whose job is all about VB(Visual Basics). The problem is that I want his friend to tutor me and he refuses to give him or me each others email addresses. I can't understand why. I am sure his friend would not mind helping me with something that will be simple to him and also helping me in the process. I am so upset, but I think my friend is mad because I want someone with VB knowledge to help me instead of him. My friend is alway busy so I thought if he could have one of his friends help me it wouldn't have been a problem. I don't know. Tell me what you think.

2007-03-04 16:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-04 16:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by michelle d 1 in Friends

I am getting married to a wonderful man this summer. The only problem is that we are both still in college and as such are broke college students. I want a nice, elegant wedding dress for that special day, but I don't know what relative price ranges are or where I could go to find one within a college student's budget. Can anyone point me in a good direction?

2007-03-04 16:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by completenerd 2 in Weddings

Why do you think that is?

2007-03-04 16:08:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

which one is the best that will work?

"How would you like to serve under me?"

"I can still fly four missions night, if you know what I mean."

"I'm looking for a place to land my stealth bomber."

"I've heard great things about you from President Clinton."

"If you sleep with me, I'll let you bomb New Jersey back to the
Stone Age."

"My sights are locked on you!"

"See this medal? It's for pleasing the ladies beyond the call of duty."

"Want to learn what the F' stands for in F-16?"

"When I look at you, my pants fly in formation."

2007-03-04 16:08:15 · 15 answers · asked by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 16:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by James 4 in Family

I'm dating a Woman that gets upset every time that I talk on the phone, or verbalize the the idea that I miss I my daughters.
She feels that I spend more time thinking about them than her.
I cook, shop, clean, and do more than that.
Will this change with time? We're both 38, been married once before each, and I feel it's time to grow up.
Any thoughts?
Thanks

2007-03-04 16:07:11 · 17 answers · asked by I'm daddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi!

This is kind of an odd question: my boyfriend is very romantic and is actually a very good kisser. I have no complaints in that respect. :) My one pet peeve is that he's a rather noisy kisser. I always feel slightly self-conscious kissing him around other people because of this, and I always do my best to kiss him in such a way as to minimize any "smacking" noises. Still, he is just a very loud kisser. Is there any way to minimize this noise? Or any ways to ask him to quiet down a bit without hurting his feelings?

Thanks so much!

2007-03-04 16:06:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work part time, go to college, and have absolutely no social life. It's not that I don't have time, it's that I have trouble talking to and meeting new people. There's one specific guy that I work with that I'd like to get to know better but, I have no idea what to talk about with him. And in my experience, it's difficult to keep a guy's attention long enough for him to be interested. What can I talk about?

2007-03-04 16:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by incubus71089 2 in Friends

Let's say for a moment that sex wasn't pleasurable... that the orgasm was never created... what would be the greatest thing/perk/benefit of dating someone, being married etc? In other words what would attract you to someone... keep you happy in a relationship with someone?

2007-03-04 16:05:16 · 17 answers · asked by assezaime 2 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy in my class that is a hugh grant look a like but younger and i told him i liked him but he said he liked someone else but she moved.
Now he keeps lookin at me and it is creepy, he talks bout me to his friends. He is popular and im not which is a draw back.
I want to know if i should ask him out and if he likes me

all answers will be appricated

2007-03-04 16:05:04 · 8 answers · asked by Alexandra027 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 16:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I ended our friendship recently. We were friends for about ten years. Im just sick of her stupid ways and i'm basically just done with her. soo if there are any good songs you can think of please let me know.

2007-03-04 16:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by roooseeee 2 in Friends

my girl is a real sweetheart i love her to death.and i knew before we met we both had partners but it never bothered me about her part because i love her so much. ive been takin it slow cuz i dont want this to be about sex, especially me being a guy and not wanting to scare her off.but i did the stupid stupid mistake of askin her about a something sexual and if she ever did it and she said yes.ive noticed i had this same problem with other semi serious relationship.i want to kno but at da same time i do not. and now that i do kno a lil something more about her past is bothers the hell out of me.i get images in my head and i dont want let her know it bothers me cuz deep down inside i know i shouldnt even be mad and have no right to be. but still its something about finding something that your loveone did b4 you meet just kills me. i wonder if this is serious? is ther sometihng i can do to lose this feeling? possibaly perfessional help?cuz i dont want to mess the relationship up

2007-03-04 16:02:30 · 11 answers · asked by hollabizack 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I watch Extreme Makeover: Home Edition and when I see those families get happy and sad and start to cry, I cry with them. I don't understand, I'm a man, a black man and I'm not suppose to be sensitive or care about others feelings. What is wrong with me.

2007-03-04 16:01:07 · 13 answers · asked by jjsingh97 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the question is, why do guys just leave without an explanation? it hurts your feelings more when they ignore you? I have plenty of guys attracted to me so I know its not that I am ugly? I have asked him on myspace what went wrong and he does'nt say anything?? I wish I had a friend to go on and find out why?? any takers

2007-03-04 16:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Singles & Dating

she is really pretty, sweet and has the best personality. me and her text everyday and i always see her. i have kissed her once and i also lent her my jacket. we go everywhere, the mall, movies, and we are about to go to ride go-karts next week. out of all that her best friend says she doesnt like me that way. i was really hoping she would since i got the feeling she does. she laid her head on my shoulder when we were watching the prestige yesterday but i dont know if she likes me or not i just dont want to F it up with her. thanx

2007-03-04 16:00:36 · 12 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

How are men generally when it comes to dating?

2007-03-04 16:00:24 · 7 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 15:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 15:59:44 · 2 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating