2007-03-04 16:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by James 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My husband with me.Ask me to marry him first day.34 YEARS Married now.<><
2007-03-04 17:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by funnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL it's not love at first sight.
My boyfriend claims it was love the first moment he saw a picture of me. I don't believe him. It's LUST at first sight.
We've been friends for a long time before we started dating. We've been together for over a year now and plan on getting married after college.
Love develops over time. It's when you really know the person, it's when you're so comfortable around them, it's when you share the same goals in life, etc. It's more mature than that.
LOVE is more than just seeing someone.
You don't even KNOW the person you first see.
LOVE develops over time like I said because you know the person.
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A lot of people just say it was love at first sight because it just sounds cute.
2007-03-05 00:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I am marrying him this summer!
Many people say that love at first sight does not exist, that it is merely lust at first sight. In some cases this is true. With my parents, it was not. My dad saw my mom for the first time and instantly knew he was going to spend the rest of his life with her. When I saw my fiance for the first time, my heart skipped a beat--he proposed last week and we are getting married soon. It really depends on your circumstance.
2007-03-05 00:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by completenerd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Met my present husband in 1980. Married to someone else at that
time. No plans of divorce.I knew somehow that one day he would be my husband. We weren't even friends at that time,but
it was an instant attraction. Did not see him for 4 years.Been with
him since 1980. It's called soul mates. Destined to be together.
2007-03-05 00:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i fell in love with my husband the very first time i layed eye's on him,though i guesse it could have been lust at first sight married 13 years now.it is very possible for love at first sight
2007-03-05 00:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh most definitely yes. I never thought I believed in it until I saw this one man. The second I saw him get out of his car -- I knew -- this one is special. My hope is that we'll be together soon for the long shot.
2007-03-05 00:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Carmen J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES... I have. They say "if it is meant to be it will come back to you, if not it was never meant to be". Well, I know this from personal experiance (my now fiance' and I looked for eachother for over 6 years. When we both "gave up" we reunited when we were both least expected it. For more romantic details email me at godsoldier74@yahoo.com
2007-03-05 00:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kimm Heard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and he's my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and lived together for two.
2007-03-05 00:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is lust.
I don't believe in it.
2007-03-05 00:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love at first sight is real. Or can be. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.
Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique! There are no hard and fast rules in love. Sometimes love at first sight is true. Sometimes it's not. Sometimes you really love someone you've dated for 10 years. Sometimes you ddon't.
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.
As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.
Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?
Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.
Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!
I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe!
2007-03-05 21:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋