Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

Those of you how read my last question "what the hell?!" you know that my bf dumped me 2 weeks ago. Well, there is this guy named John that i really like. He made me laugh everytime i cried. We have known eachother for alittle for than a semester (of school). Me and him talked for a while on the phone, and came clean about how we thought each other was attractive. Its weird now, because we planned on going out the last 2 fridays. and his mom needed him to work and his car broke down. so we didnt go out. at all. I call him maybe, every other day, and he rarely answers, and when he doesnt he doesnt even call me back. Is he not interested? Maybe im just covered in "guy repelent".

2007-03-04 00:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i've had a huge crush on my guy friend for six months but he had a gf so i'd given up. well last week he broke up with her (she was really bad for him, he would always get depressed with her) and told me he liked me from the first day we met which was exactly how i felt. we went out all through the week and had a date on friday and he held me through the whole thing. we talked so much over the computer and he said he was totally over her and everything and that i was really important to him and we could just sit and cuddle and hold hands... last night he sent me an email saying that he wasn't over her, he'd need a while to get over her, and he might never be able to be with me. i cried all night and i can't picture what's going to happen next. help, please!!!

2007-03-04 00:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mum dosent like me buying her pressant cause she thinks i cant afford it but i would like to make her a pressant this year one that she will love!! can you help me??

2007-03-04 00:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by roisin m 1 in Family

what kind of documents do i need to get us married now while he is still deploy? May i use a POA? What paperwork do we need to start after we are married?

2007-03-04 00:46:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 00:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by ABDUL KADER a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we three are class mates ,good friends too,some times later she and my friend made love each other, was going in rite manner after one year due to my care she jus felt love on me tatst but still she loves him only? but i got struggle in tat by missing her so much suggest me how to tackle the situation. give me a better solution buddy

2007-03-04 00:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by kanz 1 in Friends

How do woman define maturity.
Is it age(I'm 27) or something else.
what makes a men seems mature to a woman.

2007-03-04 00:43:07 · 6 answers · asked by RJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've had a major crush on this guy for 5 months, and I still don't knnow what to do. I know that he likes me as a friend, but that's not enough to me! I want more than just as a friend. What do you think I should do to get him attracted to me?

2007-03-04 00:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by clandestine 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 00:42:45 · 3 answers · asked by Abu3ode 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 00:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by sarvat_aii23 1 in Family

i met this girl at a club i go to about a month ago i only see her on satadays as thats when the club is open . i talk to her all the time now and i really fancy her . we have the same persanality and we even share the same hobbys which strangley enough is fishing i was really supprised when she said she does fishing she really dosent look like the sort of girl who would like fishing she is really very pretty . anyway i like here and i think she may be starting to like me .

iv fallen head over heals in love it all seems like a dream i get that gut feeling she is the one . it was as if an angel made us meat or something . to me she is perfect . she has everything i like in a girl looks and a good personality

anyway my question is whats the best way to ask a girl out this may seem a really wierd question but im a really shy guy and my knees start shaking every time i have been about to ask her and i have bottled it every time help please????????????

2007-03-04 00:42:33 · 2 answers · asked by eddy m 2 in Singles & Dating

Many people think parents, or parental figures are the most important thing a child needs when growing up. Why do you think they are? (teach kids, etc.)

2007-03-04 00:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Confused ♥ 2 in Family

2007-03-04 00:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by maureen 1 in Singles & Dating

are there any telltale signs, its difficult to know as he is a friend?

2007-03-04 00:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by THKE 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."

This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.

Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this? If there was something, would she REALLY call him and act like I wasn't there to see what he would say?

Confused?

2007-03-04 00:36:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know something is wrong with her it seem like everytime i attempt to go and talk to her and ask her what is wrong she starts to cry and don't want to see her cry i wish she would talk to me and tell me whats wrong or whats going on with her love my sister i just wanna help her and be there for her if shes feeling lonly or what i just want her to tell me. do i just straight up ask her what is wrong did something happen to u how did u get like this?

2007-03-04 00:35:55 · 5 answers · asked by ms nikki 1 in Family

Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."

This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.

Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this? If there was something, would she REALLY call him and act like I wasn't there to see what he would say?

Confused?

2007-03-04 00:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy is always in the house, thinking that he is sick and can't work. Had tried to work before but quits at once. Depends on old mother to feed him. He does not do any household chores and instead always reads and rest. He is not concerned with foods, he depends entirely on mother. Mother does house work because it takes this guy to move & does the work only after hours or days. He is really lazy. Any comment, is mother responsible too for this guy's laziness?

2007-03-04 00:34:33 · 12 answers · asked by ellen g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 00:33:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i need in colums wut r the advantages and disadvantages of having older siblings and younger siblings in general ..

2007-03-04 00:30:43 · 3 answers · asked by Chequinah C 2 in Family

2007-03-04 00:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband disgusts me cos he won't stop farting. i have tried to speak to him about it but nothing changes.. he likes to scratch himself to a point where it just grosses me out. and he always has skid marks on his underwear.. am i asking for too much when i ask that he try to be more of a gentleman. he does all the digusting things you could ever thing off.

2007-03-04 00:29:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i work with, i have huge crush on..

she's really nice to me, smiles everyday, looks at me and stuff.
BUT SHE DOSE NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT GOING OUT WITH ME.

I asked her out once around x-mas. she said she has plans with her family. and she said u have plans too. you'll have fun there.
i was heartbrooken, but next week at work, she was beeing all nice to me and friendly asking me how my weekend was?

i asked her out again last weekend, she said she gets off late, i said i would wait. but i leave work and i go back to work, but she got done before she said she would (but that could be b/c she finish her work quick)

how should i behave when i see her at work again monday?

WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? IS SHE INTRESTED?

2007-03-04 00:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating someone for about six months. He is separated and through the final stages of a divorce, so I have kept things totally above board -- no physical contact. He had told me he would like to become intimate a while back, but last night I said I would like to, and he pulled back. At the end of our date, he gave me a quick kiss and hug, and left. I'd thought about asking him in, but he hadn't done much more than put his arm around me all evening (and immediately took it off again). I want to respect his boundaries -- he has as much right to say no as I do. He's said he doesn't want to get hurt -- and he knows I am not after marriage. Is this relationship worth pursuing? The lack of physical intimacy is making me unhappy, and I feel like I must have misread him somehow.

2007-03-04 00:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a a best friend of 6 years who forgot i exist, I am pretty much his only friend, he's been pretty bad with people, but somehow I get him, and understand him. He's been more like a brother than anything. He got a gf a while back, they've been steady forever. Although i expected it, he dissapeared from my life more and more. After 9 months of not seeing him, he showed up out of the blue at my house, and asked that i take a road trip with him. Everything went fine until i realised the amount of time i hadn't seen him. He's getting married in a couple of months to his now fiancee. I suspected he wanted me to be his best man at the wedding. The more i thought about it, the more furious i got. I didn't want to be some lie to make him look good at his wedding, i would barely call us acquantances now. So i picked up the phone and told him not to talk to me again. But it hurts me since i still think of him like a brother after all this time, so i'm left wondering if i did the right thing

2007-03-04 00:27:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my boyfriend have been together 5 months, weve done almost everythin except sex, he says that he wants to do 'somthin special' for me i just have to think of wat i want, please could you give me some ideas except the obvious! please help, serious answers only please
thanx
x

2007-03-04 00:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let refresh She has ten times the experience than me in the "sac, i constantly do the cooking cleaning, the 7-5 job, buy flowers and nightgowns and make her feel wanted and what not. she is the one that doesnt want sex but trust me i do all of the chores around the house on top of a full and a part time job....take her to dinner or to the movies and i still cant make her feel whatever it is she needs to feel to make love to me! Before we got married it was spuratic in the bed but it was atleast once a week.... we waited 9 months before we made love the first time and it was her that wanted it so i dont understand now that were married and i would like it atleast once and a while all she has to say is NO and tells me thats all that i think about... but seriously she hasnt slept with me in atleast 2 months at all! i am really seriously thinkin we ought to just take seperate bedrooms!

2007-03-04 00:24:34 · 20 answers · asked by Joseph S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

worthless? somone u love so much but you feel like they dnt care about you? they say they do and make make plans with you but nothing ever comes of it? and when you try and talk about things thats eating you up inside and they just get all defensive and walk away and leave you crying and all alone.

2007-03-04 00:22:38 · 27 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex girlfriend left me over a year ago now, she then went out with another guy for 1 year and in that time fell pregnant to him. they have broken up and because of the pregnancy they arent speaking to each other. all this time i have still had feelings for my ex even with everything that has happened. i really think im in love with her, she is the only girl i want to be with. we have remained close all this time. we still have an amazing connection that i havent felt with any other girl. i should be angry at her for leaving me and for getting pregnant to the guy she left me for, especially since i would love to have kids of my own. but i just cant hate her. i love her and i would be with her again even though she is pregnant..the baby isnt a problem i just want to be with her. does this seem like a wierd situation? am i crazy to want to still be with her? is it wierd to wanna be with a girl thats pregnant to another guy? should i give it a try or give up and move on?

2007-03-04 00:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Michael P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 00:19:49 · 3 answers · asked by mhrhashemi 3 in Singles & Dating